im really tight. im not planning on have sex any time soon but i was wondering uf it would stretch out eventually without shoving something huge up there
No, the only way to become looser is to actually finger yourself and masturbate and you will still be tight if you don't do anything.
-Karen
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im in love with this kid who ive lost my virginity to and i just started going out with him like 3 days ago and we got into a fight because my friend wanted them to leave her house so he went outside to sit so i followed him and he was really being mean and told me to leave and that he wasnt gonna come see me anymore (he lives in another town) so i went upstaries and started crying and my mom picked me up to take them home and i just got out of the car cuz i couldnt take it anymore. i love him so much and hes being so mean to me and i dont wanna call him and he hasnt called me, i dont know what to do. im so confused. i love him
i rate 5s
If your boyfriend is being so mean to you, then you don't deserve a guy like him in your life. Did he start being mean to you after you two had sex? If so, then he probably just used you for sex and he is just being mean to you so you can leave him, which I think is wrong and unfair. If a guy makes you cry, it shows you that he doesn't care about you that much. If he hasn't called, it may mean that he is ignoring you. You need to try contacting him and tell him how you feel about all of this that he has done. If he is mean to you again, just dump him because there are other guys that wouldn't treat you the way you are being treated by your boyfriend. If you love him, then talk to him and try to make this relationship work but if nothing changes, you know this mean that you have to move on.
-Karen
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OK for the school talent show, aside from singing, an act I will do is dance with my friends. I was wondering if you guys think Helena by My Chemical Romance is a good song to dance to. I was either thinking that or !,2 step by Ciara. We will most likely be doing Helena and I was wondering if you guys think my friends and I should do the moves the dancers do on the video or make up our own. We have until towards the middle of the month. Thanks
P.S~ if you want to see the video of Helena go here http://music.yahoo.com/ar-309929-videos--My-Chemical-Romance (hit the one that just says Helena not Helena laucnh preformance or whatever)
I personally love the song "Helena" by My Chemical Romance. I think you should do this song instead of "1,2 Step" because I bet other people will be doing that song too. You should make up your own moves but if you can't, then just go by the moves in the video. It's great that you have different taste in music.
-Karen
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I just found out my boyfriend is a bisexual...i don't know what to do, it freaks me out
Lucy
You don't need to be freaked out; your boyfriend is still the same, it's just that he likes guys too. If he doesn't actually have an intimate relationship with them, then there's nothing to worry about. You should love him for him and not what he is. You should talk to him and tell him how you feel. If you actually saw your boyfriend with another guy and then he told you that he was bisexual, then you should do something abott that. If you think this will affect your relationship with him, then talk to him and decide what you want to do.
-Karen
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whenever i do crunches on the floor, i always get bad headachs. does anyone know whyy? well anyways, so since i get headaches while doing then on the floor, i do the crunches on my bed. do you think theres a difference between doing crunches on the floor and the bed? its my only way of doing crunches because my head hruts whenever i do crunches on the floor pleasehelp!
You are probably getting headaches for moving your head up too fast instead of your upper body. Try doing crunches slower if you do them at a fast pace. It should help and if not, take Advil or Alieve. If you do crunches on your bed, yes, there is a difference because the floor is flatter and hard whereas your bed is bouncy. If you have a trampoline, you can do crunches on there.
-Karen
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Okay, i've been dating this guy for like 2 months...and he's being really immature and he can't do things very often cuz his parents r really strict and he's been really busy. I want to wait for summer when he can do more stuff because i really like him....what should i do? dump or wait~*Kt*~
If you really like your boyfriend, then you should wait until the summer when you two can do more things because it's not his fault that he can't do anything. Why is her immature? You should talk to him and figure out something between you two. Maybe you can take a break but not actually break up with him and then you two can go back out at the end of the school year? That's just a thought and you don't have to do that. Just talk to him and tell him how you feel.
-Karen
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how do you get a guyy to ask you out??
To get a guy to ask you out, you need to show him that you are interested in him by talking to him and hanging out with him. Flirting will also help you and it will get a guy to ask you out.
-Karen
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ok..well i have been dating my boyfriend for about 2 months and all we have done is hugged and held hands and talk on the phone 24/7...i really wanna kiss him!!....i just get really nervous!!...I dont know y ive kissed a lot of guys but i dont know y im so nervous with him...i love him more than anything!...what can make me not so scared???...
The reason that you are really nervous to kiss your boyfriend is because you love him and that you don't want to mess up and let this change your relationship with him. If you don't want to be scared, just convince yourself that your boyfriend is just a guy and that you can kiss him, just like you kissed other guys. Just go for it and kiss him. You won't be nervous, once you kiss him. But since you can't see him outside of school, you could wait until he isn't grounded anymore.
