theres this kid i want to hook up with.. hes my friends cousin.. we havnt met yet but we probably will soon.. the thing is hes skater/punk and im like prep... i dont know how we will be able to go out together with eachothers friends if were so different.. my guy friends would probably make fun of him.. and i dont want that.. i just hope he likes me for me..
AS for your worries about him maybe not liking you..I'm sure he'll give you a chance. If he doesn't then he's not worth it. If he doesn't like you for you it has nothing to do with the fact that he's skater/punk...it just means that he's a flat out asshole in general. If he doesn't give you a chance as friend at LEAST, then just forget about him. He may not want to date you but that doesnt mean hes a bad person, because for all you know he could still want to become friends with you ya know?..but yeah..sorry for the confusion.
To wrap it all up.. I'm sure he'll like you for you. It shouldn't matter what style you are..I mean if he sees you're a good person he may give you a chance. If he doesnt give you a chance at all as a person, then just drop him.
surferlil2002 answered Wednesday March 2 2005, 8:01 pm: don't worry about what your friends think. if you like him then that is all that matters. if you are afraid of you guy friends making fun of him, explain to them that you really like him and you will be really upset if they make fun of him (then talk to their gf's and make them keep the bois under control... lol) [ surferlil2002's advice column | Ask surferlil2002 A Question ]
ballerina04 answered Wednesday March 2 2005, 6:19 pm: Don't listen to what your friends think. If you two like each other, then that's what matters. Who cares about labeling people anyway; you should just be you. [ ballerina04's advice column | Ask ballerina04 A Question ]
Teza answered Wednesday March 2 2005, 6:18 pm: Aww .. hehe. If you both like each other go for it!! I`m sure he would like you for you because if he didnt like you then why would he talk to you before? l0l I know how you feel tho but it doesnt really matter what your friends think about him but then it does. If they say anything about him talk to your friends about it. Hes the same person as any of them but he just dresses differently. But again.. if you both like each other go for it! x0 [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
shelby&kt answered Wednesday March 2 2005, 5:21 pm: First of all wait till you meet him and don't worry about it until then. And second of all what exactly do u mean by "hook up" it has a totally different meaning these days. Always remember though opposites attract. And who cares what ur friends think about him, he's urs not theirs. [ shelby&kt's advice column | Ask shelby&kt A Question ]
XoxBroKeNxoX answered Wednesday March 2 2005, 4:55 pm: well first you shouldnt be labeling yourselves, and what does being preppy have to do with you fucking liking a guy?if you guys actually had brains you would realize that when you "like" someone its not for the clothes you wear, darling. he'll probably reject you anyways so theres no point metting up with him. [ XoxBroKeNxoX's advice column | Ask XoxBroKeNxoX A Question ]
Karen answered Wednesday March 2 2005, 4:42 pm: You need to ignore what your friends think about you and this guy if you two ever go out because it doesn't matter if you two are different. Remember, opposites attract. If you like this guy and if he likes you, then that's what matters. You don't need to change for this guy and he will probably like you for you, don't worry.
-Karen [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
punk_rock101 answered Wednesday March 2 2005, 4:39 pm: tons of people have those kinds of relationships, just go with it, if you two like eachother, then absolutly go for it. dont care what your friends think, if their you real friends, then they will understand you like him, and not care
Sherry answered Wednesday March 2 2005, 4:33 pm: You shouldent care what your friends think. Just because hes a punk and your a prep doesnt mean you shouldent go out. Kinda like if someone was white, and their bf was black..it doesnt matter. If your friends have problems with it, then their not your true friends!! [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
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