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I have really really wavy hair and I was wondering how to straighten it and keep it straight for the day without drying it out or causing it to break or start dandriff. Any suggestions?

Use straightening gel and what you do is you rub somein your hands and fingers and put it all through the section you are straightening. THEN STRAIGHTEN! To keep your hair healthy, use a good shampoo and conditioner.

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I'm asking this question for my friend who is twelve. Here's what she told me to say. "My friend doesn't go to church and doesn't understand how important religion is. I really want her to come to my church but she always has some excuse why she can't. What should I do?"

You cant make someone go to church. I dont go to church and I am still religious. If she doesnt want to go, let her stay home. But I think its good that you tried to get her to go, atleast you tried.

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Does anyone know of some cool places to buy reallly cute bathing suits?

Delias, pac sun, fast forward. :D

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Hey does anyone know a real easy to get rid of pimples fast without popping them please help.

Theres really no way to GET RID of pimples withought spending some money, but to reduce redness, apply eyedrops to your zit, or toothpaste. If you are willing to spend money, a fast way, (about 2 weeks) to get rid of zits is to buy a really good facial cleanser, such as neutrogena (make sure its OIL free and has ingredients that are good for the skin). One that I reaaally suggest is called All-In-One facial cleanser with toner by MDSKINCARE. Wash your face EVERY night and NEVER EVER sleep with makeup on. a really good zit medication is DUAC, but a prescribtion is required by your doctor, so just the next tiem you go, ask for one and they will definatly give you one!. :D

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where is AIM settings? i can't seem to find it

It depends, if you have aim for mac, go to Preferences. Or ACCOUNT SETTINGS. If you have AIM for windows, try My Aim and it should say preferences, settings, or account stuff.

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ok well i just got a email form this really hot girl i mean holy nuts man. but i have a girlfriend already but its going kinda rough so should i sak out the hot girl or stay in a bad realation ship? ill rate high

If your in a bad relationship, why continue? if u dont want to be with this girl, than break up with her. If the only reason you want to break up with her is because you could possibly go out with someone hotter, than think about it. Do you KNOW the girl who sent you the email personally? have you talked to her and gotten to know her personality? I think if you have feelings for the other girl and you dont want to be in the relationship u are in now, then go for it. :D byebye

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Tonight I am going roller skating for the girl scouts. One of my friends who lives in my neighborhood is coming with me. So, I asked my mom if she could sleep over. My mom said yes then she paused. She said the only problem was we are going to church tomorrow and my friend's parents don't like her going to church. One night she was going to come over but once her parents found out we were going to church they forbid her. My friend has only been to chhurch 3 times in her life! It's not fair that she can't go the second her parents find out that my family is going to church. She's the same religon as me so why does it matter? So I'm wondering should I still invite her over? What do I do?

I think that you should ask your mom if you can miss church if your friend comes over, tell her the problem and that you dont want yall goi

ps. how was this advice a 4? come on i tried hard so whatever....
pps. girl scouts is gay. have a nice day.

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my dad doesn't trust me... he has this thing in my computer that saves my IM's so he can see what i am saying... he says he will only give me 30 minutes out of mon - thurs. to talk to my friends on IM because thats what my aunt does to my cuzin... is there any way that i can get rid of this... my dad said there isn't but i no that there is... i can't talk to my dad about anything because he won't listen... its his way or no way... going for help is not an option i will take... what should i do

First of all, i just want to say that you are lucky for even getting 30 minutes. I have been grounded for 6 months and i still have 6 to go.... :( As for the log thing, you can easily get rid of that. Go to AIM setting and where it says LOG ALL MESAGES, turn it off. Maybe you should block all the friends you have crazy convos with and only talk to the nice, boring ones for a week, and talk about like this : Hey, On the homework, what do we do? and like, talk about stuff and pretty soon your dad will realize that all yall do on aim is mingle about homework and dogs and boring stuff and maybe he will loosen up and let you be on aim more and w/o logs.

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well i have a friend and these are her problems: B.O., dandruff, doesnt brush her hair OR teeth, has a big belly AND doesnt know about any of this. how can i help her without being really mean???? please help! ill rate 5s for answers that dont piss me off!

I agree with HOLLSTER. Maybe you should invite her to go to the salon and get yalls hair washed and nails done. And for her birthday, or vday or something, give her a really good smelling perfume/scent. Thats gross that she doesnt brush her teeth. You should like, be at her house and tell her a story about how your "cousin" didnt ever brush her teeth and her teeth turned brown and she had to have 3 removed. Freak her out and shes bound to brush!

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15/f I get really chapped lips, but they don't crack or anything, they just get sore and red and sometimes itchy. They flake too. So anyway, I've tried loads of different chapsticks and stuff, even blisteze which is a really good medical thing to use. It's really annoying me cuz I can't wear lip gloss or anything, plus they itch and I get red bits around my lips too. Does anybody know what's up with them?

well, drink lots of water, and everyone thinks im an idiot when i say this, but it really works :::

if you have an electric toothbrush, put water on it and BRUSH your lips. hehe. it takes all the dead skin off. as for the other stuff, I would watch what you eat becasue you might be allergic to soemthing, which might be causing the redness/bumps. Next time you go to the doctor, ask about that. OO and dont forget the chapstick DAILY every minute. :D

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Ok, I have a friend that is going out with this guy that my other friend likes. The girl that he is going out with is named Michelle. My friend that likes him is named Kris. One prblem I'm like madly in love with the guy that michelle is going out with. But I cant tell Kris.She doent know that I love him.I cant tell her cause she is going to then hate me!!!! What do I do?
Help Me Please. I rate people pretty high.

