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I'm 17, my friend that I like is 19. So all of the signs point to this guy liking me (I'm not talking silly things like "OMGHELOOKEDATME" either) except for one: while texting, he never initiates the conversation. During the week our only form of communication is texting, because he's ridiculously busy working till the wee hours of the morning.(Like, from 11 in the morning till midnight) However, he never texts me first, he'll only start once I initiate the conversation. I went a day without texting him to see if he would, but he didn't. Otherwise, it seems certain that he likes me, but this really bothers me. Am I overreacting, or should I worry?

Sounds like he is secure in the relationship. Don't nag too much or he may get annoyed. You shouldn't worry. I'd wait a little longer to text next time. He'll eventually text you then probably ask, "where have you been." LOL

No 1love1life, we are simple. You girls make us complicated. ;)

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k, i have a DXG4x camera and a gateway computer, windows 98. how do i get the pictures on the computer, i need STEP BY STEP.


please please please!

If all else fails RTFM. That's what it's there for.
1. You'll need to install the CD software that came with your CD
2. Open the CD package
3. Hold the disk in one hand and with the other open the CD drive tray.
4. Gently place the CD label side up, shiny side down in the tray.
5. Gently push the CD drive tray closed.
6. Wait for the CD to load.
7. When CD is loaded agree to any licenses.
8. Read each and every option and step closely.
9. Plug in your USB cable when asked to.

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i just bought the New Jack Johnson album, i ripped it to my media player, all the tracks are unamed and have no details at all about them i want it to have the album in a seperate coloumn and not in all my other Jack johnson songs (i have alot) how do i seperate them all out? i tried the tag editor and the advanced album definer thingy, please help :D

I guess you are using Microsoft Media Player. Don't know, you didn't say. Probably why no one has answered your question. I'll try because frankly I am sick of seeing it on here. Microsoft Media Player saves files to a default location. You'll need to change this. Go to "Tools" then "options" then click on the "copy music" tab. There you can configure the file name and the location.

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okay. im gonna sound stupid. but. im 18. and in 2007. i worked at mcdonalds. for like. 6 weeks. making 7$ and working about 15hours a week. at most. didnt earn very much money. and because i didnt make very much..i was wondering if i had to file taxes? is there like a certain amount of money you have to make in a year to have to file taxes? oh i live in wisconsin. if that matters.

As long as they held out enough then you probably don't owe anything. You may actually get a refund. Check and see.
http://www.irs.gov/efile/article/0,,id=118986,00.html

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i would like it if guys would answer thiss :D

okay well me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 months (we are both 14) and all we have done is makeout and he has put his hand up my shirt but not inside my bra. we both started talking about going a little farther and we are both okay with it. but the problem is some things would be kind of awkward since we are like best friends. so don't say like "talk to him while giving him a hand job" because that is incredibly awkward and we are both silly and can't really be sexual like that..it's just weird. come on, were 14! haha. but we don't want to go to fast...soo it like just feeling his dick from outside his clothes weird? like do guys like that? because i don't really want to go in his pants for a while..kinda of gross. and guys don't get embarrased if they have a boner, right? what's some other "sexual" things that i could do besides going in his pants? thanks a lot!
oh yeh, do guys like TOTALLY shaved pussies or just a little hair? only for like fingering, feeling, etc. not eating out

THANKS IN ADVANCE! i'm totally clueless =/

Dear God, you are 14 years old! You should be thinking about dolls and Hanna Montana or whatever it is children your age think about. Listen, I am not your parent and I can't stop you from doing anything you don't want to do but when a child poses such a adult question online I think it's every adults and parents duty to inform. You got to understand that if you become pregnant you are responsible. Sure, you can have an abortion or give the child up for adoption but you'll have to live with that decision the rest of your life.

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16/f ..first boyfriend. 15/m.

i'm not very experienced with relationships.
we've been going out for a month, and this guy has already started touching me. and telling me that he loves me. and discussing future plans to have sex. and all that.
i'm a good student. well, i used to be 2 months ago. my grades have dropped. i've stopped caring about certain subjects. i can keep a steady, mediocre gpa..but...its just NOT enough for me, you know? i just turned 16. i want to know what to do with my life. all this new overwhelming attention from a boyfriend...is..well...overwhelming...

and im not in love with him. i dont even "love" him. i think i just like his attention. i'm very attracted to him. i know this is very bad. but maybe not as bad..since i get this feeling..that he's using me just to let go of some of him horniness [according to half of my friends...] i even catch myself flirting with other guys.
i dont want to do something foolish with a guy...and give myself away to a guy that doesn't even like me for me. that i dont even "love". even though...it's probably not "love". there is no love at this age, i guess...

and, even for this ONE month...SO much has changed. i've gone from socially-challenged quiet/shy girl...to this social butterfly...a newborn.

but i dont care for these social gatherings of friends and my boyfriend anymore. they make me sick now. i want my shy and quiet life back. i don't know what to do.

if i break up with him, i know i'll be really heartbroken. he probably wont care though [maybe he will]. but im just really clingy like that, ive noticed...towards anything.
so. i don't know..


thank you so much in advance.

