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Scared..dont know y!!


Question Posted Wednesday March 2 2005, 4:26 pm

ok..well i have been dating my boyfriend for about 2 months and all we have done is hugged and held hands and talk on the phone 24/7...i really wanna kiss him!!....i just get really nervous!!...I dont know y ive kissed a lot of guys but i dont know y im so nervous with him...i love him more than anything!...what can make me not so scared???...

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Additional info, added Wednesday March 2 2005, 4:27 pm:
by the way the only time i see him is at school...and we cant go to the movies or anything because hes grounded.

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ThugGirl041790 answered Wednesday March 2 2005, 5:17 pm:
Well wait til he's ungrounded then make plans to go to either to your house and chill or his or even a neighbor hood part to be kinda alone you know..cause out with a whole bunch people would make it harder for you to jus kiss him and make a move.. but um i would try to be round him more if i was you so you can get more comfortable and so it would be more easier for you to be able to kiss him,, best of luck.. much luv dez

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Karen answered Wednesday March 2 2005, 5:12 pm:
The reason that you are really nervous to kiss your boyfriend is because you love him and that you don't want to mess up and let this change your relationship with him. If you don't want to be scared, just convince yourself that your boyfriend is just a guy and that you can kiss him, just like you kissed other guys. Just go for it and kiss him. You won't be nervous, once you kiss him. But since you can't see him outside of school, you could wait until he isn't grounded anymore.
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shelby&kt answered Wednesday March 2 2005, 5:09 pm:
just relax, if you wanna kiss him that bad do it! lol, i'm sure he'll want one too. Just pop in a breath mint and go for it!

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kitty_kat123 answered Wednesday March 2 2005, 4:42 pm:
There really is nothing you can do make you not scared. You are scared and nervous because you REALLY love and care about this guy. You may have cared fo your other boyfriends but... not like this. It's different. You like him. He likes you. Why not? You guys could actually have chemistry between you and him. You'll never know the outcomes unless try it. Try to make a more sexual move on him. I guarentee you that he is thinking this too. He is saying right now, "I want to kiss her." He's scared too! You can't expect him to make ALL the moves. Besides, you've known the guy for two years? You guys couold actually be compatible! Haha. Well, I hope you have good luck. By the way, there is no reason to be scared. He's a boy that likes you. He WON'T push away! :-)Best of luck to you! Email me updates! ;-)
~~~Kayla~~~

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BeFABULOUSxo answered Wednesday March 2 2005, 4:41 pm:
kiss him on the cheek. then he'll get the hink. probly lol good luck

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XxJeSSeGeRbiLxX answered Wednesday March 2 2005, 4:39 pm:
just kiss him! every guy likes to kiss, trust me. or just talk to him about it

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XoxBroKeNxoX answered Wednesday March 2 2005, 4:37 pm:
wel wait til hes ungrounded ..like you said, and since you only see him in school, of youre badass then skip some classes with him and go somewhere like the bathroom or somewhere to make out. if you dont feel comfortable youre not ready yet. its scary sometimes, i know....maybe try talking about it to him. or sneak out and go out drinking with him and then you both can make out or possible have sex!!!!!!!or not. okay well just start slow, like hugging and cuddling n shit, then slowly move to kissin. its akward the first time but youl feel really happy you did it because that way you wont have to worry about making the first move or being nervous. you can always try saying "honey, do you still love me" i mean you never want to kiss me and i was just wondering if youre still..interested in me" lol or something work off of that.good luck in your relationship!

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