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Hi,I'm gay,male, twenty six,my 18 year old brother's also gay He's been caught by my mum making out with his boyfriend,what can I do?cuz I'd like to help but I don't know how,my bro's really sad and my mum has gone mental,please I need sb to help me,thanks! (link)
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You are both young adults and can now make decisions on your own. If your Mom is up set with this and you are worried you should exlain to her that there absolutely nothing wrong with being gay. Tell your brother not to be sad and that he didn't do a thing wrong. Just see how chatting with your Mum will do you good and will help her understand what's going on. Everything's going to be alright.
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im 25 years only and when i see her my dick becomes hard to its full length till 8 inches rock hard and thick so wht should i do to satisfy my tool (link)
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Find someone else that's your age and not married that has everything this girl u talk about has that u really do want. You only live once so don't screw up your life cause you'll regret it.
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So i have a boyfriend and im 12. I went to my friends house for a sleepover and he slept over , i went home and i lied to my mom and told her that he didnt and then she didnt belive me so i told her the truth and now shes pissed and wont even look me in the eyes, she doesnt belive a word i say and we didnt do a thing. What do I do ? (link)
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I'm 12 too and if I do something wrong the deny it and lie to my Mom she's mad at the fact i lied in the 1st place. You got to gain her trust back tell her that it won't happen again and that if u do it again and make up a concequence for your self
Just be her little girl :D
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hi
im james
i wanna ask u something tht im verymuch attracted towards my elder sis so is it ok to have fun with her is incest sex is right or not ? plz reply me fast thanks.
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I don't think it's right especally cause she is you sister and would be wrong in the opinion of many including me. Try and find someone else your age you feel is right. Good luck and I hoped i helped! But just wanted to let you know that only you know what's best for you.
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So it's been 7 months since "Mother Nature came to visit" and when it use to come, it came heavy but painless. Finally this month it came, but SUPER light and full of pain (Cramps, backaches, nauseation, bloating). But just to be clear, I am a virgin. What could be wrong?! Please help me, I'm scared. (link)
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It's going to be alright. You either have light periods that are painless or not or heavy periods that are painless or not. You happen to have a light painfull one. Idk I've never experienced some of those things you listed about ur types of pains
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Ive had these red bumps on the tip of my tounge for the last week and i cannot seem to find a picture on the web that looks like mine, now these bumps just showed up but ive always (since i was a child atleast) had white -ish bumps on the back of my tounge. im just a little worried and hoping that someone might know what they are. (link)
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It could be that your tongue is allergic to something you're eating
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i missed my periods it was supposed to start on 2nd but today i saw very few spots of blood after the intercourse but the periods dint start please suggest me what action should i take. (link)
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Adviceman49 is right give it time it will go back to normal
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Hi,
I'm seeking a new job that will be an aide to me in affording a better standard of living. I currently have a fast food job and I'm only working about 6 hours a week if I'm lucky. I have any day, any times availability. I stay with a family that I lived with 12-16 years ago and they are gracious enough to let me live with them without paying rent. However, I can tell it's been troubling them with my stay because I'm not contributing much and I feel I have been here long overdue. I have been staying here 6 months. I have had $200 in food stamps but the past couple of months I haven't received any. They take me back and forth to work. I feel as if I'm a burden on them and I haven't been happy here. I'm constantly worried about my things going missing or my things moved out of place when I'm not around. I want a place of my own or maybe share a place with some girls my age where we each have our own room. I'm considering moving states. I have a little money saved up and I need so much more to cover rent anywhere. I really need employment with a good rate of pay or full time hours. It's really hard getting out of here without a car or a good job. I really need answers fast. I have been online searching and I haven't found anything promising. I want to be out of here within the next 30 days. (link)
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First think of what you really wanna do in life whether it's being a lawyer, artist, sails man, engineer and think "will i be happy doing this for a while?" then get in to a college where you get accepted and start from there meeting new people and during off hours at college for u then work at the fast food place and by the time you graduate youll probably have a love life, place of your own, a good job and be happy :D I know it's a lot but after it will be worth it
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ok so i just broke up with my boyfriend. and i like this other guy alot i acually love him. we are bestfriends and we used to be together but i broke up wioth him that was like 5 months ago and i really like him. but he has a girlfriend but she really dosent like him. how do i get him back??? (link)
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Well spend more time around him and try to be really good friends and when the moment is right say "I made a mistake I'm still in love with you and I wish I'd never broke up with you" and be paitent cus it's gonna take time for him 2 brake up with his girlfriend cause if u really loved him you'd wait for him and let him be happy by being with his girlfriend then after he's finished..go for it!
Hope i helped and good luck hun :)
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Do you guys have any advice for a newcomer on the site? Like how to rate, how to give good advice. I've already answered a few on here but I'm worried that my advice might be bad.