You should be telling him how you feel not a bunch of people you don't know. Sorry, I know that's harsh but it's the truth. If you don't like him, fine, he'll get over it. (I hope anyway, Lord knows how todays youth is so Emo.) Quit pretending you like him and let him know.

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I go to a club and there is this boy that goes there. We got on normally, didnt speak a tonne to eachother but talked. He then got my msn and we started talking more, just normally. After three months of being friends he told me he liked me, but didnt bother doing anything about it. I didnt like him. I'm not ready for a relationship. This was about october. Then in january he asked me out. I told him id think about knowing that i would say no because i didnt like him. But then i began to think we'd be good together even though i didnt like him and it confused me. I came to conclusion that i didnt like him. I turned him down. It all turned out awkard and we got angry with eachother. Now we are friends and are acting like normal but i dont like it and its annoying because after everything we felt, or said is still there and its being pushed to one side. it ended before it started. Where do we take it from here - are we friends or not? Should I still talk to him?He compliments me a lot too

Sorry but it's not just you but you women are constantly sending mixed messages to us guys. You have to understand that men are like dogs. I mean that in a good way. I like dogs, they are loyal, don't complain much and a little lovin' makes them happy. However, feed a dog table scraps just one time and he'll expect it every time and want more and more until you yell at him and he whimpers off. Same goes for most men. Don't give us your #, your email and then make a consciouses effort to talk to us. We may... We may just think you are interested. My best and sincere advice is to put this old dog out of his misery and tell him you are not interested in a love/bf-gf relationship.

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hi is there any physical way to tell If a girl is horny because I know when guys get horny they get a boner but is there any way you can tell from just looking at them

13/m

As far as just looking at her. No. there isn't. You see, God made women like that so we have to suffer. We have to be mind readers and guess when it comes to "knowing." Heaven forbid you get it wrong. Usually a fat wallet is what gets the ladies excited.
LOL :D

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Me and my parents want to go on a famlily vacation this summer or possilby over spring break. I am 15 but i turn 16 in may. Where are some places in the US that we would enjoy? Also my parents want to either fly some wear and take a train home or take a train somewhere and drive home. But if that cant happen its o.k.
plese help us out

Well, first off happy B-day...even though it's a few months away LOL.
How about the Grand Canyon? It's incredible and TV does it no justice until you've actually been there.
Red Wood National Forest. www.nps.gov/redw Need I say more? Those branches are so large that they are called 'widowers.' You can guess why they are called that.

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ok well when i work out to this thing called hip hop abs, its a dancing workout film. i sometimes get pressure in my head. It's only when i do some of the moves in the video though. WHen i asked my sister if she go that too she said she didn't. And now i feel like there is still a bit of pressure in my head and i feel a bit light headed Is there something wrong with me??? PLEASE HELP!!!!!
19/f

My advice is to seek a doctor's opinion above all advice here.
It could be just that you are not hydrated. Good rule of thumb is, if you aren't peeing clear then you are not hydrated.
Water is good but sports drinks with electrolytes are better, especially when you are working up a good sweat. I know when I'd run my five miles a day without drinking enough, I'd get an awful headache.
It could also be you are just out of shape.

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like, i know this is very random and uncalled for but i cant talk to anyone without them totally freaking out and stuff? but i am getting this huge feeling/ vibe or whatever that im going to be a teenage mom. like, i keep having all these dreams and stuff. oh, by the way im 15. and i know this is weird and all but i honestly wouldnt mind having a baby. i might not be able to afford it, but i'll cross that bridge when i come to it. my parents might murder me and try to make me give it up or kill it or something but im sure i could convince them to think otherwise. "Hello? this is your GRANDCHILD!!!!" yeah, lol. told you it was random. but give me your opinions. what do you think about all this?

Like I was telling someone awhile back who was having dreams about being pregnant. It's totally normal for folks your age. We've all done it at a time or two especially around puberty when are bodies are becoming prepared to have children. Our minds join in the process too. So, yes it's just your hormones. If you are having too much trouble with it, ask your doctor for help.

