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~A little Advice for the broken hearts~
You are afraid and hurt and you dont know what to do. You feel empty and alone, like the whole world has just ended. You have a hole in your heart one that feels like it can never be repaired, but just know that in time that hole will be gone. Getting your heart broken is like getting a deep cut. It hurts really bad, and no matter what you do you cant stop thinking about it because you know its there and its hurting, but with a few stitches and a little tlc (friends and family helping you through) and some antibiotic ointment (ice cream) soon that cut will only be a scar (a memory) it will always be there but it wont hurt anymore, you are strong and you can make it through this!!
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I havent had my belly button pierced yet, but its something ive wanted for a while. I was just wondering if, after the peircing has healed up properly and you can change the jewelery, is it possible to get rid of it entirely? Not that i want to, but i wanted to know. Can you get rid of the scar with bio oil or something even after its all healed up? Like, let the hole heal over...?
Thanks
Yes if you leave the ring out the hole will close and while it closes you can use treatments to try not to scar or you can try to lighten the scar if you get one... hope i helped
I'm going to the midnight premiere of Deathly Hallows and I want to make my own shirt. I want something unique that has to do specifically with DH and not other books and also something that not everyone else will have. I'd also prefer it to have something to do with Slytherin or the Malfoys but if not that's cool too. Thanks in advance!
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&gbv=2&tbm=isch&sa=X&ei=kw0UToegG4fegQermo3-BA&ved=0CDYQvwUoAQ&q=harry+potter+and+the+deathly+hallows+slytherin&spell=1&biw=1366&bih=550
here is a google search of pictures that may give you some ideas good luck and have fun
i want my ex back, but he said he lost feelings for me after i broke up with him. the reason why i left was because i cheated on him with my 1st bf. i didnt realize how much i cared for him until after i cheated. but i want him back, i can't live everyday like i used to when i was with him, he made me happy like no one else can.
so how do i tell him i still have feelings for him? how do i make sure i dont get hurt even more?
it's been over 2 months since i left him.and if it helps.. i'm 14.
Youre young and hurting right now, you made some mistakes that you are not proud of, but most likely because of the fact that you cheated on this boy there wont be any chance of getting back with him.... he doesnt trust you and you hurt him... My advice is to go to him tell him how you feel and tell him you are sorry for the past, if he does not want to start up a relationship with you, then you have to mature and respect that, and walk away.... It will hurt but you are young and you will get over it, I know you think your whole world is ending but its not... there will be other boys, and someday you fill find the one you are meant to spend your life with, and you will be so happy and so in love also one more thing dont cheat again look where it got you, you dont want this to happen again good luck and best wishes
So I was on the phone with my friend and she said that I was naive and that's why guys like "messing" with me.(And no messing isn't used in a dirty way it's just another form of joking around I guess). Anyways I'm actually confused what does she mean by I'm naive and that's why guys "mess" with me.
And what does she mean by me being naive about everything
the definition of naive is
(copied definition from dictionary.com)
1. having or showing unaffected simplicity of nature or absence of artificiality; unsophisticated; ingenuous.
2. having or showing a lack of experience, judgment, or information; credulous: She's so naive she believes everything she reads. He has a very naive attitude toward politics.
3. having or marked by a simple, unaffectedly direct style reflecting little or no formal training or technique: valuable naive 19th-century American portrait paintings
by this she is saying that you are not very bright... or smart when it comes to stuff they are picking on you about
Hi im 15 f and I came on here around september looking for help about getting over a boy I liked and became real close to over the summer hes turning 17 soon anyways I still havent gottwn over him bc he was like the first guy who like me and we didnt do anything not a kiss just became super close the closest Ive gotten to a guy...itsbeen close to year and im going to the uk in 2days and he was going to come with thw group I was going with.but he had other stuff . Is there anythimg I can do to get over him bc I. Feel like hes the one who made me happy ive tried to get him back but no luck its awkward and I keep thinkinb and crying worst part is I know I missing the things infront ofme I need help plz:(
It is hard to get over someone you love
"Change is never easy, you fight to hold on, you fight to let go" -The wonder years
I am going to paste a little advice that I have on my advice column...
