Hi im 15 f and I came on here around september looking for help about getting over a boy I liked and became real close to over the summer hes turning 17 soon anyways I still havent gottwn over him bc he was like the first guy who like me and we didnt do anything not a kiss just became super close the closest Ive gotten to a guy...itsbeen close to year and im going to the uk in 2days and he was going to come with thw group I was going with.but he had other stuff . Is there anythimg I can do to get over him bc I. Feel like hes the one who made me happy ive tried to get him back but no luck its awkward and I keep thinkinb and crying worst part is I know I missing the things infront ofme I need help plz:(
YoungMommy answered Tuesday July 5 2011, 11:51 pm: It is hard to get over someone you love
"Change is never easy, you fight to hold on, you fight to let go" -The wonder years
I am going to paste a little advice that I have on my advice column...
~A little Advice for the broken hearts~
You are afraid and hurt and you dont know what to do. You feel empty and alone, like the whole world has just ended. You have a hole in your heart one that feels like it can never be repaired, but just know that in time that hole will be gone. Getting your heart broken is like getting a deep cut. It hurts really bad, and no matter what you do you cant stop thinking about it because you know its there and its hurting, but with a few stitches and a little tlc (friends and family helping you through) and some antibiotic ointment (ice cream) soon that cut will only be a scar (a memory) it will always be there but it wont hurt anymore, you are strong and you can make it through this!
~Stephie~
melissa123 answered Tuesday July 5 2011, 11:44 pm: well tell him how you feel maybe or .. if not then you guys can still be friends!
and i was going through something you were going through also! i know it's going to be hard but DONT think about him for awhile! try to keep your eye on another guy! text or call some other guy!
and this is kind of weird but what makes me not cry is thinking "no matter how much i cry, it's not going to change the fact of the situation."
when im sad or mad i go in my room shut the door and blast music and not even think about it!
sooner or later your going to think back, like im doing right now, saying "why did i like this guy!" hahah!
and who cares, your life isn't about guys! there will be PLENTY other guys, your only 15!!! i guarentee MANY guys are going to be chasing after you! you have your friends, summer, and many other fun interesting things to worry about
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