im 14/f and i just started goin out with this kid whos 15 and i was just wondering when it would be time to take things to the next level, fingering etc. thanks!
whenever you feel ready. the both of you should be comfortable with the whole "next step" thing before you get there. one the both of you are ready for the "next step", then you may proceed with it.
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my skin sucks ass. its been about a year and a half with ance. My dermatologist hasnt made a single difference! not alloud 2 go on birth controll pills. and my dermatologist wont let me go on accutain!!!!! HHEEELLLPPPP.
P.S. my days are so much harder with acne..everyone around me has perfect skin...and if u say "it will go away soon.. or in a few years" ill kill u!! lol.
try proactive. alot of people have used it and have noticed a major difference. it is a little on the pricey side, but definately worth it. if the price is a problem for you, then try and go with a cleanser and acne solution from neutrogena. they ahve some pretty good products out there on the market to choose from. they also work really well. there are some other brands that you can pick up. it is just a matter of which one you like best and which one will work the best on your skin. so if you try and neither of the two brand i have named work out for ypu, then just try a different brand. it may take some time to find the right one for your skin, but when you do, it will totally be worth it.
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Okay I failed a test in school with a 65, and to raise the grade, the teacher said we could take a retest. Problem is, we have to show a note to our parents saying we failed, and have them sign it. The re-test is tomorrow, and I still haven't showed my parents the note. WHAT do I do? Because..my parents kill me if I even get an 85. Help me. :(
you can choose one of two options:
choice number 1: have your parents sign the note. -- tell them that the test was way harder than you thought it was, but you are getting a second chance to take it and pick up your grade. tell them you have prepared yourslef more for the test this time around.
or
choice number 2: sign it yourself. -- find an old piece of paper with the signature of one of your parents and practice writing it. if you cant seem to get it to look like theres, then you could try and get someone who is really good at forging a signature to sign it for you. or also if you cant get it to look right, get a pencil and on the back of the paper(where the signature is) and shade that area in. turn it over to the front(so you see the signature) and place it somewhere on the note that needs signed. once you have it placed there, then take your pencil and trace the name. this will have transfered the signature onto the note. then take a pen and trace the signature. the signature is going to be very light with the pencil trick, which is why it is so easy to trace over with a pen and no ne even knowing that you traced it.
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i want to go farther with my boyfriend but there are things that i dont like about my body and thats whats stopping me from doing anything with him cause i dont want him to think im a freak or anything and not talk to me or anythin... pease help!
well if he really likes you, then he wont have any problems with the way you look. he likes you for you. i am sure that he ownt think your a freak or anything. and i really doubt that he wwont stop talking to you. you really shouldnt stress about it all that much. im sure he will be perfectly fine with the way you look.
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okay i have windows XP and i want ta get the program where you can download music.. but i dont kno where to go?? does any one know a program i can download that has like a bunch of songs i can copy and put to a cd?
limewire.com
kazaa.com
winmx.com
all of those allow you to download and copy to a cd. i have used all three of them and i think that limewire and kazaa are the better two of the three. i am currently using winmx and it pretty much sucks.
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ok.. i got a C on my first quarter report card and then i got a D on my second quarter grade, and i failed my final because i was sick and wasnt able to take it. which brought my semester grade down to an e... does that make me have to take the class over again or did i pass. be cause techically i passed with a d. but i still failed my final.. so im really confused :-/.
please help!
I rate high!
no, if you can keep your grades up for the rest of the year. then you will be able to pass your biology class and not have to retake it next year. as long as you maintain atleast a c average, you will be fine.
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I'm in love with my best guy friend at school. I think he likes me cuz we talk a lot on aim. And the guy who sits next to him in math (thats our only period together) said out loud, "you like her, you know you do." We caught eyes and he looked away. I hope he was talking about me. One of my friends was bugging us two that we liked each other and fight like an old married couple. Is this fate, or just a crush? I'll rate high for good answers.
well first thing is first, just because you two talk alot, on aim, doesnt mean he likes you in a girlfriend/dating kind of way. you said that you are best friends, so did it ever cross your mind that he likes you as just a friend, and enjoys talking to you because he trusts you. it isnt fate. it is probably just a crush. but if he starts asking you if you have a boyfriend or is ahving his friends come up and saying stuff about how he likes you and heis just being shy, then there may be a chance for you two. but other than that, i doubt he has feelings for you. i mena he does have feeling for you, but just as friend. nothing more, nothing less. so just accept that for now.
if for some reason you are still unsure, then ask one of his friends if they know how he feels about you. if they say only as a friend then just accept the fact that that is all he wants to be with you.
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im not very good at writing and i have to write a folktale can u help start me off by writing the intro or something..
i rate HIGH!
-thx
well just make up a story. make up a story about mermaids or fairies. make a story along the lines of Cinderella, Snow White, Hansel & Gretel. do a search on folk tales and it will bring up a numerous number of sights that will give you some stories to read. get some ideas from them and make your own. i dont know what you want your story to be based on. therefore i cant help you.
http://www.infoplease.com/ce6/ent/A0819070.html
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there is a site that might be able to help you decide how to write one and what to write one on. sorry i wasnt much help.