~A little Advice for the broken hearts~
You are afraid and hurt and you dont know what to do. You feel empty and alone, like the whole world has just ended. You have a hole in your heart one that feels like it can never be repaired, but just know that in time that hole will be gone. Getting your heart broken is like getting a deep cut. It hurts really bad, and no matter what you do you cant stop thinking about it because you know its there and its hurting, but with a few stitches and a little tlc (friends and family helping you through) and some antibiotic ointment (ice cream) soon that cut will only be a scar (a memory) it will always be there but it wont hurt anymore, you are strong and you can make it through this!
~Stephie~
good luck and dont worry you will get over him all pain heals in time
im 15 almost 16 and im not planning on having sex anytime soon but i was wondering if i should shave down there if i do, i mean i already do moslty but when i do it itches and is prickly and stuff, what do most girls do. any suggestions?
thanks!(:
Christina :)
Use nair :) works great and no prickly itchy sensation :)
http://www.ehow.com/how-does_4883122_using-nair-remove-pubic-hair.html
there is a link that tells you what to do
what are some simialr dubstep songs to
"lights" by ellie goulding (WIRED DUBSTEP REMIX)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rMwCXhjmBkY
or if you have any other goooodd dubstep songs suggest them please
I was not quite sure what dubstep songs meant so I looked it up and I found a page you might like it is the top 100 dubstep songs hope I helped
http://www.nutsie.com/top100sradio/Top%20100%20Dubstep%20Songs/34087508
Do G-Strings give you butt acne cause I am 13 and I have been wearing G-Strings since I was 10? Is 10 to young?
Wearing too tight of a thong can trap your sweat and cause little bumps to appear... So in a way I guess you could say that, but (not trying to be mean when I say this) are you trying to learn about this or are you just wanting to ask questions a lot about this because you are all excited about wearing a thong? I have seen and answered many questions about this and also you keep asking on almost every question is 10 too young... Its ok if you are just trying to be all excited about wearing something that makes you feel "grown up" but I really hope you are not asking the whole world offline about this they may thing that you are trying to flaunt that you are wearing one and that can come off a little trashy to some people and I am really not at all trying to be mean and I hope you do not get offended in anyway I am just trying to let you know... a girl in my high school when I was going would go around telling everyone she wore thongs and she would say it at the most random time and a lot of people got the vibe that she was trashy and I dont want that for you... please do not take this the wrong way I am just trying to help
Why are G-Strings called G-Strings?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20071115171125AAiQQ71
the link posted above will take you to a website where the same question was asked and others answered
Okay, first off I am a teen and my boyfriends mom "monitors " our chats and ... well everything ( think what you want, I have my opinions too) Anyways she has a security type system that alerts her when we say certain things, and according to Jan (his mom) Angel and Horse are "CODE" talk.... I have googled it and everything and I DO NOT KNOW WHAT IT MEANS. I don't see how angel is a CODE word for anything??? Please PLEASE help!!!
I have never heard of these two words being code for everything but It sounds to me like the boyfriends mom is just being protective for her son... she is his mother and all she is doing is being a parent and trying to keep him out of trouble... it has nothing to do with you she just loves her son
My friend and I have a lot of history. Long story summarized...
I lied to her about a pregnancy from when i was 15 years old that I told her was aborted but really never became a viable pregnancy. The boy who impregnated me was my boyfriend of 2 years and we broke up when I was 15 around the time the pregnancy happened.
When I was 17 i met my friend, lets call her Sally. Sally and I were friends for 6 months before she started dating the boy who got me pregnant, he was a mutual friend of ours and rather than ask me for my blessing she just kind've told me it was happening. Realistically I would've liked to have just been asked and I would've said yes regardless, they've been dating for 2 years now.
I'm now in a new relationship with a guy that she thinks is horrible for me and recently him and my new guy got in a fight. I stood by her in that fight and he almost left me for it.
Now she's calling me a selfish bitch because I admitted to having lied and told her how I felt about her never having asked about my new boyfriend.
She says she cares and wants the best for me but she's also telling me that she doesn't want to be my friend because she doesn't want to be around my relationship with my boyfriend.
Now she's being rude to me and I don't want to show that it hurts because I feel like that will mean she's winning. I just don't understand how we went from being friends and thinking that we were standing by each other to being so hostile.
I am now 20 and she is 19.
Honestly she has a right to be upset that you lied to her but she is taking this too far, also there is kind of a rule with friends you dont date the others ex unless you ask them if they are okay with it...
