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Do you think its okay to teach your child to hit someone back if they hit him first? (link)
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I'm a teen and my opinion is to first say I dont want to fight you so lets just end it....and if the enemy keeps hitting I think its time for selfdefiense to kick in...all these rule about suspension from school are crazy....im going to defend myself in a fight and school will be the last thing on my mind..i'll only be thinking about my safety! My parents ofcourse say dont fight but then they tell me to defend myself against an attacker well i dont care it's a peer of mien ora 40 yr old man i comsider someone fighting me an attacker and thats that so yes i thinks itrs right to teach your kid to defend themselves..but to never start the fight! ♥
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What is the real difference between a friend and a "best friend"? (link)
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In my opinion a friend is someone you like hanging out with, you feel comfortable with, you know some of eachother's secrets, but you sometimes get on eachother's nerves! A best friend is someone who you tell anything, whenever you hear the word friend they pop into your head first, someone you always feel like chillin with, you know you could never live without them, and whenever your mad or sad you call them to make you happy! You can fight and still be bestfriends but in mycase I've neve fought with my bff! hope i helped x0x ♥
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My brother is getting married next month. He lives in Washington and we have to fly there for the wedding. I am scared to death to fly and I really don't even want to go if I have to. Should I say something to my parents? Should I just go and hope it doesn't crash? HELP! (link)
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I htink you should just go for it...it's better to conquer you fears and ever since 911 they have undercover people on the planes to keep it under control! But if you are too scared then tell you parents. Good Luck!! x0x ♥
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I live in an apartment with my mom. We want to get a cat and the landlady said we can if it doesn't have any claws. We aren't sure if thats ok to do to a cat. I no one other person who has a cat like this and the cat seems happy. What do you think? (link)
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Yes that's fine..it's actually better..that way they don't scratch you or the furniture! It doesn't affect them as long as it's an inside cat! So go ahead and get yourself a cat l0l...they're so cute!! ♥
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i'm 14/f, and i need new sneakers. can anyone recommend me any brand of sneakers(not nike because EVERYONE has them) or any kind of sneakers that they think is really good and looks really nice? (link)
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addidas are good or kswiss....you should get a black pair and awhite pair..but if yo can get more ytou should try buying them to match your outfits! hope i helped! ♥
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I am 15 my bf is 16. I know he doesn't have a lot of money and I was wondering, do you think it is OK if I offer to pay sometimes? I don't want to hurt his feelings or make him mad. Should I ask him about it? (link)
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YYa ofcourse it's ok...guys like it when girls offer to pay sometimes..let him traet you sometimes but offer to split the meal every one in a while or pay for your own movie ticket! ♥
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I am starting high school this year. My mom told me she was in FHA club when she was in school. What other kinds of clubs are there? Does anybody belong to one that would be fun for me to try? I am a girl. (link)
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SGA..student government association....it's really fun and you meet alot of new ppl..it looks really good on college applications...and you get out of class ALOT!!! its fun and it helps make you popular! hope i helped! x0x ♥
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In the website MySpace a lot of people tend to have actual hearts on their display names or on their pages. I don't know how to create those hearts. Does anybody know the vode to make them? Thank you for your time. (link)
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Good question...ok you type & hearts; but don't put a space between the & and hearts or it wont work...hope i helped ♥
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ok well its been like to weeks sense ive had ex an we didnt use a condum an im afraid that im pregnnet im not going to get a pregnecie test because i have reasons why, but i know the syptoms but , could you not know your pregnat for like 3 weeks i mean when i go to the bath room i have white stuff on my underware an idk my friend told me thats because im pregnat an idk i just need help .. i know i shouldnt have had sex im a really goodi girl so dont judge my parents are into polotics , an if they found out that i was they would shio me off to bording school or somthing even worse so please help me?? (link)
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well i think you should find away to go to plan parenthood and get tested for pregnancy ther because the only other way you'll know is if yuo don't get your period...and that white stuff is discharge it has nothing to do with pregnancy! hope i helped and good luck! ♥
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i know alotta people that know you .. and they all say yur fat and you dont wear flattering clothes.. how do you deal with it? ive been called fat too and like the guys were calling you "miss piggy" how do you deal with people like that ? (link)
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o0o umm hunni..i think u have the rong person....where is the girl you're talking about from?? well anyway the best way to deal is...blow it off....i you should be flattered that people take time to think about you...those people only say those things to make themselves feel better...im dure they have alot more insecurities than you do...dont listen to them! hope i helped and please drop another in my inbox tellin me where the girl ur talkin bout is frum just so i can maybe figure out who she is thx! ♥
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I know people who have been playing the "choking game." Not by themselves though, I know you can die easily that way. What they do is kneel down, and put their head on the ground and take deep breaths. They get up, take a deep breath and hold it, then a friend puts their arm around their neck and chokes until they pass out. Is this really all that dangerous? I've read that people have been doing this since the 1980's, and the only reason its a big deal now is because kids are doing it by themselves and arent letting go of the choke before they pass out. If a friend is doing it and knows when to let go, is it dangerous? (link)
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Ya..it's definityl dangerous...even when a friend is helping you it doesnt matter because choking yourself is stopping your heart from gettign oxygen and it can kill you...there is no "correct" way to do it....no matter what it's dangerous...its also called "California Dreams"...if you wanna do it go right ahead but i recommend you dont...it also gives you a headache!! ♥
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im 13/f about 111lbs.
