i am an average teenage girl...i guess.
i have brown hair, not too long, but not too short either. i have multi-colored eyes (brown, green, blue, yellow & black), and i about 5'4ft and that's about it physically.
i play soccer, i play the flute and am learning the french horn, i love to read, hang out, go crazy, write, be myself.
i love to listen to music. almost any kind of music sits with me...but some types, i just can't stand. rock n' roll or heavy metal is basically my favorite.
i am still in school, and i am crazy for taking the classes that i take...
and well, that's about it.
Website: myspace
E-mail: thepresident89@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: montana
Occupation: student
Age: 17
AIM: noggindude22
Member Since: August 10, 2004
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Last Update: December 31, 2005
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i have just moved to a new skool, and i have noticed that most of the girls at my skool like me. now i just got here and wont be here for long and hardly know any of them. and it's really obvious on who likes me cause i often find them staring at me then they stop when i see they are. i wanna know wat i should do about this.... i'll rate i guess if its good (link)
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ask the girls to do something. but before that, get to know them. ask to sit next to them, ask them to work with you on stuff. just general stuff. almost the same thing you wuld a guy, just not as blunt.
hope i helped.
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i have this friend that talks about me to my best friend nd my best friend tells me everything she says..my friend isnt the nicest person and she really hurts me but im afraid to confront her wat should i do? thanx a bunch! (link)
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if she is talking about you behind your back, then why is she your friend? i think you should confront her because if you don't, she will continue to do what she is doing. there is no way to stop a problem without going to its source. talk to her and see what happenes.
hope i helped.
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okay this is semi long so i am sorry but i really want advice: my mom died when i was 3 and i went to SO MUCH counseling. family,alone you name it. i stopped around the end of 3rd grade. but now that i am a teenager i realize how much i want/need a mother figure. i have my grandmother and i love her dearly but its not the same. i try to talk to my friends but they cant really relate and i feel bad making my problems their problems. i sort of want to go back to counseling but it costs SO MUCH and i am not sure i need it....
help me please? (link)
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you want to go back to counseling, but think of your friends for a sec. are there any of your firends that you are REALLY close too? if you have a close friend, there mom could be a mother figure to you. i still have my mother with me, but i still have a lot of cergit mothers. only two or three, but they help a lot. try that, and if it doesn't work, look into going back to counseling.
hope i helped.
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Hey, so heres my problem, theres this girl. We like each other. But we have(more like she has) made the decision not to date until were like 16. So thats fine i'm willing to wait. But theres a lot of other girls that like me. And i do want to date and she said that she doesn't care if i date while i wait. But.....well i really like her. Like almost love her. Cus we've known each other since like the age of 3. But i moved when i was 8. And now at 14 she shows up at my church. So i'm really confused on what to do. So PLEASE HELP ME!!!
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you are both 14?
if you really like this girl, and you are willing to wait..then wait. even if she says she doesn't care that you date, its more than likely that she does and will be hurt if you do date someone else.
see what happens with your relationship, and maybe she might change her mind.
hope i helped.
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Im not sure if i should break up with my boyfriend or not. Lately things havent been going good for us. We been going out 3 months by the way. I just got back from a trip and he only texted me twice while I was gone & i just called him to see if he wanted to go somewhere and he didnt barely talk at all, he didnt ask how my trip went, or that he missed me or anything. Right after I asked him, he said no & said bye. I dunno how I should break up with him though, I cant do it in person cuz we have spring break and I cant see him all week for different reasons and I sure dont want to call him again... I dunno please help me. (link)
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before you think of breaking up with him, you should talk to him in person whenever you can. it helps a lot to look the person in the eye and see if they really mean what they say. on the phone, anyone can say anything and not mean it. and plus on the phone really sucks. it kinda seemes like you don't care and that you just want to be rid of him. like i said before, just talk to him at the first chance you get, then think about what you should do.
i hope i helped.