But there is also another problem here, guys are never supposed to come in between friendships... if I met a guy who didnt get a long with my friend I would tell him if you want me you have to get along with her... but its not going to happen even if he puts in effort is she doesnt have respect for him as well and stop trying to push him out, she should be smart enough to know that who you date is really your choice and she should respect that as well... if I were in this situation I would say if you two cant get along one of you has to go and I would lose the one who treated me worse... good luck and best wishes
my boyfriend Junior. I've been knowing him for about a year now. there's this girl, stacy, who's his "ex" me and Junior have been going out for a couple of weeks now and since the day he asked me out, we've been hanging out every single day and talking on the phone/texting every day. he's introduced me to some of his cousins, and a lot of his friends as his girlfriend. a couple of days after he asked me out i heard he was still with his "ex" so i confronted him about her. he said that she still hasn't let go of him because she had a miscarriage by him and she's emotionally attached. I believed him, put that whole situation in the past then a couple of days ago one of mine and stacy's mutual friends told me stacy's telling everyone they're dating still but now i'm kind of starting to believe her because she knows a couple of his cousins that i've met and one of mine and stacy's mutual friends said that the cousins always talk to her about Junior as if they're together. I don't think she could be THAT stuck in the past. Someone's lying. I'm not sure how to go about the whole situation. He's cheating on me, he's cheating with me? he's lying, she's lying? it's confusing. I don't know what to believe at this point. I'm supposed to hang out with my boyfriend today. I want to tell him that if he has any feelings towards stacy then he should just be with her instead. I don't want to let him go, but I don't want to be played. I would talk to Stacy myself but she's not the type that someone could conversate with. I don't want to accuse her of lying but i also don't want to see her get her feelings hurt because of me, even though it's not exactly my fault. Any advice on how I should go about this while situation? Thanks in advance.
Best thing to do is talk to your boyfriend and tell him everything that you feel and everything that is being said... tell him that you dont want to let him go but you dont want to be hurt... and if he still wants to be with her then he needs to go now before you get any more involved... there is an old saying "If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they're yours; if they don't they never were"
if it is meant to be it will be... I wish you all the best good luck
ok so my family dont like me because they think that i will turn out like my mother... who is really bad.... but anyways she aint in our lives... so i ended the emotional abuse b getting up and leaving and now that i just mind my own business the go and accuse me for things they lost and like i stole it... and i just would like to know how to tell them to just back off respectfully and not like them saying im not considered a part of their family no more! it hurts but i dont want them to get hurt with the things i could say!... what do i do and say???
just tell them that you mean no disrespect but the way that they are treating you is not right you and your mother are two different people, just because your mom did stuff wrong doesnt mean that you did and you should not be punished for her mistakes and if they do not wish for you to be around thats fine but they need to leave you alone if they want you to go... everyone wants to have their family but if yours is treating you this badly, you are better off without them goos luck and best wishes
I smell like ass even after I take a shower, why?
maybe you should try switching your soaps and deodorant also try showering twice a day good luck
well, i go to a university but I am a commuter student. Right now, I am going into my junior year. I'm a psych major but I plan to get my masters in higher education administration, which is like to work in a university (advisor, counselor, admissions), and maybe pursue a doctorate to become a dean or even a professor. Right now, I go to a good, well respected school. a lot of my friends go to IV league schools and sometimes I feel kind of stupid. Even tho I go to a good school, I mean, it's a state school. But, I guess the reason why I feel a little bad is because I live at home still. I am trying to live the college experience to the fullest because I go to a real school. I'm joining a sorority and i"m in a bunch of other clubs as well. I want to do something called peer advising, which is like working in orientations and stuff like that. You help out freshman and transfer students. It also pertains to what I am doing. However, you cannot take classes over the summer if I decided to do it. If I take classes over the summer, I can graduate early. If I don't, I graduate on time. The only perk to graduating early would be that I'd finish my masters quicker. the downside is I'm actually enjoying myself and I don't want it to go away so fast. :)... I would just like to not live at home. I love my family, but I feel the need to spread my wings already. What I was thinking is that with the money I would get from peer advising (because they get paid... and very well)... I could move out. so i have three options:
1) don't do peer advising, graduate early
2) do peer advising, graduate on time, and enjoy myself (living at home)
3) do peer advising, graduate on time, and enjoy myself (moving out)
advice is appreciated. please and thank you.
you seem to want to keep your fun day for a little while longer which is okay but you also want out of the house so option 3 seems to be the best option here.... you have the rest of your life to work... so graduate on time and not early but also move out and enjoy your independance good luck
I hate my best friend, i'm not going to go into detail, it just all sums up into her being a bitch. Anyway, this is what happens when i get mad at her:
I'm nice, explain how i feel about the situation, ask why this happened. she doesn't text back for a few days, then pretends like nothing happened, i, just wanting to move on, pretend to. things go back to normal, another week goes by, she does something wrong again, and the situation repeats.
