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Q: my mom wants me to live with her my dad wants me to live with him.My mom lives in Michigan , my dad lives in Arizona i dont no what to do i have to pick witch one i want to live with befor school starts i have not seen my dad in 2 years no that im with him im having the time of my life

Well.. that seems like the relationship between my parents.. they would both love to have me and when i see my dad Its trix's day! everything i want i got.. but keep in mind its just cuz he see's me about once a year.. my mom pointed out that thats not how it would always be.. so i would ask your dad what kind of things there are to do there like if he doesnt have to spend a million bux on you to have the time of your life-trix

Q: mii boiifriend is turning 13 and i met him on 4th of july and his birthdaii is on july 26th... ((but)) i have no ideal what to get him.. i dont really kno what he wants cuz everytime i as he says he wants me for his birthdaii... ((*aww*)) soo does aniione have anii really good ideals... i'LL rate you!
lOvE aLwAii'z,
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My situation a bit ago was similar to yours.. so i would go for cologne.. shirt.. sweatshirt.. CD or something he is interested in obviously! But i do know that not all guys like clothes.. i think thats more of the boundaries for there family to do.. until your older that is.. I asked my bf for his 13th b-day what he wanted and he said just for me to be there ((*awww*)) but i asked his mom and she said he had been wanting a cool lamp or cool posters or something for his new room so i got him a orange and red lava lamp.. i lied and said my mom picked it out so he could diss it lol but he said he liked it so i said i picked it out haha-trix

Q: i'm a girl and i want this guy to be my boyfriend..what do i do?

Ask him out!! -trix

Q: any body have any good ideas on wat to get my bf for his birthday? hes turning 16 n by then we'd be together for 6 months:-) thanks*

Cologne shirt or sweatshirt or something that he may like for his car or something he is interested in a CD or something.. and as far as speacial goes.. i really like the whole limo idea.. do that .. im doing that for 6 months!-trix

Q: hey i have this problem with one of my friends because whenever i ask her to sleepover she says ya i can and then like 30 minutes later shes like i cant go anymore my dad said that we have to do family things and then the next day i find out that she is at someone elses house and she always almost always does this to me and she ditched me on my birthday and she always makes up an excuse and it always sounds so convincing so i just say ok but inside it bugs me and i dont really know what to do should i stay friends with her and see how it goes or should i not be friends with her anymore?
thanx!

Well talk to her about it or say well let me talk to your dad (if u 2 have a good relationship) and say cuz i need to talk to you or something that way she gets the point but you should sit down and talk to her about it and ask her how she would like it if she was ditched by her own friend-trix

Q: i dont no what to get my boyfriend for our 6 month anniversary! its not until october but i know we will still be together by then. i want it to be something really special because i love him so much but i have NO ideas! what should i do?!

Hey thats when me and my bf nathan 6 month anniversary.. so you must have started to go out in april huh? Well.. tomorrow is our 3 month anniversary so.. i was going to get a limo for us.. but.. that backfired cuz he still had to stay out of town so.. im gunna do it for 6 months.. it should be fun that is a good idea i think-trix

Q: o0k well i'm kinda new here...and im wondering....what does it mean to be a "moderator"?

its good and you get to rate the questions weather there good ok or bad-trix

Q: me n my bf were layin on eachother w/ no pants or underwear on but we didnt have sex bc i wasnt on the pill n we didnt have a condom but he was like rubbing his dick on me and after we were done i was like wet from his cum and someone on the hellz angelz board told me theres a big chance i could be pregnant is it true? bc i dont understand how i could be pregnat if im still a virgin? plz help im rilly nervous now im only 14:-/

You cant if your still a virgin-trix

Q: Me and my boyfriend are so close. He comes over almost everyday but the problem is we cant make out because it seems like my mom is always right there. what should i do before he dumps me for someone else?

Well just walk him to the corner.. when he is leaving and go from there-trix

Q: i wont have sex unless im on the pill and im thinking about having sex but idk how to ask my mom...shes not the understanding type you know? im soo skared to ask her please help me i dont know wat to do:-(shed probly be really pissed if i asked her

Well your probably young so im not giving advice on this cuz im sure your to young.. but talk to her anyways you may lose trust with her though-trix

Q: Im not sure if this belongs here...but i think i am underweight. Everyone says i look anerexic and i cant help it. my parents were both skinny. I am 5 feet exactly and weigh 97 pounds. Can somebody give me advice...am i underweight?

Well my friend is 4'11 and she is 78 ... its just what runs in your fam. and she pigs out... so i know she is fine-trix

Q: yet another poem-

There is a little place, here, inside my head, where everything hides, everything I dread.

There is another place where all funny things hide, all the laughs that I've had stay quietly inside.

There is one last place where my love stays apart from the rest, this little place is my heart and I think I like it best.

