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my bf isnt excactly the cutest person in the world but i love him so much. alot of the time some of my friends that i'm not that close to always ask me questions about why im going out with him. and this girls in one of my classes always says how she would only go out with a guy if he was cute. and my bf sits right behind me in that class. he's not like ugly or anything but he's not hot either. i don't know what 2 do about it when pple tell me that i shouldnt go out with him or ask me why i am going out with him. please help........
dont listen to those "friends" your boyfriend is like any other guy you should only breakup w/ him if you guys have a crisis with eachother etc
I am about 10lbs underweight it may not sound like much but I'm 14 years old, 69lbs, and 4'6 feet. I am to small and are in prone to serious health risks what shall I do?
i dont think your underweight you might think you are but your pretty tiny bc your 4'6" your fine
ok my x and i have known echother sence sixth gradewe started going out in 8th and hrew the summer then all the sudden he dumps me then asks me out a week later saying hed never do anything like that to hurt me again.... then 3 months later he falls for another girl and dumps me again... so thats like having my heart broken twice first for beig dumped by a boy i lovd very much then finding he already likes another girl soo we dont talk or a good month then out of the lue he says he loves me and he miss's me and he wants me back but i take time to think about it and before i can say yes he tells me he likes ssomeone else soo thats th gourth time he broke my heart.... but we were friendly still but just now hes stating to tell me he still likes me after finding out that i liked him still and i asked about the other girl and he said y cant i like you both and soo im confused now he says when he couses it will be right so now im thinkin is he just doing this to get my to pay attention to him and all that stuff and i have never stoped liking him .. if he asks me back out i dont kno if i can trut him again .. do yea'll think it would be good idea to go bac out wth him i hve to ask you because i dont kno if i can trust my friends right now thanks alot
hes a jerk if your dumped once then maybe it just didnt work out but twice?? he shouldnt do that to you anymore so dont get back together w/ him and if you want him to payback what he did flirt and chill out with his friends
Hi I am christian, and I have a friend who is jewish. I want to get her a "holiday" present, but I am not sure what to call it, or if she would think it was rude. I am also not sure when i should give it to her. I don't know when haunaka is. What do you think?
the last day of hannakah was yesterday it lasts for eight nights, but dont get her a dreidle or gelt
i cant focus- anyone have any good ideas how to??
chek in and see if you have add (i dont mean to affend you :(
well im 13 (white) and this 15 year old (black)..likes me and a lot i guess. i dont no what to do, im not racist but i dont want to hurt his feelings..ive never been in a situation like this b4..please help
so why cant you go out iwth him???¿? (if its just because hes black your really pathetic and racist cause you shoulldnt judge people like that ever!!)
Ok see there is this kid in one of my classes that I like and I know he like me because he is always flirting with!! And I want to ask him out but he is 2 of my friends Ex
im not saying you shouldnt ask your friends but tere is no law stating that you have to, ask him out then explain it to your friends and if they dont understand then you have a really shitty group of friends
this kid (corey) likes me ALOT. i only like him as a bestfriend, but i love him to death. he asked me to formal. at the same time, this other kid who I like is supposed to ask me. well when Corey asked me online to the formal, i said without thinking "well no because im waiting for someone else to ask me, but if he doesnt i'll go with you" and then i realized thats the WORST thing anyone could possibly say. and hes CRUSHED! i freaked out and apologized. he replied "its okay, i should have known not to ask you, you wouldnt go with me anyway" and now i feel like SHIT! i told my parents and they said im an asshole for saying that. they said if i end up not getting a date, that i SHOULDNT go with him because thats insulting and he deserves better. i feel SO BAD. what can i do/say to make it up to him?
omg i feel so bad for him but you should probably stick like a loveletter in his locker how your really sorry and you would like to go to the dance with him and that you didnt realize what you were saying
Hey,im 13 f and im 5'6 but i weigh like 146. i try to loose weight but theres just so many temptations all my friends are really skinny. they dont make fun of me or anything but like i just feel so different. . .anything i can do to be on a *safe* diet or workout plan?! thx
maybe you can see an obese doctor or you can plan out a 1000 calorie diet plan a day example- breakfast you can have oatmeal for lunch you can have a sandwhich etc g'luck
how do you get rid of zits fast...please dont tell me toothpaste, or proactive! thanks xNoS`
clearasel, some stuff by dove, jus go in the shampoo and soap department the'll have stuff there
What should I do to remove my leg hair?
