ok so me and my bf are planning this big party. and i want to invite like everyone, because i dont want anyone to feel left out. so we have a huge list of like 100 people. but theres this one guy (joe) that my bf really doesnt want to invite, because he thinks joe likes me and flirts with me too much. i dont care if joe comes or not, but it would be really mean not to invite him, because we've both known him forever and everyone else is invited. so we keep fighting about it. what should we do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? triquetra answered Monday February 4 2008, 4:34 pm: If there is nothing to fear from Joe (from you that is), then you should try and tell your boyfriend this. Tell him things that there's nothing between you and Joe and also give Joe a verbal warning that if he approaches you, then he'll be banned from any parties which you hold in the future and you'll be the only one left out(tell your boyfriend about the verbal waning as well). But first, ask whether he wants to come and if he does, give him the warning and that you had to defend him so that he could come and plead with him not to mess up the party.
ChevyIINova answered Monday February 4 2008, 3:40 pm: Tell Joe to bring a girlfriend or a date. If your BF sees him with someone he probably wont be too jealous. So... I didn't get an invite and I feel left out. [ ChevyIINova's advice column | Ask ChevyIINova A Question ]
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