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What was the point ?
Alright, I was up at a skating rink I always go to and I was skating, I saw this guy who was skating backwards. Im one of those who just doesnt let a guy get to me. For some out of the blue reason, he started talkin to me. I was so stunned by him, thers no way anyone could understand how shocked I was to see him. I didnt even know him. So about a week later hes down here again at this rink. We talk and I find out hes from Brewton, AL. Its only about 50 min. away from Milton. Im a Sophmore and hes a Senior, theres something about him that strikes me (in a good way) We start goin out about half a month later, Things were so good between me and him for weeks and I liked him a lot, I even lost my virginity to him. I dont why but I coudlnt resist him. It felt like something told me it was okay, so weeks later Im starting to feel like he doesnt like me, because hes not comeing down to see me. (Plus he had a good reason he had wrecked his car a couple weeks back because he was driving home from my house at like 3 in the morning and hit a deer.) For three weeks I keep my calm, and listen to his reasons for not comeing.. Finally on the 4th week I call him for 3 days in a row.. not getting an answer, I finally leave a message. Saying that " We cant be together and I dont think its gonna work and that if he wants to talk give me a call" A week goes by and I decide to call him, We talk and I ask him why he never returned my call.. he says he was too mad that I had ended it. I asked him if thats the way he wanted things to be, he sed "No,not at the time, but it would have ended that way eventually" Thats about all was said.. So here it is a month later. And my friend sees him down at Opps Alley a place down here close to Milton, She talks to him about us breaking up, and if thats what he wants. He tells her no,but now it doesnt matter anymore. I really have feelings for this guy, and he doesnt know it. I know, that to call him wouldnt make a difference, because its just not gonna work. But I think about it and what if Im suppose to call him? If something wasnt meant for me and him at all..Why'd God put him there that one night at the skating rink,when he lives miles away? And why was it me he noticed, and what made me notice him ? You think theres was anything there..or am I just tryin to make myself believe something might actually be between us ? And before you answer I've had lots of quick relationships,except for 1 that lasted about 6 months. So Im not falling for him cause hes like my first boyfriend or nothing, I've had experience.
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you fell for him because he was right for you at the time, but if he wasn't calling you or coming to see you or anything, the spark that was orginally there for him isn't anymore. i'm sorry, but i would call it over.
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I`m not trying to sound mean but I think he just might of used you for sex. I mean right after it he left and didnt call or anything. But that might not be true and I dont know. Maybe you guys had something there between you guys or maybe not. He seems like an asshole for doing that to you!! I honestly think that you should move on. If you really love him maybe you tell him how you feel and see what he would do about it. You guys could try again. But I think that you could do better without him because he seems like one of those people who doesnt change or even knows what they are doing wrong. By moving on, you wont have to worry about him hurting you again or anything and I`m defenetly sure that you can find a better guy for you because you seem really sweet! Hope I helped!! Good luck! x0
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sadly, he got what he wanted and moved on
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It seems long distance relationships don't work for you. If y'all don't see eacch other often it probably won't work out because you love him so much that you can't stand to see him like once a month or whatever. Just follow your heart and do what feels right. Best of luck to ya
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There's two possibilities with this one: 1) he was just using you for sex. 2) he really did like you
If it's #1, then forget about him! Or at least try.
If it's #2, then it's worth a shot to try and get back together with him. Yes, long distance relationships are hard, but they are possible.
First of all, he needs to know how you feel about him. Call him, or send him an email. Explain that you broke up with him because you were hurt that he hadn't called or visited. Say you want to try again.
Good luck!
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Okay I hope you dont get offended by me saying this. I think that he just tryed to hook up with you, and once he got sex he left. I mean, soon after you had sex he left. I dont know, maybe its true maybe its not. I cant really judge him if I dont know him. But I'm just saying, I think you should just give it up though...because 1) its long distance and 2) you had your fun with him and now its time to move on. I'm sure there are many guys out there and you will find one and be happy with him. Its time to move on sweetie! :)
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forget him, a guy that acts like that isnt worth your time. i know, ive gotten the same exact saying from someone, it was "i didnt end it, i belive you did, my dear". it made me very angry and sad, and it was some time last year and im still having a hard time getting over it. but those people are in my past now. just end your relationship with him before you become even more hurt. good luck.
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