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Dont want to hurt him
My xboyfriend just asked me out and told me he loves me still and it was very stupid of him to break up with me. i've found some one else, his best friend, but i dont want to hurt him.
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well, do you love your ex?? if you do you have to choose one of them, or none of them.
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you really shouldn't feel this way. i mean he was the one that broke up w/ you in the first place right? and well he had his chance to be w/ you but he didn't take it. and yeah maybe liking his best friend is weird but he has to kno that you've moved on. tell him that you don't like him in that anymore. it might be hard on him but hey its his fault in the first place.
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tell him its not a good idea, but do it gently...write him a note or somehing, and ask yourself whyd u guys break up last time?? just tell him you dont wanna change..or maybe even ruin the friendship you guys have now. or something like that.
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i understand that you dont want to hurt him.. but you have to like whoever your heart says you do. tell him that you already found someone else and your sorry.. dont go out with your ex again just because you feel sorry for him
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You need to talk to him and tell him how you feel and that you like someone else, his best friend. Tell him that you two already had a chance to be together but it didn't work out. If your relationship didn't work out, then it tells you that if you go back out with him, it may not work out again. What ever you tell your ex-boyfriend, it will hurt him no matter what, but if you like someone else, it's not your fault. If you go out with his best friend and it doesn't work, then maybe you two can get back together if he considers it? Just talk to him and tell him how you feel and such.
-Karen
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