about

Hi!My name is Melissa.I'm from G.I. New York.I love being able to help people and giving advice.I'm usually the person who people come to for advice and i'm always glad to be there for them.If you just wanna talk or if you want advice you can IM me.UnLuckyWishes3.I'm really into sports and love to play basketball.I play JV voleyball and Varsity track.

advice

okay here's my story..i had this realli mean ex b/f who treated me like crap! i cried n cried over him every single day we were dating and somewhat after we broke up! so one day i decided to stop all my crying and get even! he has this g/f that he never even met before! lol but he is always telling me and everyone how much he loves her! haha yea..anyways i got my friend who lives in texas to start talkin n messin around with my ex.. ( i told him that she was my homeschooled neighbor)---like she would say stuff like "ohh your realli sexi..i wanna be with you" and just completely act that way! and my ex was always telling me how he never cheated on me and how he never would cheat on anyone..blah blah blah! so basically i was also testing his skills to see if he is a player! well guess what i found out..he is! he was telling my friend how much he likes her and wants to hang out with her and all that crap! and i have everything saved! so yes he does cheat! and he was also telling my friend that he doesnt have a g/f! what a loser! so anyways..he unblocked me from the computer and writing to me ever since i hooked him up! so we were getting along perfectly..then my friend told him that it was just a joke..she wasn't my neighbor..and everything..and now he's soo ticked it isn't even funny! haha i told him off majorly tho yesterday! but anyways..what should i do?! should i apoligize?..but he's done soo much crap to me before and now i'm in counseling because of him! so i don't know what to do! please help! i will rate you!

i wouldnt really apoligize, just after it blows over just treat him like any other person you would meet.dont really do anything else.I mean your even now, so its all good.you should just try to get along.hope i helped.

[view]

for a 7 year-old kid who's nice and who would listen to me (easy babysitting) how much shopuld i charge?

If he's easy babysitting and if you enjoy babysitting i'd only charge 5 an hour.If your really interested in the money i'd charge between 6-10$ an hour.Hope you have fun babysitting.

[view]

My best friend and I are like sisters. We've been through everything together. Last night though we were at our other friends house. We talked about school and stuff but then out of no where, my best friend said that she has had sex with her boyfriend of 2 years. It came to a shock to me cause first of all she is only 14 and then second she didnt use protection. My other friend though said it was no big deal since she has been dating him for 2 years. I dont know what to say to my best friend. i really need some help cause i don't want anythin bad to happen to her.

it seems liek you really care about your friend.I tihn you should let her knwo that you really care about her and want her to use protection because you dont want anything bad to happen to her.Basically just sit her down and tell her what your feeling.

[view]

Hi JennaRESPECTS i am really upset. Im really worried that my best friend is avoiding me. I dont want to ask her because i dont want her to get mad at me. But i dont know what to do to find out if she is or not. what should i do? Help me please.. she means ALOT to me. I love her alot. Thanks so much!

Sincerley,
Confused and Worried.
My real name is alli.. but thats how i feel

Wow.I know exactly how you feel, right now i'm going through the same thing, with my best friend{practicaly sisters}.right now i'm just giving her some time to herself.Maybe she wanted a break for a while, if you two spend all the time together.I'd let it go for a couple more days and see if she calls you or give her a call and ask her to do something.Or you could talk to her on the phone, in person ,IM her, or send her an e-mail asking her whats going on , I feel like i'm losing my best friend i dont want that to happen.Just tell her straight out what your feeling, as long as she's your friend she'll respect what your saying.Hope i helped.Let me know how it works out.

[view]

Im goin out with a guy who is 2 years older than me and he lives an hour away and we can never see each other and our parents don't approve of the relationship.He can drive on his own in January so then we'll be able to see each other but as of right now we can't and well im not really sure if i should stay with cuz well shouldn't relationship partners be able to see each other at least once a week?or at least once every 2 weeks?Anyways there is this guy who lives in the same town as me and is only 15 minutes away and he really likes me and i kinda like him and well im not sure if i should dump the other guy and go out with this one or stay with the other one.Anyways I really need help so plz offer as much advice as possible...thanks....

Boys are very Confusing :(

Yea boys are definatly confusing!Well if you really like the guy who your with now I would stay with him.It could be worth the wait.Right now your in a long-distance relationship which being apart from each other is really tough, but will pry make you two stronger.You should try and be fair to yourself and fair to them.I think whoever you have stronger feelings for is who you shoudl be with along with who makes you happy.Hope i helped.Good Luck!

[view]

wut do i do? my boyfriends best friend ahas been saying crap to me about how i should treat my boyfriend and is always gettin me and my boyfriend into fights. i told my boyfriend about it and he says maybe u should listen to him and wont tell him to stop. i no i dont treat him like crap but he thinks i do bcuz his bf tells him i do. his bf had a bad relationship a lil bit ago andi think hes tryin to ruin r's. wut do i do?

I would talk to both of them.You should ask your boyfriend if he really thinks you dont treat him like he should.If he thinks you treat him like he should then ask him why he lets his friend say things that arent true.Also i'd ask his friend why he says things like that and ask him for the truth or if he keeps saying it just tell him its his own opinion in a calm voice {which it really is}.It will definatly get on his nerves more then likely.I hope i helped.Good Luck!hope everything works out.

[view]

OK, the othere day I went to the doctors and the doctor told me this scale on puberty. 5 being you have gotten your period and stuff like that. Well, my friends mom told me mom my friend was a 5. And the other day we got in a fight and my friend was really frusterated. My friends mom told me, my friend, and another friend, you get really frusterated during your period. Do you think my friend got her period? PLese help! Oh yea, she has been in a really bad mood lately.

