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cute shoes? i need opinions. thanks!

i think they're cute but look like a pain to walk in.

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Okay to start off, I knowwww it's unbearably annoying when people post a line from a song and say, "What song is this?" when you can google it. But I tried and can't find it, and this song(or at least this phrase) has been stuck in my head for three days now.

I think it's from a musical, but I'm not really sure.

"There's a ______ and I am _______,"
It's slow, and the second blank might be flying. I'm pretty sure it's a woman singing it.

is it "defying gravity" from wicked?
if you can think of anything else i might be able to help you... i hateee having songs stuck in my head like that!

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my uncle was in a coma for two years and it really got me thinkin. how do people in comas eat? or do they at all? wouldnt they die from losing so much weight? fill me in please!

Like the people below me said, they do get fed from a tube and usually it it up their nose. they do lose weight because they're fed what they need... not what the pig out on while watching the game like everyone else & also they lose muscle from being in bed without moving for so long. So no, they won't/don't/shouldn't die from being too skinny. hope your uncle is ok!

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i aksed a question that could be answered by yes or no, and then the answerer could have gone into detail about why they said yes or no. if the answerer just said no., and left it at that, what should i rate them? they answered the question and gave an appropriate answer, but could have gone into more detail about why they said yes or no.

also, when like 3 people answer a question, and all say that same exact thing the first person said, what should i rate them? if one person answeres the question and the next two people have the same exact answer, i dont need of the same answers.

what should rate people in these instances?

I usually just don't rate when that happens. Sometimes its easier for me as the asker to just read yes or no instead of a paragraph about the opinion and how it was formed. If someone just says "yes" [which most people have done at one point or another], they're not looking for a rating on how great their advice is or how annoying or mean they can be, they just think a person wants a quick yes or no so they can move on so I would just not rate.

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I was just wondering..
If four people are in a car and three of them are smoking weed.. does the fourth one [the one not smoking] end up with any of the affects?

yes, you can get high from second hand smoke.

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my friend and i are going to a rascal flatts concert and we want to make shirts. can anyone think of a good line from one of their songs to put on it? thanks!

this is from an older cd.. "I MELT for rascal!"
other ones i can think of are:
"gang's all here! (me & my gang)
"you got your fans back!" (backwards)
"love rascal? yes I do!" (yes i do)
you could use a lot of song titles and make them into one long thing..
kinda cheesy but they'll get you some attention. have fun!!

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Well i am called fat at school. I am not sure if i am or not. Can you tell me? Idk about BMI stuff but i am not sure. ok:
I am 5'8" and weigh like 130-135.
I don't think i am but can you tell me?
PLEASE

you're not fat. you're probably young and more matured than the other girls so they think its "fat when no, it's just that you are more womanly than they are. either that or they're jealous or they are kidding around with you.

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So, its my birthday, on july 20th. and i'm super excited. I guess. I mean i'm not having a party this year, and so my mom says i can get whateverrr i wanntt. like anythinggg.

but i already have alot of stuff. lol
this is what i havee..
-cell phone [whem my contracts up in september im getting one of those choclate phones] so ya dont need a cell phone.
-i dont need clothes. as weird as that sounds, i havent even worn half of my summer clothes yet.
-i have an ipod nano, its pink. so i dont need one of those.
-i just got a puppy a few months ago.
-i have a digital camera.
-i have wayyy too much make up.
-i have my own computer.
-i have my own flat screen tv in my room.
-i have lots of expensive jewerly.
-i have a pool, in my backyard, [i got that a few years ago for my bday..] and its huge. so dont need that
-i have a trampoline, which isnt old.
-i have a slide for my pool.

i mean i honestly have like everythinggg. what else is there? what would you want for your bday???

money for when you need it, a trip to hawaii/paris/nyc/other random place, a cruise ticket, concert tickets, redo your room, new furniture, dinner & a show for you and a friend (kinda like a party but not really), a car (or money for when you can get one), a dvd player or an expensive purse.

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2002 BMW 325i
Price $14,995
Body Style Sedan
Mileage 73,975
Exterior Color Jet Black
Interior Color Sand
Engine 6 Cylinder Gasoline
Transmission Automatic
Drive Type 2 wheel drive - rear
Fuel Type Gasoline
Doors Four Door

16 Inch Wheels, Sunroof, Leather Seats, Wood Trim, Front Power Seats With Driver Memory, In Dash CD Player, Production Date 09-01

that sounds like a good deal but you might wanna check carfax.com. it almost seems "too good to be true" so you might wanna find out how many repairs/accidents it's been through.

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would you consider slow dancing with another girl cheating?

No... unless they exchanged numbers/sns or did anything besides just dancing.

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I am gonna have sex with my boyfriend for the first time, where would be some romantic places for my first time to be at?

at a hotel so you have privacy & a bed, a tent with lots or candles & a blow up matress & a lot of comfy blankets, out by a lake..

places to avoid/not recommended:
in a house in one of your rooms...especially when there are people home.
movie theater
outside in the wilderness [unless youre into that]
at a house party

be safe & have fun!

