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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.

I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.

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I was just wondering, do y'all spend more time with your bf/gf or with your friends?

Well, it's always best to spend equal amout of time with both. Friends always might say you always ditch us for him or her. Make sure you never leave one out for the other one. I usually spend time with both of them.

i need some cute christmas quotes for my aim profiler. any ideas or sites that have them?!

thanks a lot

I have one. Sorry I don't have a website though.

Santa, can you hear me
I have been so good this year
And all I want is one thing
Tell me my true love is here
He's all I want just for me
Underneath my Christmas tree
I'll be waiting here
Santa that's my only wish this year.

I went to visit a guy that I'm friends with at his work. When he saw me his face lit up and he started winking at me. He was talking to another guy who I remembered from a party. I started talking to this guy and called him by his name. Anyways, I new that my friend had to get back to work so I said goodbye to both of them. The guy that I didnt know very well smiled and said goodbye, but then my friend glared at me and said BYE! angrily.
Does this mean that my friend was jealous I was talking to the other guy? He's not my bf so maybe his feelings run deeper for me than I thought? What do you think?

It could be that he was jelous. Expecilly because the other guy gave you a flirty smile and your friend got a little bit jelous. That's just my opinion. ♥

Heyy everyone!

This is Lauren. I asked a few questions a while back. The most recent(besides this one) was about books. I didnt exactly get as many reponses as I was looking for. I took some of the advice. I took Shattering Glass, Cut, and A Child Called It from the library and read them. Does anyone know any other good books that deal with relashionships, dealing with abuse or rape, or any other REALLY dramatic books? I also LOVE a good mystery!

Thanks a Ton!
Lauren =)

Go Ask Alice. I recomend it. If you haven't read it, you should. ♥

Do guys just want girls who are hot? Or something more?

Not all guys are like that. I hate when guys want girls just because they are hot. It's really pathetic. Some guys want just sex. Other guys want at least a decent looking girl. & some guys want a girl for their personality.

The guy I'm kinda seeing likes the "natural look"; no makeup, real breasts, and he prefers I don't shave because it's more natual, things like that. I'm at that point where I haven't quite snagged him as a boyfriend yet, but I'd really like to, so I'm willing to kind of change my style to make myself more attractive to him.Right now, my style would probably be labeled as "emo", and I wear alot of vintage-inspired clothing as well.

So here's my question: how can I achieve the "natural" look with my style, hair, and anything else?

Tight jeans, skirts, tight shirts are not natrual. Sorry to say. Having the natrual look doesn't mean you don't have to wear any make up. It means having less make up. Just like your narual skin tone colors. Like just a bit of eyeliner and mascara and lip gloss. If you wear eyeshadow, golds and light browns are considered the natrial look. For you style, there is no such natrual look. Dress how ever you want to. Natrual look basiclly is all about the make up. ♥

okay i know girls are suposed to shave down there, but i dont really know how. If i used like Nair, or something will it come off? Anyone know from experience or know someone whos tried it, and it worked?

Nair isn't all that good. It burns your skin. The best thing to do is wax, but thats very painful. Shave. Use shaving gel and warm water. It's nothing to worry about and it's how all girls usually do it.

how can i stop careing about what people think of me

The thing is, people will always have something bad to say about you no matter how beautiful, nice, outgoing or whatever you are. They will be many jelous people and you just have to learn how to ignore them. You know that the negitive things they say about you, aren't true and you have to ignore it. I used to care a lot about what people thought about me. Now, I could care less. I have friends and I have family members who love me for who I am and there is no reason why I should try to be different for them. Be yourself, and don't change for other people. Ignore them because you know they are wrong.

how long should someone wait to have have sex(are b.f. and g.f.)

If you are Catholic or Christian the thing is don't have sex until you are married. Most people don't do that but still. Whenever you are ready to have sex, go for it. Make sure you really want to and that you woudln't have any regrets on it later. Be safe!

is alcohal that is used in perfumes the same as used in liqour

No it's not. The alchocol in perfumes has added chemicals and sents.

i have these like marks on my boobs, i thin their stretch marks..when do the go away?