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I want to experiment with highliting my hair. Are there are specific home kits i can use that are really easy and not too hard to follow? Also if there is a certain kind that the color fades away over time? (i've heard of kits that do tat) that'd b good too..if anyone knows some good products that'd be great, thanks. (link)
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there are some good home kits that aren't too hard to follow. have someone help you, it might be easier. but anyway, Herbal Essence is a good one. i like that one the best.
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When I'm on my piriod, my friends ask me to do something, and I always say no, becuase well, I'm embarrassed that my blood is going to leek through. So my friends get all mad at me becuase, well I don't tell them why, but I really don't want to tell them that I am on my period.. what do I do so that they won't be mad at me when I say I can't?? (link)
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well, if its your girl friends, you should probably tell them, because every girl goes through the same thing. just explain that you are paraniod (so am i) that you are going to leek. maybe they won't be so mad.
also, you might want to try tampons. they work better and are less likely to leek.
i hope i helped.
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theres this guy i like and he likes me too... but i dont think my mom would approve of him because he smokes. everytime i want to hang out with him i have to lie to my mom, which i feel bad about. i've tried talking to her but she doesnt listen. any ideas? (link)
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alright, first off...don't lie to your parents. they will find out and you will be in huge trouble.
second, you say that this guy likes you, right? well, if he likes you enough he should respect you and maybe he will stop smoking for you. all you have to do is ask. and he questions it, tell him that you like him, but is unsure about the parentals.
finally, try talking to your mom again. it never hurts to try again. you will probably be more miserable if you don't try again.
i hope i helped.
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I have been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months now and we havent done anything more than hold hands and hug. THe reason why i am affraid to go any further is because i am affraid that he is going to judge me because i have never made out with any body or anything, and he has. I am just scared i am not going to be able to do it right. What should i do?
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don't worry about it.
when i first statred dating my b/f i had never made out either. when you think you are ready to kiss him, go for it. its nice if you ask or give a hint. my b/f asked me and it went fine. you just got to let it happen. you'll never know what will happen if it never happens.
and if he judges you, you got to let him know that the "making-out thing" is new. hopefully he'll understand.
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My piano teacher just quit recentely and i am very sad. I have known him for a lot of years. He was great at piano and i liked how he teached. I just got another piano teacher. I like her but i really am sad that my piano teacher quit. What should i do? (link)
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tell him that you miss him.
try to go an visit him some time. i think he would appreciate it.
send him a thank-you card.
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hey. im going to ask my dad if he will take me to a dermatologist. im not scared about asking him though. what i really want to no before i do ask him is what they do when i go? (i have acne) and can they put me on pills or some lotion that will clear my face up? (link)
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they will check your face, see how bad it is then tell you what you can do.
some will put you on a pill, others will give you a face treatmeant that you will have to use for a certain amount of time.
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OK, I am so pissed off right now, I had a crush on these guys and they dared me to wear my short pink lavender skirt to school and wear a thong under it, and bend over while throwing away a piece of paper, so I did it, and when I bent over I let out a huge toot and now they keeping making fun of me! I am embaressed, but now they pobably don't like me, huh?
help please. (link)
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ok everyone "toots". its common knowledge.
if they can't get over that, then forget them. they are being extremely childish and immature.
go on about your day and when they make a comment about it, ignore it.
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Ive never had a boyfriend on valentines day before and i really want one because thats like the hole point of the holiday. If i could i would just ignore it but the past years when im walking down the halls at school all i see is guyz and girlz together, it makes me so sad that i dont have a boyfriend. How do i get over it? (link)
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go buy lots of chocolate, get some of your girls over and watch awesome movies.that's what i've been doing until now, and it works.