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hi, im really upset and i've cried for ages over this im turning 14 in exactly 2 weeks, this is long right basically i havent started my period my boobs are growing and are a fair size, i've got lots of pubic hair on my vagina and armpits thats normal. I'm worried about the period thing will it ever start? I masturbated with proper dirty sticks and unclean pens will this affect my period and also i don't do much sports apart from athletics once a week in school as part of PE but i'm quite energetic and lively. I'm so scared i really don't know what to do, my sister who is now 17 started hers at the age of 13 and 3 months i don't know about my mum and i can't talk to them or any doctors what should i do? I want to say thank you for any advice.

don't be upset! i didn't start mine til i was 14 1/2...after all my friends already had. i was all worried too like omggg am i normal?! but really, you have nothing to worry about, i promise! it will come! my mom got hers at 13 so i was really freaking out but we just have different body types. masturbating won't affect it but you shouldnt use anything dirty from now on. it will come.. don't stress over it. doctors don't tell people to start worrying about it until they're 16 or 17 & they haven't gotten it... you have a couple years before that so there's no need to go talk to a doctor because you are fine! it will come! people will be jealous that you started it late because everyone HATES having it. hang in there!

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Ok so i have this boyfriend and we get into aguements alot. He tells me that im stupid and retarted. sometimes he even calles me a stupid bitch, dumb ass bitch, or jus plain bitch. he says that im tha problem and that im always getting him mad. Im only 15 and my friends and familly say leave him but some say dnt if ur happy. Im tired of heareing that hole "theres more fish in tha sea" cuz thers really not im in love with him not anyone else. I dont know wat to do anymore im in love with him and want to spend tha rest of my life with him but not like this..
Please someone help me wat do i do????

-shawttii

get out of this relationship. he doesn't respect you or value you from what you're saying. it's not love... anyone that abuses you doesn't love you. you just really like/are infatuated with this guy. you can do better & there ARE other guys out there..really, there are. you want to spend the rest of your life with him... but not like this.. reality is that you can't change him. he won't suddenly stop calling your degrading names and live happily ever after and live up to all your hope & dreams of how great of a lover he could be. just get out of the relationship... he might cry and try to get you back but don't fall back.. just move on, you are better than that.

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I've been friends with this guy Brandon for two years. I honestly love him, I mean we haven't just been friends we've been going out and sometimes things stop us but this time nothing is getting in the way. My mom doesn't like him at all, she doesn't know that we ever dated. I love him and I know I'm too young (16) to be making the decision of who I want to be with for the rest of my life but I know I love him. Last night I told him that I can't be with him anymore because my parents don't want me to marry out of my religion (I'm a muslim and he's Christian.) He was crying and so was I. I want to be with him more then anything but my dad said if I marry him he's going to leave my mom and I love my mom and don't want her to be alone because I'm being a selfish snob. I don't know how I can make them understand that he means absoluely everything to me. Any suggestions on what I should do?


I'm not looking to marry right now but if my parents can't even accept Brandon as a boyfriend how will they accept him as a son in law.

Hm i really don't know how this leaving your mom thing would work out. ask your dad if he would really do that just because of you marrying a christian. would he really want to put more unnecessary pain into the family? I would say just stay with Brandon but don't really be together technically so you're not like banned from seeing him. Maybe once you are older, they will accept him. Once you move on after college theres not much they can do to keep you from marrying him. you're 16... you don't need to make any drastic changes yet so don't get so worked up about it. if you were say, 26, and they hated him, then you have a problem. that's basically all i can think of right now... a little scrambled but if you have anything specific you want me to asnwer, let me know & i'll try my best.

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Is there any place like online that i can make a journal. But i dont want people to be able to see it. I like keeping journals but i like typing more then writing and i want some place private online i can do it.

thankss.

xanga.com is a good place. you can make entries private or just your whole page locked... or you can just not give any personal info and just write in it without anyone knowing who you are.

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So my boyfriend is going to college at the end of next month and I want to make him a little kit...like I plan on giving him a framed picture of the two of us, some of his favorite candy, and some Ramen noodles. I've already gotten him pillows and sheets, so do you have any other ideas for some other items to add? Thank you so much!

i would throw in some easy mac, camera, and maybe one of his favorite movies.

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im a guy, so any girls that read this will probably think is is a simple question, but i need help. My girlfriend wants me to finger her but shes never masturbated or used tampons, and she says its uncomfortable every time we try. I'm not able to even get half of a finger in her. Any advice?

things for you to try/keep in mind:
you don't have to go in... you can give her pleasure by playing with her clit.
she should feel around there to see what feels good and which way to go in..
are you sure you're going in right or just straight up however...
make sure she's "wet" when you do or use lube..

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whats a good name for someone who is musical and poetic... for a girl...and a name that is also unusual, not something like everyone elses.(special)
so basicly i need a girl name that sounds poetic,musical, and is special, any ideas, thank you very much.
srry its a weird question but its important

We got names in my english class last year to describe us. i chose to be "unique" & my name was Raeka which mean "unique" & "beautiful". other names i think are unique are Eloura & Melody.

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im 16 years old and am having a major problem..my hair is falling out like crazy and idk why!!..like i just run my fingers through my hair,look,then have a hand full of hair..im really bothered by this. what could be the problem?!

it could be lack of sleep, over-frying it with hot tools, chlorine (maybe) or an eating disorder.

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what does a guy look for in a friendship with a girl?

from what i've experienced, guys like someone they can trust and be honest with & also have a good time hanging out with. they like to be understood and just be listened to sometimes. basically the same as girls... but no drama involved.

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