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boyfriend troubles
how do i tell my boyfriend that i really like him and enjoy being with him but he can be a little to hyper? i know this is really shallow but it kinda annoys me! thanks again!
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just say like whoa!! calm down er something.. hope i helped.. =/
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Guys can get hyper even if their gf is there. But the best way to handle this is sit down with him..somewhere wheres theres no one around and say "ya kno i like you alot and youre awesome but wow you can be a little to hyper for me"..and laugh it off..make it almost like a joke..but put it across like..it annoys you. Also..people usually get hyper when theyre doing something active like bowling or putt putting..it gets them hyped up. If youre tired of that..take him to the movies or your house...somewhere low key.
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i think you should tell him up straight not 2 harsh cse then hed feel offended and not to polite then hed feel u want to break up with him and wateva you do dont say ' i like you but ....'
nd everything be fine
tanya xx
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Don't be so weird. This isn't that hard, geeze. Good communication is key to a good relationship, talk to him. He may not understand because it's his personality, but at least try talking about it with him when he gets that way, or at another time just tell him he needs to calm his ass down. Just talk, or just stop him from eating so many damn sweets.
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When he's being hyper, just say, 'it'd be cool if you calmed down a little...I love how bubbly and fun you are but it's hard to keep up with sometimes. Don't change drastically or anything - I think we'd just have a better relationship if you weren't bouncing off the walls when I'm trying to be serious and tell you that I love you and stuff.'
You don't have to say all of that, that's just a few sentences I've thrown together to give you a couple of ideas of the kind of thing you could say.
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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I know how it feels to have to try and tell someone you love that they are annoying, my BF, can get so hyper, sometimes it is extremely annoying. Most of the time I just try to calm her down and say, ****** you really need to calm down b/c you are getting on my nerves, you know your my BF, you just gotta kick it down a notch sometimes!
Hope it works!
XOXO
Rebecca
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If you feel like you`re annoyed by your own boyfriend (( seriously annoyed not just because he thinks he is funny like mine does haha )) then you really need to tell him. Maybe he is just nervous around you and is giggly or somethin cuz he`s scared to be calm, thinking maybe you won`t like it. Depends on how long you 2 have been together and how old he & you are. Good luck.
~ KiiSsez ~
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yay for immaturity! (sarcasm)...just kidding, please dont get angry yet, because i do happen to have at least a slightly helpful answer to your question, when i'm done, feel free to take it however you wish. i have most definitely been in this situation before. unfortunately for us...guys tend to grow out of that goofy immature stage much later than we do (however sometimes it can be fun...don't completely hate that side of guys, its part of why they're so cool)...but if it happens all the time, or at the wrong times...i know how you feel. bringing this up during a typical conversation might be kind of awkward, but if you're ever hanging out with him, and he starts to act that way, pull him aside, when it is convenient and won't cause either of you any embarrassment around your friends, and let him know how you feel...just tell him that he's a funny guy, and you love to be around him...but it wouldn't hurt to lay off the hyperness/sillyness/whatever for a little while. hopefully i helped, if i didn't, just get him some ritalin and things should be somewhat calmer. ♥
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Oh haha, this is how my boyfriend is, but I find it kind of cute, anyways. I guess whenever he gets hyper like that you can just try and divert his attention to something else besides being hyper. IE ( You, a T.V show, something on the internet, a person, anything!) You could also talk to him about it when he gets hyper just hint like, "you get too hyper sometimes, do you know why?", but try not to make it offensive ♥
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just tell him to chill...like say whoa there davy!! or something if he really cares about you then he wont get mad..communication is vital in a relationship...dont forget that!or if he is younger than you then hes just immature(no offense)hope i helped!Good Luck!
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