15/f

It's normal to have that, and as you grow you will continue to have them. Once you stop, they will go away. Use Cocoa Butter and it will help. It's for strech marks. ♥

Here goes my story I already know this girl for almost two years now and lately she is quite acting really wierd for the past three months now.. It goes like this I usually hear my name with one of her friends. Whenever I get close to her,her friends kinda laugh and they do some signallings with her. I usually catch her staring at me or doing eye contact.. And one thing she really cares for me like always keeps on telling me what things to do, What to wear and etc...At one time we have this contest about a play in English class.. At the back stage she suddenly said that she wants to put her hankerchief inside my pocket oh for pete's sake she could just put it inside her own pocket.. Im quite sure her pockets is empty.. And sometimes whenever I tease her she get's really mad Im mean not that Mad like in joking manner..and to top it all off when me and my classmates went on a practice at her house I notice something's wrong I noticed that all her relatives (ie, uncle,cousins,her mom) kinda smile at me and stared at me for a few seconds maybe she told her relatives about me. Well that's about it well I could put more examples but it's gonna be quite too long for just an advice hope this helps..

Those are some of the signs that she might like you. You never know though because she might like you as just a really good friend. Flirt with her and find out. Anyways, I think that she does like you. That's just my opinion. Girls are more open and she probablly told her family members about you. When a girl likes someone, and their friends always giggle when they see you and she is there, there is a posibility she likes you!! Just talk to her more and flirt with her. If she keeps flirting back then good. :D

Well this guy, he asked me out and then we dated, for a week and a half, until i kind of thought he was getting closer to my friend, Emma.I talked to him on msn and asked him if he liked her, but he didnt say anything and then i go "Look i dont care about anything, all i want to know is do you still love me?" and he goes "Look there is no point, you have lost my trust what more can you lose?" and i go "I just want to know Do you like Emma?" and he said "Im sorry i cannot go out with you anymore." and he dumped me. Then next week, he blocked me and deleted me on msn..oh and he looks at me alot in class. We were playing volleyball in sport, and he would look at me alot and yeah. My other friend is in his roll call class and she said he looked upset in roll call class after he dumped me..Please help!! and also he is a goth

A week and a half and you guys already loved each other? Anyways, you need to try to talk to him somehow. If he blocked you from MSN or AIM try talking to him at school or write him a note. Just find out why he lost your trust and what you did wrong. It's normal to be upset after going through a break up and he is always still going to look at you. He probablly thinks of everything that happened, and he still might have feelings for you even if he won't admit it. Just talk to him and see what's been going on.

I know this sounds really weird, but is it normal to have a little crush on a character in a movie? Not the actor, but the character. Because, I have no idea why, but I kind of have a crush on the Phantom from "Andrew Lloyd Webber's Phantom..." I don't know why. Maybe it's because he's so dramatic, you really feel for him, has a great voice, and/or the unmasked side of his face is goodlooking. Is this pathetic?

No, I wouldn't say pathetic and don't feel weird about it. A lot of people get that. It will last for a little while and then the crush will go away. It's okay to think they're cute. ♥

melissa thinks u backstabbed her!

I didn't. I belived both sides and I'm just really confused on what the truth is. I still love her and she is still awesome and I told her I was sorry. I wish all of this goes away because I don't want her to be mad at me or anyone else. :( ♥

16/f
I need to get some perfume but idk what kind.. What are some good perfumes that boys like? (And not too expensive)

I think the Paris Hilton perfume smells really good. A lot of guys like it because it isn't really strong. Also the Victoria Secret perfumes smell really good and aren't expensive.

doo you bolieve that thing that link you got for XdontXhateX ???? ok well love yaa !!

♥ Samra

Yes I do belive it. I'm very upset though because " Melissa " was really nice and I could talk to her. There is a lot of proof, so it's very shocking. How about you? What's your opinion? ♥ ya babe!

im thinking about crash dieting for a special sport event. what do you this about it? & are there any down sides to crash dieting

Don't do it. It's very unhealthy and it really won't help you much. You should just start eating healthier foods and do it on time so you will get better results.

http://www.livejournal.com/users/xd0nthatex_fake/

OH MY EFFIN GOSH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! All the proof is soo belivable!! HOW THE HE*L COULD SHE DO THIS!

Heyy!,

Is it wrong for an 13 year old and an 11 year old to go out?..I really need someones opinion!!!

It's not wrong, but to other people it may seem a little bit weird. If you like each other, then defenetly go for it. It's only a 2 year difference and that's not a lot.

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