-Karen
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My friend has gone crazy! We used to be really close. Then, we got in a fight because she thought I was "copying" her (whatever that means" but about a month later, she called to apologize to me and said that "she was stupid" and blah blah blah. Whatever. Well, a month after that, (a couple weeks ago) we were talking on te internet (MSN messanger) and I said, "I have to go because my mom is taking me to KOHL's because they have a sale and I need another pair of pants." She got mad because SHE shops there and now, she thinks I'm copying her. I want to be her friend but what's a friend if you can't trust her? There's no point for friendship if it is going to work out that way! I need to know if I should just apologize for something that is totally stupid and pointless, or wait for her to calm down and call me so she can realize how dumb she's been? I have no earthly idea what has gotten into her. Like, we used to go shopping together for matching clothes and shoes but I never thought it bothered her. It never bothered me when she did something exactly like me! And yes, she has done many things like me just to be like me. We called each other all these REALLY mean names but I don't want to be her friend if I can't even go to the same store as her! By the way, she informed me about that store and it was on T.V but their clothes are really expensive but they are so adorable. By the way, I'm 13 years old and I rate 5's to whoever on this earth can help me! What should I do???
I used to have a friend just like yours, except she copied me and such. You shouldn't apologize because she is the one who is taking this seriously and just because you shop and stores that she usually shops at, it doesn't mean that you copy her. You really don't need a friend who accuses you of copying her and that you always get in fights that are over nothing. Talk to her and tell her that if she continues to be like this. If she tells you that you can't shop at the stores that she shops at, definitely find a better friend who doesn't care if you shop at the same places. If you always fight and such, that tells you that your friendship is really bad between you two. You could wait for her to calm down and apologize to you but she's just going to do the same thing again.
-Karen
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I rate high....
Well me and this guy are friends I like him and stuff well he wants to go to the movies this weekend but my mom said I cant date until im 17. I told her its just as friends but she still says no. Just because she iddnt start dating until she was 17 doesnt mean she had to do that to me. What should I do? I really realllly wanna go with him.
You need to talk to your mom and tell her that she shouldn't raise you like she was raised and that you shouldn't be allowed to date until you are 17 because you don't want to be like your mom. Maybe your mom will let you go if you bring some friends with you? Try letting your mom get to know this guy and just keep on telling her that you are only friends and friends go and hang out at the mall and movies and it doesn't matter if they are guys or girls.
-Karen
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ok I am a 16/f and there is this kid that I am close to being able to say like I love him but not quite. And I introduced my cousin to him, which was a big mistake. Because shes now dating him or whatever, which is total bullshit. Because she knows what was going on between him and I and how I felt. I confronted her about some shit but she just doesn't understand and doesn't see what shes done she thinks shes miss innocent does no wrong. What do I do? The guy was one of my best friends on top of it and now doesn't even call me anymore, like its all screwed up. Can someone help me please I would really appreciate it. Thanks
Your cousin should have never done that to you. If she knew what was going on between you and this guy, then she should have stayed away. If you have tried talking to her before and it didn't work, talk to her again but speak firmer and sound mean so she will actually listen to you. Tell her that by going out with this guy, she has ruined your friendship with him and she needs to stop going out with him. Your cousin is really mean and I would be hysterical if my cousin did this to me. You should try talking to this guy and explain that your cousin has ruined everything and that you liked him. Once your cousin realizes that she did something wrong, she will fix it but for now, you need to talk to her and explain how you feel about her actions and such. If talking to her in person doesn't work, then write her a long letter, explaining how you feel and telling her that she shouldn't be going out with this guy and now she has ruined everything.
-Karen
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ok i have this really big test tommorow and i havent been in school its for science and social studies. its on:
soical studies-the 1920's
science-molecules(sp)
please please help me!!dont delete
I'm sorry but I don't think anyone would take the time to explain everything that you want to know about in one big paragraph. Go study with a friend and just make flash cards and such. You need to do your own studying and not having people help you out.
-Karen
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Okay, my friend...Let's call her Jill, is really in love with this guy...Let's call him Jack. She's liked him since 6th grade. Well, Jill is one of my best friends and Jack, he's in my 2nd period and hes been flirting with me alot the past few months, and i'm sorry to say I've flirted back.
Well, this morning, he gave me a note and explained to me that he liked me. And then I heard him talking to his friend about me.
I really like this guy and I want to go out with him but I still want to be friends with Jill.
-I know that I should talk to her about it, and everyones telling me that if she's a good friend she'll support Jack and I's relationship, but i know deep down that there will be some sort of awkwardness around Jill.
So the question here is: How can I have a relationship with Jack, without ruining my friendship with Jill?
If Jill has liked Jack for a long time, then you should try not to start a relationship with Jack because it wouldn't be fair for you if you were Jill and if she liked Jack. If you don't want to ruin your friendship with Jill, then you should try not dating Jack. But since he told you that he liked you, Jill needs to accept that because he told you how you feel and is probably going to ask you out. You need to talk to her and just tell her everything. Tell her that a guy won't ruin your friendship with her. You just need to decide what would be best for you, Jill, and Jack.
