Question Posted Saturday October 22 2005, 11:06 am
i want to be with this guy (we both know we like each other) but my friends don't want to see my with him. But i think every one know we want each other.We are mad cool, last year we got tighter than ever.He left for the summer came back.When school started everyone thought we were togeather. i stayed single he dated couple of girls (one of them was my friend) I love him to death he and everyone knows that.I started to call him baby boo. What should i do?I want him but i don't want my friend to me mad at me also.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MELiixMARiiE answered Sunday October 23 2005, 2:52 pm: Well I say you should do whatever you want. I mean its your life, not theirs and its your decision. There must be a reason though why your friend doesn't want you to date him. Maybe she likes him? Maybe shes heard bad things about him? She just might be trying to be a friend. I'd try to talk to her about everything first, and if there really isn't a reason, explain to her how you really like him and everything. Because she should also be a friend and support whatever decision you make, even if she doesn't like it..just like you should do with her. But just try to talk to her about everything first. I hope everything works out and I hope I helped! =D [ MELiixMARiiE's advice column | Ask MELiixMARiiE A Question ]
babygirl17 answered Saturday October 22 2005, 2:08 pm: Ok.. So Heres the deal.. if your friends were "friends" at all they would support your decision... Dont back out of something that your friends dont want you to do.. Its your life.. You live that life.. not them... They will get mad... but they will get over it... But.. I'm going to tell you... There has to be a reason that these friends of yours dont want to see you with this guy... So talk to them.. So why they dont want to see you with this guy.. and then decide what you want to do.. But you decid.. Do what you want to do... Not what your friends want you to do.
To me you sound like a smart girl... and he seems like he likes you too from the sounds of what you said.. I think that you should go for it..
iSpEaKsPaNiSh answered Saturday October 22 2005, 12:36 pm: talk to your friend. is shouldn't be a big deal if she went out with him knowing that you like him.
also talk to him. that's the only way anything is ever going to happen. maybe he doesn't think you still like him like that.
tell him you still have feelings for him and you want to know if he feels anything back and if he thinks you will ever have a relationship.
if he says no or i don't know..you should probably try to get over him..as hard as that sounds..because he isn't serious.
good luck! if he likes you, everything should work out. [ iSpEaKsPaNiSh's advice column | Ask iSpEaKsPaNiSh A Question ]
xomadiiox answered Saturday October 22 2005, 11:45 am: First of all if they are your real friends they will want you to be happy thats if you trully love him. Second of all if you just like him then tell your friends you just want to go out with him for a while and see what it is like if they dont understand and approve they are not good friends and they are selfish and only care about them selves and you should go for it.
GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS ♥ [ xomadiiox's advice column | Ask xomadiiox A Question ]
xOalmaOx answered Saturday October 22 2005, 11:33 am: I don`t see why you have to have your friends decide who you should like and who you should go out with. If you like him and he likes you then go out. If your friends are true friends, they'll accept whoever you go out with. Don`t worry about what everyone always thinks. Good luck ;; [♥] Alma [ xOalmaOx's advice column | Ask xOalmaOx A Question ]
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