Thats good-trix

Q: In the beginning of the year one of my ex-boyfriends got put into jail and whenever he came back he asked me. Well I told him I would go out with him if he swore he wouldnt do drugs anymore and he wouldnt cheat on me. Last week he went to his friends house and got high and drunk and told a girl he would go out with her well he call me that same night and was crying and told me all about it and then I called his older brother and his brother told me that he had made out with another girl at the movies that sunday. Well i got really upset with him and we broke up. That friday he was at the skatin ring with the girl and he was cryin because he missed me and I was cryin because I missed him. He told me that he would try to stop doin drugs and that he really loved me and that he would never do anything to intentionally hurt me, but I dont know if I should give him another chance. Should I give him another chance? I am a girl and im 15 years old.

No he keeps hurting you and you deserve better just be good friends-trix

Q: I have a friend who is totally in love with her boi friend and we're both 13...well my prob is that she's thinking of having sex with him and i really don't think it's a good idea at all...what shud i tell her?

Tell her why you dont think its a good idea point out the bad things and tell her you know she's not ready and that she will regret it-trix

Q: I really like this kid. I asked him if he liked me online one time, and he said yeah. So the next day in person my sister says "Ohh you love her!" and he goes I only like her as a friend. I don't understand though, cuz he said he liked me. He acts like he doesn't like me most of the time, but sometimes he kind of acts like he's flirting. My friend thinks he likes me, but does and doesn't want to show it at times. Do you think she's right? Please help me! I'll rate ya :)
signed,
boy trouble!

He may have gotten the wrong impression.. thinking that you ment only friends.. that happans alot. You may want to talk to him about it again and see what is the real answer-trix

Q: ok well me and this girl briana are like best friends we go sumwhere together everyday and hang out...but lately she is getting annoying and i dont really wanna hang out with her anymore...do u think we hang out to much and im just gettin sick of her or what!? plez help me!

Just hanging out to much is the reason why your getting annoyed hang out with a few other friends for now and dont make her feel left out or anything maybe you and a few otherfriends and her could go to the pool so its just not you and her its you and her and a bunch of others-trix

Q: Hey umm im 15 and im preg. i need to know will i get my period?

No-trix

Q: hey yall
im pretty sure my bf cheated on me so im breaking up with him wen he gets bak from a trip of corse ill ask him bfor i do it but his best friend is my best friend to and even he thinks he did it and it gunna try to find out for me. anyways my problem... i stil like my bf even tho he cheated on me and also u no the best friend? wel iv kinda liked him for awhile and i had a chance awhile ago but i let it go, now he likes my arch-enemy/old best friend hoo is beautiful and "hott" and every single guy likes her even tho shes bitchy and uses ppl alot like her current bf hoo shes using to get a commercial deal anyways she says im a bitch and that i try to be better then her and im not. i think she likes him to but he might not ask her out cus he thinks shes kinda using him to get at me. i dont think that even tho she has done it bfor and i told him that even tho i dont want him to like her. i cannt lie to him. thers also another guy i like hoo probly likes me and is the guy i should b going out with. should b. but im not. idk if i like him jus as a frend or more. but hes one of those guys hoo could never ever hurt u... hes never broken up with sum1 bfor... hes really sweet and innocent and im not so much iv ben 2 second base a couple of times... idk its all so confusing which guy do i like and which guys dont i? i no in this case my advice to myself would b to get over the 2 that i have no chance with... im on my way to getting over the guy hoo cheated on me but the other one i realy realy like. and i dont think he likes me... he could but idk? he used to but i doubt he stil does. o wel like kinda sucks any advice yall?

Thats good that your not jumping to conclusions.. thats good that you are going to ask him because i hate it when people jump to conclusions like that. Maybe you should talk to your best friend and see if he has any feelings for you because if he did that'd be great!! But if you dont think that you 2 would work go out with the sweet and innocent guy!! But dont go with the guy that cheated on you alot whoever that may be!! -trix

Q: ok there is this guy i met a little while ago (i'm 15 female) and hes 15, male but any ways he always flirts and he has told me he has only loved one other gurl but she cheated on him so he doesnt love her any more and then the other day i sent him one of my poems about the only guy i have ever loved but dont love any more and he said "maybe i can change that" .... and since he is a BIG flirt i dunno what he meant by it i mean there are other things too like he hates skaterboys but i'ma skatergurl and i said i really only like the way skaterguys looked and now he said he is changing to become a skater boy ... i mean i asked him why but he says its becuase everyone in his nieghbor hood was but he also told me he has hated everything about a skaterboy since as long as he can remember so i dont no why he is changing now ..... and he also doesnt really share his feelings but always wants to no mine when i cant even share them becuase i dont know what i am feeling..... am i reading why to much into this becuase he sends me mixed emotions all the time i mean i know hes a flirt and thats what flirts do but i refuse to flirt to much back just becuase and i dunno can someone help becuase i am all confused

Just tell him how you feel and ask how he feels in return-trix

Q: my mom has been really mean to me and my brothers lately and i think it is because her and my dad who are divorced are having arguements because she wants to move to a different state, what do i do!

Well.. thats nothing you can really handle yourself unless you talk to your mom-trix

bio

My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"