about

I'm Almedina. I'm foreign, and I'm pretty much ready to handle whatever life throws at me. Ha, pretty random that I go from being foreign to life,but anyways. I've had this column for about two yearsnow, and I don't update it as I should, or want to but with school and this crazy teenage life of mine, it gets pretty hard to do so. I've been giving advice to all my friends since I can remember and I love trying to help them. I'm out going and extrememly loud once you get to know me. I'm usually shy at first unless I've gotten to know you. I don't understand life sometimes. But I've got my whole life to figure out the meaning of it. I'm selfish at times, and stubborn. I care too much about things I shouldn't and not enough about the MOST important things in my life. I'm very annoyed with people at times, and tend to just block everyone out. I'm afraid to say I'm in love, but I'm not afraid of love itself. I'm myself and that's all I can be. I've gone through a lot, so I'm willing to help in whatever way I can (:

advice

my friend made out with this guy and i think we are too young for that
we are only in 6th grade, do you think that is too young?
if you do how do i tell her she is being stupid?

I don`t think it`s too young but everyone has their own opinions. If you think that you guys are too young for this stuff, then just talk to your friend. If she`s doing it just to show off - then that`s really gay and stupid. [♥] Alma

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OKAY i LiKE THiS BOY A HECKAS LOT AND HE LiKES ME A LOT TOO BUT ALL THESE GiRLS FLiRT W. HiM WHEN WERE AT PARTYS AND LiKE WELL BE TALKiNG AND THEY WiLL GRAB HiM AND START LiKE DiRTY DANCiNG ALL OVER HiM. i KNOW HE WANTS TO BE WiTH ME WHEN THEY DO THAT AND LiKE i KNOW HE REALLY LiKES ME BUT i DONT KNOW HOW TO GET THOSE GiRLS (MY FRiENDS) TO BACK OFF W.O ACTiNG LiKE A BiTCH ?? THANKS SO MUCH!!

Just tell your friends that it bothers you - a lot! If they knew how you feel they probably would understand. That`s kinda rude, but maybe they just don`t know that you like him. Talk to your friends about it. [♥] Alma

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I want to go to culenary arts school, cooking school, but my father wants me to go to school to be a nurse. I have great passion for my cooking. What should I tell him?

, The Cooking Nurse

You need to have a little talk with your dad. Tell him how you absoultly [sp] love cooking and if you went to become a nurse, you`d be doing something you don`t love and only because he`s making you. I think he`s wanting you to go be a nurse because I don`t think cooking pays a lot but I mean who cares. If that`s your dream - go for it! He`s not going to be stuck with a job he dreads. Just tell him how you feel, and try to work things out. [♥] Alma

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i want to be with this guy (we both know we like each other) but my friends don't want to see my with him. But i think every one know we want each other.We are mad cool, last year we got tighter than ever.He left for the summer came back.When school started everyone thought we were togeather. i stayed single he dated couple of girls (one of them was my friend) I love him to death he and everyone knows that.I started to call him baby boo. What should i do?I want him but i don't want my friend to me mad at me also.

I don`t see why you have to have your friends decide who you should like and who you should go out with. If you like him and he likes you then go out. If your friends are true friends, they'll accept whoever you go out with. Don`t worry about what everyone always thinks. Good luck ;; [♥] Alma

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Ive been friends with this guy, Michael, for 9 years. When i talk to him online, hes sweet, and it kinda seems like he likes me .. as more than a friend. But when we r with a group of our friends (we have the same friends) it seems like he ignores me. Is that normal? What do yu guys think? Please help, i rate high

He`s just nervous around you. A lot of guys are like that. Maybe try talking to him alone in person. Try to work things out, ask him if he`s shy. All you can really do is try to talk to him. Good luck ;; [♥]Alma

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Does anyone know where i can find a MYSPACE TRACKER? (That tracks the username of the people who visit your myspace)

If there isnt one of those, what are some good FREE regular site trackers/statistics?

I don't know if there's one in myspace because I don't have myspace. I only have an xanga, but www.buddytracker.us has a free buddy profile tracker. I don't know if it will work on anything else but AIM profiles but you can try . Good luck [♥] Alma

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Me and my friend Paul are practically brother and sister! We've always been tight but over the summer it seemed as if we were getting feelings for eachother that werent normal 'friendly' feelings. He invited me everywhere with him. We went to the beach to watch fireworks, i joined him for dinner, and almost every weekend we hung out at his house watching the stars and talking. i never feel uncomfortable around him and i can tell him anyhing. Were both strong christians and believe that God will lead us in the direction we need to go. But I just dont know ...
is this Love? :-\