Because of this, I have a lot of anger towards her. I'm mad at her again, and i know in a few days she will text me.
Should I A. just never respond or B. bitch her out?
I am not being friends with her anymore
If you do not want to be her friend anymore then tell her but dont do either of the things listed above... how about option c. call her and tell her that you cant go back to pretending that you are fine and okay and then tell her that you cant be friends any more and leave it at that... good luck and I am sorry you have to lose a friend
Long story short:
I'm an 18 year old Irish guy, my life has gone to hell in the past 5-6 months, I fathered a secret child with my now ex girlfriend in February, told absolutly nobody! The baby died the following day, still nobody knows. Our relationship hit rock bottom dramatically after that, things got violent (not physically though) and in April my girlfriend stole €700 from my mother so all hell broke loose and I was banned from anything got to do with her. She became ill soon after and said she could die until one day she just cut contact with me alltogether. I seriously thought she died but now 2 months later she contacted me to let me know she's pregnant again, my whole family are now involved and all believe she is a crazy bitch full of lies, her life has been destroyed by my cowardness and selfishness yet I don't have the balls to tell anybody as the lies have gone on so long that the consequences would be huge and terrible. She is kinda pyscho but i love and hate her yet I feel I've done her wrong big time and i think i am a very evil person but i don't mean to be. I just make bad choices. Now i want to kill myself just to escape the whole ordeal.
Dont kill yourself... You are not an evil person at the time you did what you thought was right... tell them about the baby if you feel its what you need t do... you dont have to if it is going to hurt you this badly... if this girl is pregnant that be there for your baby but if she is not then I think it is best to leave her in the past and stay away from her.... you deserve better... if she is making you feel like this then she is not the right one for you ... and remember you dont have to be in a relationship with a girl just because she is the mother of your child good luck and best wishes
I am a girl age 19 and my boyfriend is turning 18. He is my best friend and I do think I have love for him, but lately I don't want to be tied down anymore and I've started to wish I was single. It's not really my boyfriends fault, but since I've been dating him, I don't do things I used to love and I don't really see my friends as much as I would if I didn't have such a close relationship with my bf. He's such a sweet guy and I'm lucky to be dating him, so I felt like I should be honest and tell him I need space. So I did and i thought things were better, but now he says we "need to have another talk" and he concluded that he feels kinda like im using him just so that i am not alone...since I want to date him but I don't want to be like super clingy and super committed and telling him I want to stay with him forever and ever. Do you think I should try and work it out with him since he is such a great guy, or should we break up because we both want different things? My family says I should work things out or at least wait it out because they know how close we have been.
you have to think about him as well in this situation, dragging him along with you for your convienence is not right... let him know how you are feeling and let him chose weather you should work it out or let it go.... he has feelings to and you dont want to hurt him by keeping him there and then in the future dropping him like a bad habit... be fair and tell him what you feel good luck and best wishes
So my uncle has me watching the children for the week because they don't have to go to summer camp. Problem is he won't let me put them in front of the TV. All day so I need to know what to do with them. They were 8 and 6
Take them outside to play, do crafts, read books, make up educational flash cards... kids are easy to entertain but remember they have a short attention span at times... do things that you use to enjoy doing when you were their age good luck and have fun
I have a crush on this guy but idk what to do because he is so confusing. One day he is all nice to me he will hug me and give me a kiss on the cheek and he makes me laugh so I think he likes me. He even shares some of his interests with me. The band that he is in has a fb and he sent me an invite to like their page and so far I'm the only female friend he's done that for. All the rest of the people he has done that for or his male friends or family members. But on other days he will seem uninterested and annoyed so I then I don't think he likes me so I go off and talk to other people. But when I stop paying him attention he keeps staring at me all time but wont say anything. I don't get it. Why does he act this way and what should I do the next time he acts distant?
Talk to him and ask him why he does this with you.. maybe he likes you but he is a little afraid to tell you... if he just wants to be friends then step back and just be friends good luck best wishes