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ok well my bf and i we hang out all the time! and hes the sweetest guy ever and i love him to death but neways when we go out to places or we watch movies he makes fun of gay people! and it kinda pisses me off but i don't say anything i just laugh cuz i don't wanna lose him! but the reason why it makes me mad is cuz my step brother is gay! and i don't know how to tell him that he is and that it bothers me! HELP (link)
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ask him to stop and explain why it bugs you.if he really loves you,then he will stop.
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For v - day... if i got my boyfriend two little teddy bears... (ones a girl and ones a boy)... that have magnetic noses so its like they are kissing... would that be too girly like giving him teddy bears and stuff? (link)
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no its not to girly. i think its cute.
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I know this is going to sound like a stupid high school crush, but thats what it is i guess, this guy said that he liked me and he asked me out. At the time i didnt like him, i did about a year ago but since we had no classes together and i barely saw him. Now over the past few weeks ive started seeing him in the halls and beginning to like him more. I am very shy unless im with my closest friends and have never told anyone to their face that i like them.I want to know if i shud just wait it out and let it, like all my crushes, slowly fade away or should i tell him how it is? (link)
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tell him how it is.
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ok this has been really hard for the last couple weeks with boys well there was this one boy ive liekd all summer did everythign with and then jus dumped me one day and been wit a a new grl since.. and then one kid i liked i mean really leiked well he leikes sum other grl but jus keep leading me on and now he has a gf and then recently i got wit a boy and i really leiked him also but now he has a gf who is one of my bff'z and it seems its a pattern.. im left empty everytime .. WHATS RONG! plz help (link)
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your spelling is wrong.i know that.
maybe you just haven't found one that will stay.
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Okay...I'm 18, and I have these two certain good friends that I've been friends with for a couple of years. I've been feeling left out lately, because they're going to the same college, and I'm not, and they always talk about it in front of me. We also have this thing where we wait for each other after soccer practice, and lately they've just left without me, talking and laughing all the way. I take this as a sign that they just forget me, and it makes me mad. One of the girls I was good friends with until the other one came along, and now they're best friends. And I'm left out. I keep giving them HUGE hints that they're leaving me out, but they're either too clueless to know, or just don't care. What should I say to them/do?? (link)
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tell them how you feel. that is the only way. just be blunt and say "hey, you know what. you have been leaving me out and its starting to piss me off." giving hints doesn't always work.
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OK i got this realllly cute real Guchi purse for my birthday. Its really cute! and I just figured out that the most popular girl in school has the same purse! Im really mad cause i really want to use it but i can't because if she see's it shes gonna hate me! and well she kinda likes me right now and lets me hang out with her and shes really nice and stuff. BUt we cant have any of the same stuff as them. Even clothes. It really stinks cause i love all her clothes and i have the oppurtunitiys to but them! I really like there group! should i even hang out with them? (link)
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no, DO NOT hang out with these people if you are not allowed to be yourself.
that is the dumbest thing i have heard of...not letting other people wear the same clothes. ARGG...that makes me mad.
go buy those clothes that you want, use that awesome, new Guchi purse that you just got, be yourself and don't let other choose what you can and cannot do.
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I am a 39 y/o female with a question about a budding relationship.
First we are both cops, different agencies, but work the same patrol area. He is state and I am county. My "friend" is a 42 y/o male that is divorced and has a 12 y/o daughter that he doesn't have custody of but has visitation with. I have never met her, and hoping if things go well with her dad, I will get the chance.
At this stage we are just friends, but I think that it will go somewhere eventually. Should it, I would like to know from my friends in this relm, how to be nice with his daughter when it comes down to meeting her, and not make her feel threatened with her relationship with her dad, or make her think I am replacing her mom. I would never ever do that. All advice on this is welcome! Thanks so much :) (link)
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well first off, don't seem like a threat to her. she has a close relationship with her dad, like most girls do when there is only one parent, and its nice to keep it special. but, if you do get to know her, don't spoil her. just be yourself around her. have fun, and if there is some kind of a problem, then work it out with her alone. do not go through her dad. i hope i hepled.
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