about

Hi, I'm Kristin..

I'm sixteen
I love to read the directions on everything.. Shampoo, cake, you name it..
I'm a pretty laid back person, in general.
I don't like annoying people, or things, but then again-- who does?
It really bothers me when people walk slow.
I'm really into photography and my camera is my pride and joy.
It's about the only thing I'm known to take care of in my life.
I'm on drumline.
Austin and Tarra are my Best friends
I'm in band, which goes along with the drumline.
i love just standing in the rain.
I'm easy to get to know.
Easy to lose my trust
Hard to get it back.
Obbessive people really aggrivate me

advice

I am so confused!
I like a guy but he just got dumped... id like to ask him out but
1) i dont no what to say
2) i dont no how long to wait
3) all of my best friends like him..

1) If you want to ask him out, take him out of the crowd so he wont be distracted or influenced by other people. All his attention is on you. As him how he feels about you, and tell him how you feel. If your feelings, well, feel the same ask him if he'd ever consider being your boyfriend. I know it sounds easy, make it easy also.
2) It depends on how long the guy you liked dated the girl. If it was for a week or two, wait a week or two. If it was for a couple of months, wait at least a month so the girl wont get the impression that he moved on so he didn't really like her.
3) If all your best friends like him, they should be happy for you if he likes you back. After all, aren't best friends there through thick and thin? If you get him before everyone else, don't bloat about it. Let them find out on their own. If someone else gets him before you be happy for them, don't be upset ♥

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I'm 13f and my second grade teacher, who I really really liked got charged with sexual abuse. I don't want to believe it but at the same time I know it's true. I even know the guy who was abused. It's always desturbing when it's someone you know and trust, but I don't understand why I'm so confused about this.

It's kind of like when someone you are really close to passes away, it's so sad and unreal you don't want your mind to believe it. Nothing's wrong with that at all you just don't want to grasp the truth. It's always harder to believe what's acutally going on than to believe the truth, because it's always harder for us to understand. Understand why exactly your teacher did this, you probably will never know, but you've got to understand what happened and what did not. What didn't happen was what you are wanting to believe did. Phew. Lemme explain that a little differently. What didn't happen- Your teacher did not, NOT sexually assult another student. You want to believe that is true. This is probably really confusing, but I tried my best ♥

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can you name some fatining foods?

Ice cream
Pizza- GREASE
fried chicken
(Anything fried will be fattening)
Cake
Sugars of any sort- IE, hard candies Hersey Kisses, etc. etc.
Chips- Potato chips, doritos, Lays
Those are just some of the ones I know ♥

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ok well my bf and i have been going out for about 2 mounths. well a couple days ago i found out that about a day after we were going out he made out w/ my best friend(brigitte) at my other friends house(austin). well b4 i knew this my bf and i were at a party and we made out and stuff and it made my friend(brigitte) that had madeout w/ him a couple weeks b4 really mad at me and i had no clue wut was going on! and so i found out wut had happened and i was mad too for a while but i got over it but my other freind kinda hasnt and she is like my best friend!!!!! i dont kno wut to do... dump my boyfriend or dump my best freind? HELP!

You definately shouldn't dump your boyfriend. Yes, yes, he made a mistake, but you forgave him, end of story. Your friend isn't in the right place to be upset with you, after all she's your best friend and she made out with your boyfriend? That's not right. If she's upset, let her be upset because there's nothing you can do that will change her mind. Even though she did the wrong-doing, she's mad at you for makeing out with you boyfriend (It's written in the unwritten rules of dating that you are allowed to make out with your boyfriend. :D) Your friend is just jealous because you got some of what she wanted, which isn't right. ♥

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ok, so im writing a story and i think its pretty good so far!!! i was wondering that if i threw in something where someone got raped it would ruin the story...(i wouldn't describe it i would just mention it)

No, I don't think it'd ruin the story it'd just add a little more to it if that's what it needed. You know, it'd jsut add a little ShAbAnG!

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I am 14 years old and me and my friend were ''playing'' around w/ this guy and after my friend gave him a blow job he fingered me. I would like to know how many days until I can take a pregnancy test and what are my chances of being pregnant. I am very worried because I am very skinny from anorexia and I'm afraid I will die if I am pregnant.