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Ok, I have windows XP on my laptop.
You know when you press Alt+Crtl+Delte, it sometimes goes to task manager, but then on some computers it comes up with options like lockm shut down, log off.

Well I'd like to know how I could lock my laptop like that.
What would I have to do?

Login to your account
go to start
Click on the Icon next to your username (at the top left)
When the user accounts page opens up click on "home" (located at the top) Under "pick a task" pick "change the way users log on and off" uncheck all boxes and then click "apply all options" Now press Cntrl Alt Delete. Enjoy!

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well hes not really my brother but we are close friends so he calls me his little sis(he one year older than me)!well he is like the sweetest guy when it comes to his gf!his gf is in all my classes and shes real quiet but nice.he is always spending all this money on her buying her stuff and i really dont think she apprciates it!i mean she plays around with her friend talking about how sexy some of the boys in our school are and stuff.they have been going out for about a year and he says he like loves her and i dont think she feels the same way.he told me about how he told her that it was a 50/50 realatinship and he felt like she wasnt givn her part in the relationship.she said she was trying to work on it but i feel for my brother!he worked so hard to pleaase her and she really doesnt care!i just really dont wanna see him get hurt because he meens alot to me!im just confused on if i should talk to him about it or not?thanx for the advice!

Yeah, you should talk to him about it! Friends don't let friends get played. If he takes your advice or not is his choice, you can't make anyone do anything they don't want to do. However, you can let him know from a third person view how you see things. He'll respect your concern but don't get mad if he brushes you off, because if you are right he'll 'wake up' and thank you later on. You know your friend better than anyone else here, so use your own words. I am not going to tell you how to say it.

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ok im gonna have a baby soon and i really want to name if its a boy 'sean' or a girl 'brooke' but i have no idea wat their middle names gonna be can anyone give me some suggestions.

Middle names for a boy:
Paul
Christopher
Lee
Arron
Ryan
Sorry, I can't think of anything for a girl.
So I guess you are having a boy (long story) LOL.

*EDIT*
Like "laynemayhem" says let the father name the boy and you the girl. That's what we did. I got to pick the first name and her the middle.

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ok so me and my bf are planning this big party. and i want to invite like everyone, because i dont want anyone to feel left out. so we have a huge list of like 100 people. but theres this one guy (joe) that my bf really doesnt want to invite, because he thinks joe likes me and flirts with me too much. i dont care if joe comes or not, but it would be really mean not to invite him, because we've both known him forever and everyone else is invited. so we keep fighting about it. what should we do?

Tell Joe to bring a girlfriend or a date. If your BF sees him with someone he probably wont be too jealous. So... I didn't get an invite and I feel left out.

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can anyone tell me the gas mileage of a saturn ion in comparison to a honda civic? and does anyone have any other ideas for relatively inexpenive cars with good gas mileage like the honda civic? thanks!

That would depend on the size of the engines. Are we comparing the 2.0L to the 2.2L or the 2.2L to the 2.2L?

Are you wanting used? I've got a Chevy Cavalier, 2.2L I get about 30MPG highway and about 25MPG city. Of course the way you drive too can affect fuel economy.

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what does it mean to get shocked?

You mean like, sticking your finger in a light socket or putting a wet butter knife in the toaster?
If I say, that's "shocking" it means to become surprised or excited and upset or yet excited and happy.

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When I turn my computer on it goes directly into my account.. instead of the login screen. My mother has an account and guest account is on. Mom is limited.

Anyway, how do I make it open up to the login screen as opposed to my account?

The quickest way is to put a password on the account. Login to your account, go to "start" then at the very top next to your name is your icon. Click your icon.
That will take you to "user accounts" Click the "Home" icon located at the top left. Under "or pick an account to change" click your name, then go to "create a password" Make sure you remember what you write in there. Ok everything out, restart and you'll see it when you next login.

You could also go back to "user accounts" and under "Pick a task" go to "change the way users log on or off" then un-check any boxes there. You'll have to type your username in every time.
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*edit*
Obviously you didn't read the rest of my post. In my feedback you state, "I already have one." Have one what? If you had read the rest of the answer your problem would be fixed.

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are they satanic? then why are their lyrics evil.. killing babies and such.

Probably because none of the band members have children. It's easy for people to say they hate kids when they don't have any.

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What are some acoustic rock songs I can play on guitar?

Thanks

xx

How are good are ya? Foo Fighters?

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