-Karen
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theres this kid i want to hook up with.. hes my friends cousin.. we havnt met yet but we probably will soon.. the thing is hes skater/punk and im like prep... i dont know how we will be able to go out together with eachothers friends if were so different.. my guy friends would probably make fun of him.. and i dont want that.. i just hope he likes me for me..
You need to ignore what your friends think about you and this guy if you two ever go out because it doesn't matter if you two are different. Remember, opposites attract. If you like this guy and if he likes you, then that's what matters. You don't need to change for this guy and he will probably like you for you, don't worry.
-Karen
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My xboyfriend just asked me out and told me he loves me still and it was very stupid of him to break up with me. i've found some one else, his best friend, but i dont want to hurt him.
You need to talk to him and tell him how you feel and that you like someone else, his best friend. Tell him that you two already had a chance to be together but it didn't work out. If your relationship didn't work out, then it tells you that if you go back out with him, it may not work out again. What ever you tell your ex-boyfriend, it will hurt him no matter what, but if you like someone else, it's not your fault. If you go out with his best friend and it doesn't work, then maybe you two can get back together if he considers it? Just talk to him and tell him how you feel and such.
-Karen
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my boy friend is here right now I am so in the mood roght now but I have a promice that I wont lose it ( virginity) till I get married but I want to so bad what do I do help me
If you made a promise that you won't lose your virginity until you get married, then you should not break it and wait until you are married to have sex. But if you feel that you are ready and want to have sex with your boyfriend, then go right ahead and have sex with him but promises are to keep and not break. It's your life and you can do what you want to do and no one can stop you. You should seriously think about this; would you rather break this promise and have everyone be disappointed in you or just keep it until you are married?
-Karen
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I Have the biggest crush on my teacher. I stare at him and sometimes he stares back. Sometimes he just stares at me the whole period. He gives me good grades when sometimes I dont earn them. But I seriously think about him alot. What do I do? How do I know if he likes me back?
I used to have a crush on my substitute teacher, and what girl wouldn't have a crush on their teacher, right? Well, you need to stop having feelings for your teacher because trust me, he does not like you back because if he ever did like you and people did find out, he could get in serious trouble. Look at all those LifeTime movies about student and teacher relationships; the teacher always gets sent to jail. You really can't tell if your teacher likes you because he is just nice to you and you are probably his best student and that's why he gives you good grades. Try to convince yourself that nothing can happen between you and that it's wrong. I'm sorry to disappoint you but I don't think a teacher would do anything with his student that is about 10+ years younger than him. You need to move on and start talking to guys that are your age.
-Karen
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What do you do when everyone tells you you're something you're not, just to make you feel better? I am tired of it. Everyone says I'm not fat when I know I am, and they say boys are chsasing after me, when they are running. It just makes me feel worse and they won't stop. I don't care about boyfriends. Most of them are jerks anyways. I have friends that are boys, but no one has ever shown affection toward me, for real. I don't care but I want my friends to leave me alone about it. What do I do?
-TearsThatFall
If you want everyone to leave you alone, you need to simply talk to them and tell them that it's sweet and kind of them to say things about you but you don't actually believe it. It's alright to feel this way but one day, you will start to notice that when someone compliments you or says something nice, that it's true. You just need to talk to everyone and tell them to stop saying nice things about you and such and that you don't think it's true.
-Karen
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i got this friend right, he has such bad luck with girls and all he does is try to show off for them but nothin works and he just gets blown off all the time..... what should he do?
You need to tell your friend that showing off for girls won't get him no where and that girls don't like that, especially me. If he wants to get a girl, then he needs to start talking to some and start being friendly with him. Tell him that he needs to not by shy and freeze when ever he sees a girl. If he is just himself and not someone that he isn't, then he will get a girl.
-Karen
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i have just broken up with my boyfriend who i had been going out with for 8 months. it was the first time i loved someone, he came over nearly everyday. we broke up because he was taking me for granted and always ditching me and saying nasty things to me.. and then sometimes he was awesome. we have broken up and got back together in the past and but i dont want that to happen again. i miss him so so so much and i do still like him but i cant take any more abuse. wats the best way to get over someone.. im trying sooo hard not to call him please help!
To get over your ex-boyfriend, you need to tell yourself that you don't deserve to be hurt by this guy and that there are so many other great guys out there that will treat you right. Start talking to more people, especially guys, and get to know them. Talk to your friends and they will help you out with getting over your ex-boyfriend. It sounds like your ex-boyfriend doesn't care about the way you feel and he shouldn't say nasty things to you. You will eventually get over this guy, it will just take time and effort.
-Karen
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