Aww! He likes you. I think it's very cute how you guys are so close. It probably is something like love. If you both have strong feelings for each other then try maybe going out but promise each other that whatever happends nothing will change you guys and your friendship. I hope everything works out for you two. =) [♥]Alma

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okay im 14 and im a girl. lately i have been wanting a boy friend more than anything! i know im pretty and i like a few people but i dont know if they like me i really want a boyfriend and i wanna do stuff with them what is wrong with me how can i get one faster? and no dumb people and no oh your too young or time will come

Ahh, that's so cute. No you`re not to young for a boyfriend. It's perfectly normal that you have these feelings, everyone has them. =] Just flirt with the guys you like and they will probably like you back and maybe ask you out. Don't go out and be a slut to make a guy like you. Be yourself and in no time you'll have an awesome boyfriend. But you don't need a boyfriend to have fun, you can be friends with guys and still have fun [ don't forget that ] I hope I helped somewhat . [♥] Alma

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How do you know when its time for you to have sex darnit i need serious help??

Whenever your ready. Don't rush into it because you might regret it. There is no "right time" It's whenever you feel like you and that person are committed to giving up your virginty.[♥]

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Hey Alma I was wondering if being 5'7 is too tall for a girl and what can you do about it??
xOxemily

It depends on how old you are, and there's nothing you can do about it. It's good to be tall in some areas. [♥]

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what part on a guyz body is your favorite??

Ahh, well I don't really have one favorite part. IM me privately, I'm not going to discuss my likes and don't likes on here. [♥]

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i sorta liked this guy and one night we were out and i kept trying to talk to him and he would ingore me so i left with my friend to go to portillos and we came back and my other friend was like that guys gonna ask you to get with him and im like im gonna say no he was ignoring me tonite so she told him i would say no and then he got super mad at me now i really like him a lot and if he would ask me again i would say yes and he hasnt been like flirting or making any moves now so i wonder if he even likes me anymore, so i was wondering what you think i should do

Aww, well you're friend shouldn't have gotten in it. Talk to him about it personally. Tell him that you do like him and you were going to say "yes" but you were a little pissed off because he was ignoring you. Just talk to him! Good luck [♥]

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who do you like at your school? i am askin cuz i no someone that likes you n i am tryin 2 find out if you like him..

IM privately and I'll tell you and you tell me. [♥]

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is there anyone in your school that you like??

Yes [♥]

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Im making a buddy4u profile and i was wondering does anyone know any help sites or websites that give you music, texts, pics, etc? Anything for buddy4u profiles!!! THANKS SOOO MUCH! ILL RATE 5'S just as long as you dont give me a smartass answer!!!

These two sites helped me in the past a whole lot - http://www.buddy4u.com/view/?u=HtmL+fOr+YoU & http://www.buddy4u.com/view/?u=xXx+HTML+xXx . For music, you can go to www.videocodes.com. I think that's the site, but I'm not 100% sure. For pictures, you can sign up for either Photobucket (www.photobucket.com) or Tiny Pic (www.tinypic.com.) I have Photobucket and it works great! Good luck. [♥]

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what is fingered?

This is a stupid question, but I'll answer it anyways. Fingering is when a guy uses his finger to pleasure a girl. It's a way of masturbration. [♥]

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ok i like this one girl, but shes going out with someone ellse. Alot of girls think i am hott soo do u think i should wait for the girl i really like or should i go for one of the girls thats hott n thinks i am hott??

Well, I think you should go out with someone you like. Rather that be the girl you are waiting for or another girl. Just go out with a girl you really like and not just anyone. Being single couldn't possibly hurt you. [♥]


Oh by the way ; you could have asked the question once and not 6 times.

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We had to do a survey for my psychology class and we have to write a one-two page paper how can I sting it out so it's long and good? I will rate 5's for every answer!

Just use many very detailed details. Make your paper instresting, becuase if it's going to be long why make it boring, because no one wants to read anything bored. And this it's psychology class, you should be at a level where you can use more bigger words meaning littler words. I know that probably doesn't make sense, but if it does try it. Just don't use to many baby sentences, becuase you aren't just trying to make it long but also get a good grade. Good luck , ♥//aLmAa

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is there anyway to make my eyelashes grow longer or thicker?

Just buy fake eyelashes, or buy mascara that helps them spread out more and thicken. Hope I helped , ♥//ALMA

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how can i make my pours smaller. its like not a zit there its just kinda pours and they dont go away or get smaller even if there was a black head there. ive tried makeup and it doesnt cover it up long enough before it wears off

Try putting toothpaste on it overnight. I heard from many other people, that have tried it, that it works. I personally haven't ever tried, but I think it might work. Good Luck ♥//ALMA

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