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my friend...
well i have a friend and these are her problems: B.O., dandruff, doesnt brush her hair OR teeth, has a big belly AND doesnt know about any of this. how can i help her without being really mean???? please help! ill rate 5s for answers that dont piss me off!
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the belly part is kind of mean but i cant blame you for wanting to help her with the other problems. buy her some deodarant and say tht its scent attracts boys (it does better than smelling bad). give her new shampoo tht gets rid of dandruff.talk to her nicely about taking care of her body. tell her that you want to help her and give her some advice. like brushing ur hair before bed,after showers,in the morning,and maybe a brush in her locker for emergencys.also brushing teeth before bed and morning. ummm your friend's mom must have not taught her how to care for herself. i mean this is kind of weird not brushing hair or teeth! how old is she???? help your friend before her rep is ruined for life!
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i know how u feel. i think you should go with her in private and tell her that you need to tell her something and tell her to promise that you wont get mad. tell her that she should brush her teeth more often because she would look prettier and tell her that it would be nice if she would use deoderent because she smells a little and if you tell her how u feel its ok your only trying to help her so she could be better off
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ummm..touqh..take hurr shoppinq nd` qo 2 lyke a perfume store .... nd` say omq i luv this smell we shud qet it! nd` wear it 2 skool monday...nd` kum on hurry we qotta qet this awsome shampoo
(have this planned b4 yu do this)
hope it helps
-tay
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ok this is the best i can do ....
just talk to her like you normally do and act clueless and be like "ew can you believe it?! -so and so- doesnt brush his hair or teeth! he doesnt even use deoderant" i betcha she'll change her ways immediatly o yeah and about the belly thing ... dont say anything about that cuz maybe she cant help like shes on some medicine or something i dunno plus theres no really nice way of saying "your fat"
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hmmm.....maybe you can help her without her knowing....ya kno. Like, if she were gonna stay the night at your house one night then you could take a shower and then your friend can take one right after you. but when you get out of the shower you should just tell her that a shower feels refreshing. and then maybe she would go and take a shower. OR if she doesnt take a shower you should try on some perfume and some deodarent and then you should tell her that it smells good and then tell her to try some on.
i really hope i helped hun.
sammie
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take a day where neither one of yall are doing anything and go to like the salon or something. get her hair done and nails done. get some toothpaste and tell her its really good that she should try it! ummm...sorry i couldn't think of any other solutions!
~*Sarah*~
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i think a really cool thing you guys could do would be like on her birthday or on valentines day, take her to the salon to get yalls hair done cute and get your nails done and you could have a sleepover afterward and be like i love brushing my hair cause its good to and then be like i LOV3333 to brush my teeth do you?! and then be like ok toothbrushing time and just do that for awhile lol but just tell her that its fun to go exercising and eat right and maybe you could take her to a gym some times! hope all goes well
♥ kellie ♥
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tell her that you dont wanna be rude but she needs to take a lil more care of her hair and stuff but she cant help that she fat dont be haten about bein fat people get really contious
about there wait good luck to ya holly
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Everyone has said it, but like invite her places like a salon or give her a make over. The big belly is something you have to live with and can't pester her about because some people are just big. But you should just invite her out one day to get everything done. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck
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I agree with HOLLSTER. Maybe you should invite her to go to the salon and get yalls hair washed and nails done. And for her birthday, or vday or something, give her a really good smelling perfume/scent. Thats gross that she doesnt brush her teeth. You should like, be at her house and tell her a story about how your "cousin" didnt ever brush her teeth and her teeth turned brown and she had to have 3 removed. Freak her out and shes bound to brush!
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Hi Sweetie,
Hmm... well try different approaches. Maybe... you can suggest giving her a make-over. She won't suspect a thing. And while you give her a make over maybe you can give her tips to "look better" and your tips will "coincidently" be helping her not-so-attractive features. If it doesn't work then offer to be a friend and have a "friend-to-friend, no-feelings-hurt, for-your-own-good" conversation. Maybe you can make her not feel so bad and see if she has any advice for YOU as well and take turns giving each other advice.
Hope your question is answered with some helpful advice. Take good care and good luck! ~Blessed Be...
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