CHELSSSSEAAA! hey!!!!! anyways, tanyas soooo right, michelle is not as pretty as you and if he doesnt like you then hes stupido. i dont think he will ever go out with kris for that matter. (im not trying to be mean) byeee! btw, i liked ur dance move at school today. :D

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I love to go out with my friends all the time, we go to dances, out to the mall, and stuff like that but latley my mom has been asking me to take my sister with me. ITs kind of anoying because when i go out with my friends im with a whole group of guys and girls, and i dont always want my sister near me. I mean i love her to death but im sick of my mom asking me if she can come. What do i do?

(14/f)

what you need to do is go straight to your mom and tell her how you feel. tell her that whenever your out with your friends you want to go alone, and that maybe once a month or something you and your sister can go oout together and have fun on your own. Maybe your mom doesnt know how your feeling. goood luck! :D

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I havent worn makeup much but now that i am getting older i try to wear it. my everytime i wear some, someone says "your wearing makeup!!" and they sound so shocked, it makes me embaraced so i was wondering if i should just start this summer and when i get back to school it will be different.

omg i did that in 6th grade and my friend was so rude to me she was like :thats to much eyeliner: but i kept on wearing it and eventually everyone got used to it i guess and now when i dont wear it i look gross. I would just ignore them and stuff. Even if you come back from summer, theyre going to notice. but it will be a gooood change!

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i usually straighten my hair evry morning, my hair is already pretty naturally straight with a little wave, but my hair is really thick and it is really hard to get straight, i use a really good straightenner, but my hair just wont straighten all the way, is there anything i can do or put in it to help it straighten more? ill rate you high

SAME WITH ME! neways, I dont knwo fi you do this already, but straiten your hair in layers. only do a little chunks of hair and then keep doing chunks until your done. And if you want your hair to stay straight, try one fo those straightening gels. if u wnat your hair to be thinner, go to a salon and asked to get it thinned, it takes 5 seconds and u cant even feel it.

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I was just wondering if anyone had a suggestion on a very good straitener and if so where can u get it? My hair is dirty blond, very thick, notty, and wavy.

CHI! TURBOOO. go online to the CHI website. If thats too expensive, a storebought one at ULTA or TARJET should work.:D

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Hey, I have really really sensitive skin and dry hair. I can't find a good shampoo and conditioner that my skin/scalp won't react to ( a lot of the perfumes etc) and will make my hair look full and rich. Do any of you know a good "natural" shampoo and conditioner that works really well for my type of hair? Thanks.

Pantene ProV is great!

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1. My mom won't let me get that laser surgery to correct my vision. She just doesn't think that the long term effects have been proven yet and would rather have me wear glasses or contacts. I have contacts now, but I want to get colored contacts (have dark brown eyes but want gray or sapphire blue eyes)- does anyone know if they have prescription colored contacts for astigmatism? I know there are power color lenses but may not have them for my eye condition.

2. Also, i have dark rings around my eyes. I have school, work, and practice so there isn't a way I can get 8 hours of sleep a night (and even then they don't go away). I don't feel tired at all and just don't sleep that much. Other than makeup, anyone else have ideas on how I can decrease the rings under my eyes?

Thanks for your help in advance.

1. First of all, you can't get laser surgery on your eyes till your 18 I think. hmm.
2. For the eye ring things --- Drink alot of fluids, (water) and over night, put 2 spoons in the freezer and in the morning, put them under your eyes, it should clear up.

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at the end of the day this one part of my hair always get greasy and i take shhowers everyday and it still gets greasy i use a good name brand of shampoo and conditioner to but it doesnt seem to help i even leave the conditioner in for 1-2 mins like it says on te bottle but nothing seems to work please help me!!!

Well, It could be that you arent washing all of the conditioner out of your hair. Everytime you wash your hair, to find out if you rinsed right, turn off the water, run your hands through your hair, starting at the top to the bottom, and if you have ANY soap on your hands, rinse more! During the day you can carry around a Small thing of baby powder and a brush and whenever your in the bathroom and you see your hair greasy, sprinkle a TINY amount on your hair and brush through. :D

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What is a good brand of makeup remover that is under $3?? and not NYC

Cover girl works great. :D or you can use almond oil. hmm lol thats what my mom uses.

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does anyone no a good brand of eyeliner that you can like take off cuz all the ones i have wont come off even after i shower

The eyeliner that I use is called Liner Stylo by Bourjois Paris. It works REALLY good! Anyways, I used to have that problem too, and I couldnt get my makeup off, but now I use EYE MAKEUP remover and it works great. All u have to do is put 3 dots, in teh shape of 2 eyes and a nose, then fold the toilet papel and rub it all over your eye. (CAREFULLy)

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