what are some good truth or dares? and do u think its okay to make out w/ one of ur bestfriends in a truth or dare...
nah its just a game, no biggie i dont think. Good truth or dares, maybe something about streaking... umm eat dog food... truths... guy/girl you like... Sorry never really thought of good truth or dares myself.
-holly-
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Ok, heres a good question. I just broke up with my g/f becasue we didn't see each other enough. I still have fellings for and she has for me. But I have a firned that I also have feelings for. I can see my self with my friend more than I can my ex. But I don't wan to hurt my ex's feelings. We told each other that we might get back together when we are able to see each other more. So, what does everyone think?
I think you should talk to you ex ask her if she really think things are going to work, or are you just wasting time waiting to see each other more. Let her know you have feelings for someone else as well and that you want to try things out with her. Let her know you see you and her better off as friends. good luck
-holly-
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Hi Holly,
What's up? It's your big sis. Don't listen to that person that said you are ugly. If that was a joke from one of your friends that was a mean thing to say. I just wanted to tell you I think you're a beautiful person inside and out. :-D Also, thanks for mentioning me on your advice column. I'm going to do the same for you. I love you.
Love your big sis, Crystal
Hey Crystal! Thanks a bunch! Nah it wasnt one of my friends. it was just someone being stupid. Yeah no problem about mentioning you! :) What are sisters for :) lol :) LOVE YOU CRYSTAL
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when i go into my own advice column it says rated: 0 times and average rating: 0 . but if i go to view feed back i have three 5`s , so why does it still say i wasnt rated? how do i fix it?
It takes time for them to get avereged in or whatever.
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is it possible to have a six pack at 13? i'm 4'11 and 85 pounds so i don't have too much fat to lose i dont think because im pretty skinny im not a bag of bones though.
Yeah its possible... But it may not be like totally huge or anything.
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my ma wont let me have a tattoo how can i convince her to let me have one
actually you cant get a tattoo until your 18 even if your parents do sign for one. And once your 18 you can do whatever the hell you want!
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k this mite come off as a lil weird, but i was just thinking about you know, how everyone says having sex on your period is disgusting and all .. well what if your saving yourself till marriage but your on your period your wedding night!! how AWFUL that would be =( like do you plan your wedding around your period?? wat if your early or smthn .. planning that far ahead being early or late a few times could mess it all up .. that would just be awful!! how are you supposed to make sure that doesnt happen??
Alright there is no way to be certian that your not going to start your period on your wedding. And that would really really suck! But if really want it to happen that night then you can make it happen period or not... You could do it in the shower so its not that bad!
-holly-
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Hi one of my friends is way bitchy and she always tsarts arguments like if i have a reason to be mad at her instead of saying sry she just turns the table on it and gets mad at me! what do i do and dont say*taklk to her blah blah because it didnt help!
I think you need to lay down the law tell her if shes going to treat you like shit then you dont need her in your life! Let her know you like being friends with but not when she acts like that. She can accept it or not, and if she doesnt oh well you dont need her!
-holly-
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I cant seem to get a nice crisp distortion outta my amp and pedal. Any suggestions on The settings i should use with Gain,High,Med,and Low?... Keep in mind that I want a good punk distortion.
Hey there my good friend matt plays the guitar... He has an adivce column if you send this question to him he'll be glad to answer it! his name is MySinceristRegret.
-holly-
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I have a big freckle on my fore head, and it makes me look ugy. Is their any way to get ride of it or make it not as noticeble? Please help!!!
Use cover up!
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one night i got really drunk and i was talking to this kid justin (who wasnt drunk) then i feel asleep and i wake up and im naked and hes ontop of me on the bed and hes naked and as soon as he saw me wake up he ran into the other room...i dont no what happened really...i try to ask him and he tells me that he was just touching me he didnt like rape me or nething....but i would no if we had sex right? or if we didnt nething more...i no he put it in my mouth bc i had the taste in my mouth..but i would no rigth? please help meee
PLEASE HELP!
Well you might have had sex with him. you should get one of those rape kits done! then you can get your answer! Good luck hope you figure things out!
-holly-
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This summer while in Canada I met a really awesome girl, however I really really really..... screwed up our relationship. I cheated on her once, guilted her into a lot of things I shouldn't have, and I lied to her so many times. It was just in the last week that I was with her that I started to straighten my act up and realize how wonderful she was. I want to say sorry so bad, but I live 1600 miles away from her and don't have a planned visit there for 2 more years, also I want to do something bigger than just write her an email and hope for the best. We are kind of friends now, we talk every now and then online, but I still feel like this is still keeping us apart. If anyone has any ideas on how to say sorry for being this horrible I'd love to hear from you. Also, flying up there just to say sorry isn't out of the picture, its about $700. I really need something big that says I'm sorry and I'm willing to do whatever it takes to have you trust me again.