Denabella
(PS. I added my username for a reason so that you guys can give me a nice feedback and fully informed advice) (link)
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All you have to do is try to give accurate resukts and give ur true opinion and be straight out honest we all have r opinions tat's why we all r different! Have fun! ;)
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Ok so I'm a 15 year old guy about to be 16 and my girlfriend is 16 about to be 17 so she says she wants to have sex and I do too I feel I'm ready but the thing is we never get any alone time in order for me to see her I have to go to her house she never comes to see me and hang out with me so we never get alone time her 7 year old sister is always there bugging us or my girlfriend thinks someones gunna see because we're outside we don't have any privacy inside so we don't really mess around much but when we text sometimes its different pics go back and fourth and we talk dirty I don't just wanna say lets have alone time I actually want alone time but her parents are so strict on her when out comes to me I think I'm a good boyfriend we've been together got a year and 3 months and she still does go out much with me I know her parents they know mine and my while dads side of the family they're friends so is it me? Am Inot good enough? I try to make her happy I tell her I love her everyday at first she said its cuz they didn't know me but its been a year and 3 mouths they know me I need help/above what do I do? How do Iget alone time with her? I barely see her like 5 times a month how can I change that? Do u guts think she's not trying enough? Am I not trying enough? So many questions (link)
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Sounds like you have got a problem. Try getting to know her family better and getting them to like yu so they feel more comfortable about their daughter or sibling hanging out with you. Take her whole family out to dinner so they can see how mature you are. Then after their trust will be high in you and they'll leave and msybe you guys could save up 2 stay in a near by hotel
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I Have Been Talking To This Guy For 2 Months & I Really Like Him So Like How Do I Make Him Like Me Too (link)
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You can't make him like you but you can try by being your self and becoming friends with him and while you're talking make up get to kow you play games like 'the question game' just ask him how he feels about you guys be nice and b ur sef :D hope i helped and good luck
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I just started to talk to this guy and he keep's going me hints that he likes me but i don't like him, how do i tell him i don't like him but i would like to stay friends...what should i do? (link)
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First find out if he really does like you cause maybe h's giving hints that don't mean that so ask him " Do you like me cause i sure like you as a friend" say something like that
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I am having the hardest time losing weight in my stomach. I eat pretty well (recently I've been really good about eating...very few carbs, a lot of fruits and vegetables). I am fairly think everywhere else (not very toned...but thin). I hate workign out...i occasionally run but i hate it so its rare. however- my stomach is huge. its fatty, and i have rolls- its awful.
what can I do to fix this- and fast!
Thanks so much! (link)
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Sorry hun but you got work out if you wanna lose tis fat! You'll get used to working out the it will become a daily routine and you'll be strong, healthy and happy and all god ;) it will b fun with music or something so try it
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i am a 13 year old guy who is in love with his kinda close friend. I like her alot but i dont know how to tell her. what should i do? (link)
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Get to know her. Get close (not physically sorry awkward). Tell her you think she's beautiful or compliment her. See how she reacts. Take her out for dinner or to a movie together and if u want some friends to make it less awkward. she'll be falling for you. Then ask her out :)! If she says no move on
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So, I've been having pink discharge for a couple of months now between my periods. It's light pink.
I went to the doctors and got a pap smear done which came out clear of cancer cells. She found a blood clot too, this was when I was not on my period but a couple of days after. For some reason she was a little shocked and confused but didn't say anything about the clot she found.
So, I was just wondering if any of you have had this experience before? Pink discharge between periods? And if it meant anything?
Oh, I haven't had sex so no chances of pregnancy or implantation bleeding.
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Well I haven't had any pink discharge. It's not normal and i think you need to get it checked out just in case.
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Ok, I live with my parents, and I have a three month old Yorkie. I want her to follow me around everywhere I go in the house just like the two dogs we have as well follow my mom.
Everytime she gsts up, they get up and follow her, everywhere she goes in the house.
She's my dog, and I want her to be that way with me. But I don't know how. I don't want her to think my mom is her owner, because I am. But my mom hogs her all the time.
Any advice? I want basically a shadow.
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You got to train her. Try a few buiscuts they usually do the trick but my dog is attached to me cause i spend lots of time with him. so pet him pay extra, special time with her and she'll want to follow you around
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There is a guy in school that I like and he used to like me but when he asked me to go to this thing with him I couldn't because I had other plans now I'm nervous that he wont like me anymore, what do I do? (link)
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If he really does like you he will wait for another time you are available and do't have any plans. If you want ask him if he has plans when u are free instead of hm asking you again :p
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can you give me ideas on unning for high school president? (link)
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Smile, be happy, show people who you really are, bake cupcakes and don't be shy =) good luckk
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i have a couple of friends who hang out with this guy i like they know i like him i feel jealous and hurt cuz they have a lot of fun with him and he talks to them and pays more attention than he does to me theres nothing romantic going on but still they get to hang out with him and i dont and im the one that likes him what do i do?
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Girl, you got to get out there and introduce youself cause it's yyou turn to dress up and get out there and be with him....ur turn to be shown. It's tuff in thiss sitution but don't be shy to you crush se if he likes you become friends snd get to know eachother cause u only live once so do what u want
Hope I helped and good luck :D
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