wax or shave (i recomend waxing)
For some reason this is long, I don't know why, but it's longer than it needs to be. I know this isn't totally asking for advice, but I'm 14/f/nc, and this year our cul-de-sac's Christmas party is going to include of a secret santa. My neighbors dad is playing santa, and each one of the children (everyone under 18) had to draw names out of a hat to choose who they'll be buying their gifts for. Well, I got my little neighbor, she's 4, and I was wondering, what types of things would a 4 year old want. I am babysitting for her on the 4th and 5th, so I'll probably ask her, but I'm grounded this weekend for cutting class, and me and some friends are going to the mall on Friday(tomorrow, I only get grounded on weekends, not on weekdays) So that's the only time I'll have to go, otherwise I'll have to wait until we go grocery shopping, because I'm grounded for the next two weekends for cutting class (not going to my 4th period, I got caught the last 5 minutes of school... so close yet so far away...) Any suggestions will be appreciated... and if you want to leave rude advice, make it funny!
oh thats so cute i have a 6 yr old sis and shes driving me nuts how she wants this barbie doll and one of thos fak (obviously) take care of babies
Okay I am crying as I write this but I am a Advicenator and I need advice...
My Ex Boyfriend Sam and I went out for 9 months and the relationship went fine and the break up was mutual but lately all we seem to do is fight and the fights are usuaally his doing...weather he talks about his new intrest (I know she is not his girlfriend because I have friends that know more than Sam does) or talk about things that he KNOWS that will upset me and provoke me to hang up on him or cry. Please help me to get to have a better friendship with him and I still like him like I did when we went out.
Age: 21
Gender: Female
talk to him and explain it to him
Im 14 and about a year ago i started noticing wierd bumps on my thighs and the backs of my arms. The bumps are kinda like pimples they have white dots in them. Even if i dont shave they dont go away. Please Help Me!
i also hve them omg there so annoying my friends thing there goosbumps but there not
my little sister is 8 years old and she just got sick today and no one is going to be home for a week so we cant get to the hospital but she has a temp of 103 degrees and its not lowering at all, does anyone know anything i can do to help lower it or make her feel any better? thanks!! (I rate on how well you answer)
If it is 103 degrees you should NOT call 911 and it does not give you brain damage whoever said that cause i had a temperature when i was eight as high as 105.2 degrees i wasn't even sent to the hospital. If she turns purple at all get her to the hosptial if its that high put a cold cloth on her head and have a docctor see her and call ur parents
ok my friend forgot her password to her login(she has a windows XP) is there anyway she can get it because she was the admiastiraor adn the rest of her family was jsut the limtied accout if you could tell me it would help alot thanks
amke a new one
Well here's my situation. My mother was seeing a man for awhile that seemed totally normal, well as time passed he began to become controlling and totally weirded out. He was suppose to be this guy living "the good life" with money ect. ect. Well things started to get weird whenever everytime we were suppose to visit his house the meetings would get "cancelled." After awhile he started to turn my mother against me. He convinced her that I was a hell raising child who needed to be locked up, and I needed help because I was "Ill in the head." All of this was far from the truth. Anyways, to make an extremely long story short, we found out he's not who he says he is, and he has a major criminal record, just got off parole for MURDER. He has an obsession over me (For God only knows what reason) and now the police are after him and he dissapeard before they got the oppurtunity to arrest them. This has brought so much strain on our family. My mom is constantly drinking, and I just can't look at her the same after the things she did to me because this psycho told her to. I was just wondering if anyone had any ideas as to what to do in this situation. I want things to be better in our house-hold after this, but I have no idea where to start to mend it back together. Sorry it's so long, thanks for the help.
wow im raelly sorry maybe you and your mom could go out somewhere and talk about what happened or you can see a therappist
im a 15/f .. over thanksgiving i did some stuff with my boyfriend. i told one of my really good friends and she is really mad at me now. its not like i had sex with him or anything, and i was ready for what i did. i dont want to have sex w. him either because i want to save that for marriage. and ive told her that many times. but she is still pissed at my actions and doesnt trust me. what can i do to make her see that im not ganna go further then what i feel im ready for, and so that she is not mad at me anymore?
well yous orta need to put more details into this bc we cant really answer your questoin i f you put stuff but maybe shes jusdt jealous?
hey um.....i tried to use a tampon b4 and it hurt....BAD. I need help am i doing it right??? HELP!!
if this is your first time putting it up there its because your really scared and the muscle gets tense try to relax
I'm like, OMG, in LOVE with this guy, but like, he is just a FRIEND, and I have a boyfriend, but this guy is like THE ONE!!
LIKE OMG LIKE i think you should LIKE go LIKE out with LIKE him LIKE OMG LIKE TOTALLY!!!
ANY OTHER FREAKING WORD YOU CAN SAY BESIDES "OMG" AND "LIKE", VALLEY GIRL!!!