I think you need to like save up your money and make it real fast so that you can just go down there for a few days! And if you cant... Then send her flowers! And a card that tells her everything i'm sure she'll really enjoy something sweet from you! Good luck
-holly-
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Okay, I'm pregnant. I chose to see my family dotor who has been my doctor for years to go see for my checkups. The problem is everytime I have an appointment and go to tell my in-laws about it they are always comparing my doctor to thier family doctor. Like they say "well Doctor So&So would have never done it that way". And they compare the hospital I'll be delivering in to the one they go to as well. You know, it pisses me off because I think it is my decision what doctor I decide to see, especially in this time of my life, I trust my doctors because i have known them for so long. And I refuse to change doctors because I shouldn't have to. This is my choice. The problem is lately I've been trying to bite tougue my in-laws oppinions but its is getting harder. I don't want to say something mean because they are very nice to me and do alot for me and I don't want to come off disrespectful, so what can I do to keep myself from blowing up at them?
Well maybe you can tell them politly thank you for your concerin but I trust my doctor. If that doesnt work maybe you can get your husband to talk to them they are his parents... and he doesnt always have to be nice. He can say its not you that said something to him that he gets annoyed of the fact that they are always bothering you with it. Good luck and I hope the pregnancy goes great!
-holly-
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My sister is a lesbian, and I am good friends with her girlfriend. When I am introducing the two of them to other people I always find myself saying "this is my sister and her friend."
I know I should say girlfriend, but I never can get it out.
Is it alright if I just say friend to avoid akward moments and let coversations to contiune to flow, or do you think it is affending to my sister and her girlfriend?
I think its fine that you say that! I mean i know I probably would too! Maybe talk to them both and tell them why you do that. Hear their feelings on it and if they dont like it do what they would rather have happen.
-holly-
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im 13 and just been allowed to wear makeup but now i have no clue what to wear!! i got blonde hair blue eyes and light skin. if you have any tips or tricks id love to hear em! thanks a bunch !!
Well i'll let you know something... I dont wear make up.. :-/ So i might not be much help here. Well back when I was 13 I actually wore white eye liner and sparkles... I still wear that once in a while. But maybe wear a light pink on your eyes Or something cute. Whatever you do DO NOT wear like a blue!! Also the trick in make up is your suppose to make it look like your not wearing any! maybe ask your mom she can help ya!
-holly-
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I Have very heavy discharge for about 2/3 days... I read in this magazine that u get ur heavest discharge like i ntha middle of your cycle.. like not wen ur on ur period.. is that tru.. or am i gonan get my period soon like in a few days? help meh!!
You period should almost be here week and a half at the most. :)
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ok i've never worn a tampon and i kinda want to but its a little weird knowing that that will be going...there. and what if i put it in wrong? any advice on like what kind to use for the first time? or anything like that...
I use tampax pearl the regular kind. Just make sure you read the directions... they help out a lot, and its not bad at all! Pads are horrible! Nothing like sitting in your own blood! :)
-holly-
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Okay well im 14, and im going into High School in about a month. Last year (8th grade), i had alot of problems and i started cutting, but i have stopped because i found that it doesnt help your problems. Well anyways i should be getting a physical soon and i have about 5-6 scars on my arm by my hand (kinda near my veins where my hand connects to my arm) and im really scared that my mom or the doctor will see them when i go for the check up. What exactly do they do at the physical, and i need some help on this because im fricken scared outta my mind! My dad said if i ever tryed to kill myself he'd send me to a mental facility (seriously) because he says that i'd be crazy. But i really dont want anyone to see the scars! What should i do?!Thanx soo much=D
Alright well you can tell your mom to wait in the waiting room and go in by yourself, physical they do check your pulse on your wrist. And the also check your balance and stuff... But other than that I dont know what you can do :-/ and if your mom see it just tell her dont tell your dad it was just a way to release your stress... and if the doc sees tell him the same thing or something. Sorry my advice wasnt much help... I had some issues myself this year (i'm going to be a sophmore) but i did it in places people couldnt see.
-holly-
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well i like this guya nd i thought he liked me and everyone thought he liked me and we were flirtyin like all night and the next day but now i cant ell cuz we havent hanged out and stuff.............what do i do how can i find out if he likes me ((with out havein to like ask him cuz that might make him feellike he has to like meor something))
PlEasE hElp?!?!?
Sara
Maybe have some of your guy friends that are friends with him get the scoop for you. good luck
-holly-
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im stressed out all cuz schools coming ^ soon wut can i do to make me less stressed out?!?! i still have tons uf stuff i wunna do before i go to school. lol. like clean my room buy some stuff i need for school and all this other stuff and i dk. im so stressed i cant even remember the rest!! help!!
{{stressed out!!}}
Just calm down... you dont gotta stress... maybe make an agenda and plan out your time so you can get everything that you want to get done, done before school starts.
-holly-
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