She definatly could be.I tend to get super mad at my friends when i have mine and i dont mean it and feel awful after it.Even thoguh she's younger it still could definatly be her period.If it is dont worry it'll pass ina couple days and i'm sure your friend isn't glad about the fact you guys were fighting.I hope everything works out for the best.If you have anymore questions i'd realyl like to help.Good Luck!

[view]

HI uummm see i just broke up with my boyfriend because he was beating me, u know banging my head n his car hood, and stuff , so I broke up with him and well i still love him for some reason but did i do the right thing?
plz help!

Of course you did the right thing.Anyone who loves you should treat you like they love you.you shouldnt have to go trough physical pain with any relationship at all.what he did to you was wrong and inhuman.i hope you find someone who treats you right.

[view]

if ur invited to someones birthday party and you dont realli kno them but u have talked b4 awhile ago but one of ur other frnds is frnds wit them and she told them 2 bring u .. should u get them a bday present or wat? like if its a "party" bday party, and ur not real close frnds, should u? thnx i rate

I would really recommend getting them something like thier close friends would.I would get them something small but enoguh to show you thought about them or make thema card and put around 10$ in it.

[view]

so a year ago my mom moved like an hour away to live with her boyfriend now husband....and i moved in with my granny cuz i didnt want to move that far from everything...and my sis moved in with my dad....well eventually i moved back in with my mom its been about 4 months and I HATE IT ...my granny said that i can move in the downstairs apartment at her house. but i know im gonna feel bad my sis says i shoulddent becuz our mom left us blah blah blah

I think you should move back in with your granny.as long as you love your mom and she loves you she'll understand.And as long as your mom loves yu i'm sure all she wants is for you to be happy too.

[view]

Ok, lets say one of your best friends just broke up with his gf, who you have kind of liked for awhile? Should you ask her out right away or give her some time? It wasn't a very serious relationship, but I don't know how she would feel going out with me, after being with my friend?

I'd give her sometime. She might be really upset but you might not know.I would ahng out with her for a while and let her know your here for her and be a good friend to her.wheny ou know the time is right ask her.Good luck.

[view]

i have a boyfriend kevin but i want another guy named mike and kevin is like the hottest guy alotta ppl like him n mike is just soo much nicer n there is a less chance of him hurtin ur feelings becvause kevin is the kinda guy who would cheat on you and has already done alotta things that i dont know if im into yet...but lately i have been talking to mike alot and hanging out with him when im goin out wit kevin n i have NO IDEA what to doo....because alot of girls would be lucky to have kevin and i think i have alot more feelings for mike ... what should i doo??

I would go with mike.you shouldnt feel pressured by people in school or around your neighborhood just to go out with the hot guy.you want a guiy who you have strong feelings for and knwo that he'll make you happy.Hope i helped, good luck.

[view]

Alrite my gf told me today that she kinda like my bestfriend.I do love her though but being with her and knowing she likes someone else it just wouldnt be the same.I want her to be with me but I can't force her to.What should i do or say to get this thing clear up?

i know you love her and it would be hard, but i think you should tell her that you two should take a break to get her feelings all straighted out and tell her how you feel about the fact she likes your best friend.it's not really fair to either of you if she likes another person and if you have cope with the fact that she likes another person.Good luck.

[view]

ok see all the girlz are lie acting like bitches to me and im so sick of it like 1 point there att my house then the next day the acting like there all that and like i deont no there just mean so help!

I know how you feel, sometimes it sucks so bad being a girl.It's like you want someone you can trust but apparently they just seem to not care.It's usually just a faze because someone will do that to them and they'll realize what a jerk they were.Everytime you get upset about it just think what an honest and loyal person you are and you may not notice it but people do admire that.

[view]

ok thers this girl i like alot but i dont think she likes me and she makes me so horney and stuff but i dont know wut 2 do \.. i like need a hormone pill or something! plz help me! im scared. its fucked up. well if u need age were 12 in 7th grade

I know you migth be uncomfortable talking to your mom or dad, but maybe you should try.Or have your parents make an appontment to talk to your doctor,a nd if you feel uncomfortable telling your parents why just say I think this is something i need to discuss with my doctor first and take from there.Hope it helps.

[view]

This boy (lets call him Dan) asked me if i wanted to go out 2 dinner with him, i said yes, but i dont fancy him or anything. i dont really know him either, so what do i do if i didnt enjoy the date and dont want to go out again ( i hate hurting peoples feeling) whats the nicest way of putting it??? thanx

Well , if you didnt like the date and you dont know him well, at least try going out with a bunch of friends to get to know him a little better.And if you just think it wont work.Just sit him down and tell him your open to being friends but your not sure if he's the perfect guy for, but i'm sure you will be for someone more compadable.Hope it helps!

[view]

ok, this isn't really much of an advice thing, so it'll probably be deleted, but I hope to get sum answers in

We have to cover out books for a few classes, and like I don't want to do the whole newspaper, or brown back covers, because then you have to use tape, and I got a new book, like I'm the 1st to use it, so I don't want to have to pay
I'm in High School

I know that in middle school, they sold them to you, but I don't know where to get the Book Sox now (thats how you spell it, I'm POSITIVE)

if anybody knows, and if at wal-mart, would it be where all the regular school supplies are?

You can get them at Wal-Mart and they should be in the school supplies area.I know you can also get them at Target , Office Max, and office Depot.Good luck finding them.

[view]

Do any girls know of anything I can do to get rid of cramps? Im having them really severely and its hard to move. Thanks.

Whatever you do dont have a alot of caffine, it just causes more pain.Try and eat healthy foods when you have your cramps.If your able to, try to just sit on your floor, and try doing simple strches like bringing your arms to your toes, or bring your knees close{bend them} to your body hold for like 30seconds or so then just slowly release.Hopefully that will help you.

[view]

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
humorist-workshop
eXTReMe Tracker