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mY FrIeNd HaS gOnE cRaZy!!!
My friend has gone crazy! We used to be really close. Then, we got in a fight because she thought I was "copying" her (whatever that means" but about a month later, she called to apologize to me and said that "she was stupid" and blah blah blah. Whatever. Well, a month after that, (a couple weeks ago) we were talking on te internet (MSN messanger) and I said, "I have to go because my mom is taking me to KOHL's because they have a sale and I need another pair of pants." She got mad because SHE shops there and now, she thinks I'm copying her. I want to be her friend but what's a friend if you can't trust her? There's no point for friendship if it is going to work out that way! I need to know if I should just apologize for something that is totally stupid and pointless, or wait for her to calm down and call me so she can realize how dumb she's been? I have no earthly idea what has gotten into her. Like, we used to go shopping together for matching clothes and shoes but I never thought it bothered her. It never bothered me when she did something exactly like me! And yes, she has done many things like me just to be like me. We called each other all these REALLY mean names but I don't want to be her friend if I can't even go to the same store as her! By the way, she informed me about that store and it was on T.V but their clothes are really expensive but they are so adorable. By the way, I'm 13 years old and I rate 5's to whoever on this earth can help me! What should I do???
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Tell her you're not copying her, what makes her think you're copying her? Im starting to get pissed here, but I'll control my temper...
SHE IS NO PARIS HILTON! Why the hell would you copy her for? Just ask her why she thinks youre copying her. I understand that she wants her own style and doesnt like it when people copy her, but shes really passing the line. When she accuses you again, stop talking to her, dont go sucking up to her because you wanna be a good friend. You gotta have an attitude! Be strong! No more Miss nice gurlie! Its a doggy dog world out there, not everyone is as nice as you are.
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I had this same problem, but i didnt know i was copying, i accidently bought some shirts like her and she blew up. What you need to do is appoligize about calling her names, but tell her that everyone can shop at KOHLS<< its one of the most popular stores you can find! Its another thing if you copy her intentially but you were just getting a pair of pants right?? well theres nothing wrong with that! Im so sorry there are people like this! Tell her (if you want) what you said... I dont want to be your friend if i cant even go to the same store as you! I hope this all works out. good luck:) xoxo BLONDE911
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Shes an idiot. Who cares if she thinks your stealing her flash? Not me, certainly you shouldnt. Shes not a very good sharer. Forget her.
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your supposed to be friends, that means you can have similar tastes in things. apologize for calling her names, but wait for her to calm down about the whole shopping at the same stores thing...
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Your friend shouldn't try to change you. Your friend should accept you for who you are. And if she can't deal with that, you're better off without her. Kohl's is a popular place. She shouldn't just get mad over such a silly lil thing. She might as well get mad at you for walking the same Earth she does.
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I used to have a friend just like yours, except she copied me and such. You shouldn't apologize because she is the one who is taking this seriously and just because you shop and stores that she usually shops at, it doesn't mean that you copy her. You really don't need a friend who accuses you of copying her and that you always get in fights that are over nothing. Talk to her and tell her that if she continues to be like this. If she tells you that you can't shop at the stores that she shops at, definitely find a better friend who doesn't care if you shop at the same places. If you always fight and such, that tells you that your friendship is really bad between you two. You could wait for her to calm down and apologize to you but she's just going to do the same thing again.
-Karen
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Your so called "friend" is being a little immature. There's plenty of other people out there for you. Just don't worry about it and wait till she grows up.
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your friends a retard.....dont listen to her. i dont even know why ur still her friend
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tell her your not copying her bcuz you go to the same store it was your choice and your moms to go there and if she wants to b that way tell her we need some space i dont kno y you keep intaginizing me!!!
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thats fucking gay. youre friend needs to grow up, although i myself get pretty angry when someone copies off me. its stupid but its just the way i am. you should try writing her a note!!!!!! because you can put alot of stuff into it and tell her everything n crap. anyways i dont think the both of you are really the great friends that you said u were before, because a friend wouldnt do that. tell her to put herself in your situation. also, ask her what the fuck she says to the some 900000 shoppers that buy clothes from there. just because she goes there doesnt mean you cant so just tell her to fucking grow up and get over that. i have no idea why you want to be friends with someone like that.
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