Well if he only fingered you then I don't think that you could be pregnant. There isn't any need for a pregnancy test is there?

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i recently got my hair cut but they cut it way too short for my liking, it just reaches my shoulders and is layered all over and i cant do anything with it so i was just wondering if theres anyone out there that can give me advice on what i can do with it or a way of styling short hair really anything
thanks alot xoxo


You could put it half up half down- it looks really cute with short hair.
Scrunching it is really cute also.
Or if you want bigger curls you could take a curling iron and Make the curls with the curling iron, that's cute ♥

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I'm not sure how many of you will remember but I am the girl who talks to her boyfriend on the phone, and I was afraid that I was caught because we were talking dirty on the phone. The link is [ http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=300878 ], incase anybody else wants to answer, but anyway, I am thinking that my mom may not know because she said that nobody thinks I am doing anything, and tonight, I was just talking to him, and she came up in my room, and said, "I came to ask if the conversations up here are clean" And I said yes and asked her why, and she said, "your sister told me to come and ask because I asked her." Ok, that makes me think that only my little sister may know, but I need other opinions on it, because I just need help here, could somebody please just lay out their opinion?


The only other option is to not talk dirty, don't do it at all. Just have a friendly conversation on the phone where nothing could get you in trouble. After all, why do you need to talk dirty? Why would you want to go around feelings like someone listened to you and if your going to get caught. That's no fun! ♥

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So im making a bet with a friend, and if i win i get to make her do soemthing completely non sexual (and i do mean completely) and im at a loss, cant come up with anything. while your answering feel free to make suggestions for her as well, shes having trouble too.

You could make her go up to a complete stranger and ask him.her to play ring around the rosey. Yes that would be fun. Inless you live in NYC or something, because I don't want you to get shot! ♥

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I would just like to say you have no idea how much you have helped me out. You really answer questions good and i know you take the time and answer everyones question the best you can. You have no clue how much you are helping everyone. please keep up the good work and never give up! :) Thanks!

May I ask who this is? Because in one of your questions you said "east" that's a school near me. If not, that's okay! Glad to help!

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14/F -the guy i like today said my older sister is hott (we kinda look alike) even though he hasnt seen her since we were in 4th grade (im in 8th) well my question is.. what does this mean??

He probably was calling you hot in a indirect way. This boy might be shy and not know how to tell you, so he told you that your sister was hot instead of directly saying that about you.

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what are words to describe food that tastes good?

Delicioso- Delicious or Yummy Gran- great bien-Good
Hope I helped a little bit! ♥

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there is this girl at my school. She has hurt my friends, ME, annd when she does not get her way she goes crying to her mom and tell her lies that are not true, then her mom calls us up and says we have been saying crap about her. I also heard that she bribed a boy to ask out this girl just to be her friend!!! She also says i hate my mom she is soo retarded. She talks about everyone behind their backs, and her friends do not like her. she also talked about how stupid and stuck up these two popular girls at east were and they are now her "BFF". I am not trying to get revenge, but do you know a way i could kinda get her back when she says a roud remark to me?? also what do you think about her. I think i should just forgive her, but it is sill not going to change anything.

I have had a friend like this in the past and they are hard to deal with. I think that this girl is insercure and has to run to her mom with all of her problems because of the fear of not being able to handle them on her own. I don't know what you should say whenever she insults you, but maybe you should walk away with no comeback because the bigger person always knows when to walk away and leave the situation where it is. Also, it makes the person you are walking away from angry because they aren't done bickering yet. I don't know if you should forgive her, even though the bible says you should forgive 777 multiplied by 777, sheesh, that's a lot of forgiving , but that shows the love that he has for us and we should try and spread that love as disciples of God. Just remember this: Be the bigger person because God looks highly upon that person because what he is doing is Godly. Good luck with this girl ♥

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how do i tell my boyfriend that i really like him and enjoy being with him but he can be a little to hyper? i know this is really shallow but it kinda annoys me! thanks again!