I cant fit into a size 3 most of the time and that makes me think im fat. I see girls on tv who are in their 20s who weigh less then me. I've tried to cut down on the oh so loverely junk food. But that lasted 30 minz. (( i love chips (link)
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Well I don't think 111 lbs is fat at all..i would kill to be that l0l!! But it really depends on how tall you are...the avergae 13 yr old girl is probably about 5'3...and thats definitly not too fat...if your taller thats even better and if your shorter thats fine too...i could give you a better answer if I knew how tall yuo are..so if you want that than drop a question in my inbox
Other ways you could tone up is by doing cruches which really aren't that hard they're liek situps but instead of coming all the way up to your knees just come half way and back down again..those work great//i recommend doing 3 sets of 50 a day! Also in every issue of Cosmopolitan there's always an artice whith pictures and directions telling different ways to tone up..you could also try one of those! hope i helped x0x ♥
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Well I wrote this, not really a poem, just kind of a one of those little writings.. will you tell me what you think of it so far... maybe some help on it, or wordings that would sound better?
After spending hours on end perfecting every detail about herself, she heard the doorbell ring. Her heart races to see him. This was the moment she had been waiting for, for so very long now.She lopes quickly to the front door and swiftly swings it open to see her love. Her heart sinks inside of her chest in her overwhelmed body and her beathing has stopped as if her heart would have. He looks amazing, more amazing than ever before. Not a word comes out of either of their mouths, both stand there completely speechless, both infatuated by their prescences's beauty... (link)
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yes, i do like that..it's very beautiful and descriptive...it reminds me of some of the romance mysteries i read...you coulld definitly become a writer..good job!!! good luck with your future masterpieces l0l! x0x ♥
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i heard that there were condoms for women. im a guy but i was just wondering..
so are there condoms for women, and if yes, how do they work? (link)
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Well I've never heard of condoms for women but pretty much condoms are for both women and men if you think about it. nothing sais condoms are for men....but anyway you might have heard of a sponge...this a type of birth control that gets put into a women's vagina and stops the sperm from getting inside of her but it doesnt protect against stds! It's not excatly the answer you were looking for but i still hope i could help! x0x ♥
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what is sex? its confusing
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Sex is when a male and female have intercourse..intercourse is when the male puts his penis into your vagina....then there is gay sex is when men have intercourse but through there butts...then there is oral sex which is a variety of things l0l! A girl can suck a guys dick....the guy can lick the girls downstairs..then the girls can give the guy a handjob and the guy can finger the girl...im trying not to paint pictures for my column readers so if you need me to explain further ask me quetsion but make sure you make it a private one!
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ok, i've recently decided to become a vegitarian, but i was wondering is chicken considered meat, or poultry, and is poultry considered meat? so basically can i eat chicken? (link)
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Ok wow I'm just like you..so I'm the perfect person to ask this quetsion...a vegatarian is someone who doesnt eat any meat including chicken....yes chicken is considered meat but not red meat. I only eat chicken and turkey because I consider myself a mamaltarian...i dont eat mammals..i recommend this because you need protein and chicken has it so your kinda like half a vegatarian l0l!! If you have any more questions on this subject drop one in my inbox...♥
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tomorrow i made plans with two of my best friends ... tori and erin to go shopping... and erin put it on her away message... this girl that i REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY (i think you get it) hate (and so do tori and erin)Nicole... saw it and shes like I THINK I'll MEET YOU GUYS AT THE MALL TOMORROW! I dont want to tell her no... what should I do... she will ruin our day ! and please dont say GIVE HER A CHANCE... because believe me... i have given her millions. (link)
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well try goin to a different mall...like i ahve two malls around me so do most people so just go to a different mall...or you could use the fact that the annoying invited herself as a reason to get mad at her and say "you know i dont liek it when people just invite themselves into my plans...so how bout you don't meet us" well i hoep it works out ♥
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what is screamo? i rate 5's (link)
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It's rock music where the people scream...i don't recommend it l0l! but ya instaed of singing they scream! hope i helped x0x ♥
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How do I use a tampon? Do I always have to wear a pad or can I wear a tampon? (link)
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Well since you've never used one you should get junior or light sizes..it's good to start out with small ones....now the easiest way to put one in is to be relaxed and while standing spread your legs and insert it into your vaginal hole facing towards your lower back...it won't hurt but it'll fell a little wierd since you've never had anything up there before. And know you don't have to always wear a pad i recommend wearing one when you sleep though,,because it cleans out your system down there. hope i helped x0x ♥
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ok well i had my period.. 2nd time now.. and i dont know.. like how many times a day should i change my pad/ tampond?? or like my mom never had the talk with me so idk what to expect (link)
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Ok well if you wear a pad it sais to change it aver 4 hours...it really depend son how heavy your flow is...you can usually go longer but you should definitly change it eveyr 8 hours..but you can wera one when your sleeping and not worry about it. if your wearing a tampon change every 4 to 8 hours...because if you leave those in too long it can get uncomfortable, you could leak, and there's the chance of TSS which is a really rare disease but its deadly...dont worry it very unlikely to happen! Since you never talked to your mom..i recomend you sleep with pads to you know clear out the system down there but tampons in the day. If you need someone to talk to about that kind of stuff feel free to im me at angleyezxo21xo x0x ♥ caitie ♥
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