Oh haha, this is how my boyfriend is, but I find it kind of cute, anyways. I guess whenever he gets hyper like that you can just try and divert his attention to something else besides being hyper. IE ( You, a T.V show, something on the internet, a person, anything!) You could also talk to him about it when he gets hyper just hint like, "you get too hyper sometimes, do you know why?", but try not to make it offensive ♥

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hello there,
My girlfriends found a terrified bird yesterday and it wouldn't fly away. They couldn't take it home so they hid it somewhere out of any predator's reach and where it could fly from if it could. Anyway, my question is:
If we find that the bird is still there, what should I do? Should I take it home with me? And what am I supposed to do to it ?
I need this urgently please!

Well, I don't advise picking it up because the smell of your hands will make the mom not want to go near it again. A few questions need to go through your mind- how are you going to feed it? I've been in this situation and it's tough. We took a bird that we found in and kept it for a few days before it died. We fed it crushed up water-soaked cat food. Nasty, eh? It worked, well until it died obviously. The mom feeds the baby by throwing up [for lack of better words] the food into the baby's mouth, so it's going to be tough to make the baby bird want to eat it. Good Luck !

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I was just wondering..... Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 4 months now and i know that may not seem like a long time but i really and truely love him. And it may sound weird but i feel like god is telling me that he is the one i am supposed to spend my life with. Can he be the one? Is it true that i can find someone in my junior year of high school?

Yeah he could be. It doesn't matter when you find him, all that matters is that your going to find him and it sounds like you did. Follow your heart ♥

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My bf and i are planning to have sex soon, and I'm a virgin right now. What exactly does it feel like? Nearly all of my friends say it's worth it, but they've never really experienced it themselves. Only one of them has actually had sex before, and she said it hurt like hell.

This is only my opinion, so you can take it or leave it. If you are questioning if it is going to hurt or not then your more than likely not ready. If you scared it's going to hurt you then you should wait. I believe that if in your question you stated "boyfriend" and "sex" in the same sentence, it shouldn't happen. Only because it should say "husband" and "sex" before you even try anything. How bad would you feel if after you and your boyfriend did this, he went off and dumped you, or vise-versa. Just rethink what your doing because nothing else is worse than giving away a gift you can't take back even if you want to.

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My computer is having some issues with right clicking, and clicking links that create a new internet explorer window to open. When I right click on a link, all the options come up, but when I select "open a new window" nothing pops up, and the original window just freezes and then I get annoyed and close it. Even my msn is acting screwy, it tells me I have however many new emails, but when I click on it, nothing pops up.

I've run a virus scan, have a firewall, and ad aware, so none of that appears to be the issue. Any help?

I have a Mac (OSX) so I don't know if I can help, but here it goes. My guess is since everything else on your copmuter isn't working properly that your virus scan isn't going to either. You might want to get it checked out by a local computer repair shop

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Help! I making a CD mix for me and my boyfriend to listen to and need some names of some good romantic songs (aka good make out songs) Please help, I'll rate 5's. Thanks so much.

Dear Jamie- By Hellogoodbye
Giving It Away- Mae
All My Life- KC & JoJo
Only One- Yellowcard
Christmas Lights- Daphne Loves Derby

These are just some songs that make you think of your boyfriend! I put them on my boyfriend's CD. Good luck and it's sweet your making him a CD. I'm sure he'll love it! ♥

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I have a boyfriend that I love with all my heart but I'm bi.He doesn't know it. There was one time that he accidently called me bi and I fussed at him.I said he would probably like it if I was. He said he would never like that because she would be licking and then trying to kiss him.He said bi girls were nasty as hell. Because of that I haven't told him I was bi because I'm scared he is going to break up with me. What should I do?

Well, you should tell him because it isn't fair to him. How would you feel if he was Bi too? He was looking at other guys the same way he looked at you, and you never knew it. He deserves to know because he's in your life too. Tell him and I don't know if he's going to understand or not. After all, you can't have a girl who looks at girls the same way you look at him. Sorry if I sound harsh, but it sounds like he has a strong opinion about Bi and Lesbian girls, and he's sticking to it. You should tell him, but i can't garuntee how he's going to react. Good luck ♥

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