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i know this is kinda confusing...
ok i met this guy on-line from one of my friends last saturday night and we talked and all, and i think i may like him i dk hes 2 years older n he went out with one of my some-what friends, i mean i talk to her but were not like close or anything...they recently just broke up and all....so he said he was single n looking or w/e, we were joking around n crap over cyber stuff on-line then he asked me how far i went with a guy...and im like uhh well im not suppose to date till im 16 so i have to wait and then he said n ur turnin 15 soon arent u and i said yeahh...then he asked me how long would i wait to have sex. or if i would give a bj or a hj...or if i would enter the back door and all...then he said that i would prob b the only one who doesnt have muchs bf all threw high school and i said yeahh well i rather be single then screw my life over be4 i graduate then he said that i could use a condom n i said yeahh condom or no condom if my parents found out i would be dead...i get a feelin that i wont turn out a virgin when i graduate im gettin this feelin that i wouldnt but anyways...then he asked me if i was bush or bare as in the south of the border..and i basically refused that and all..he knows i know his ex..and i was wonderin if this sounded like he liked me or something? any ideas?
- thx
it sounds to me like he was just trying to find out and you and how you feel about sex and all. it was a cyber... what else did you think the two of you were going to talk about? it sounds like he is just trying to find out if he can have sex with you. or if you will do anything to him in a sexual way, hence the hj and bj. he just wants sex, he isnt looking for anything else in you. so no, i dont think he likes you. he would just like to take your virginity.
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What is the difference between a "padded" bra and a "cup" bra?
thanks.
-confused
a cup is the size you look for in a bra. like an Ac cup, B cup, C cup, etc. a padded bra is a bra that has extra padding in the cup to make you look bigger/fuller. a regular bra just shows all of you. nothing fake about it.
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I've figured out that i am bi...but i am a christian..and i realize how wrong it is...and i hate myself for it...im trying to change myself.....but its hard for me to completely stop liking guys....but its so wrong...in the bible it says that doing stuff with another guy is an abomination..and they should be destroyed..that scares me..so i am trying to fight it off..i have a gf...and she's helping me thru it too...but my ? is...is it really wrong to be bi?..
there is nothing wrong with being bi. you cant help the way you feel about people. and it shouldnt change the what people think about you. if they dont agree with it then thats them. but your friends are the ones who wont care. they will like you for you. if not, then find someone who is perfectly fine with it. you deserve to be treated like a normal person and not an outkast.
sure people will talk shit, but you have to be better and stronger about yourself. you shouldnt hate who you are and how you feel. the stronger you are, the better. dont fight away your feelings. just be you.
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My freckles are really dark and ugly. Any ideas on how to make them fade permanently or temporarily? Can I get rid of them? Please help! I'm tired of being covered in polka-dots, whether they are angel kisses or not!
just use cover up. go to your local drug store and pick your favortie brand.
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Hey, I am Leigh-Anne, I am 35 years old, a week ago me and my husband were working late, my 12 year old son was home alone, when I came home I went to his room and caught him having sex with a 17 year old girl who is a friend of the family. I was schocked. She was giving him oral sex and they immedietly stopped, please answer thanks ~Leigh-Anne
ok well first off... grounding him isn't going to do anything. it will only make things worse. you can talk to him and let him know how you feel about it, but that may not work either. nothing you are going to do or say will cange what happened. and nothing you can do or say is going to change how he feels about sex. i dont really know how to tell you about how to deal with this. I dont know exactly what you can do to him, to make him realize that to you what he has done was wrong of him. i know it may sound stupid but when workin late, maybe get someone to keep an eye on him to make sure he isnt doing anything that he shouldnt. maybe have a neighbor just keep watch or check on him for you and your husband. but i do know that grounding him will only cause him to argue and fight with the both of you, your hubby and you. i wouldnt recommend it, however it is your choice. you and your husband should sit down and discuss together, what you both think is the best way to go about your son. i dont know if any of this is exactly what you were asking, and i also dont know if my answer has helped or even if it was good. either way... only you can decide how you want to handle this. no one else can tell you how you and your hubby should go about this matter and how to punish your son.
as for the girl, you should maybe talk to her and let her know that you would rather her not be around your son unless there is an adult present. i really wouldnt recommomen that you make them stop seeing each other all together. once again that will cause alot of hostility between all of you. let her know that you are willing to let them continue to be friends, but you are not going to guarantee trust to eith one of them while they are together. let her know that you will abserve the way they are with eahc other and if you find that they are doing anything else together or with each other, that you will no longer allow the two of them to be together. as with telling your son this also. once again this may not be the best advice. and also, once again, only you can decide what is best.
good luck. hope it has helped
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btw... i was just wondering, did you catch them having sex or was it head. you first said they were having sex then you said that she was giving him head. which one is it? and also..
why would you be asking a bunch of teenagers what to do? your the adult, your the parent, you should know what to do.
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i have two questions ...
1) there is a nextel phone called the the i265 out.. does anyone know what store i can buy this at or if it's even available to buy ?
2) i was looking at the boost mobile site today, and i saw a phone i really liked (i285). how much would it cost me to get the phone, and all the pre-paid crap inbetween ? i'll rate high! thank you
i know this doesnt help to answer your questions, but dont go with nexteles. thay suck and are a piece of shit. trust me.
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What if you think your falling for your best friend and its not a guy and you know she BI do u tell her how you feel? or what Help i kno this sounds gay but please help!!
yes. you should tell her. especially if she is bi. becuase she will be the one who can understand you more than anyone.
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I broke up with my BF at this dance we have in my city...this was only because he was dancing with other girls....(girl) and I was jealous, so I broke up with him, but I have been walking with him and I really really like him a LOTTT!!!!!!!!
what should I do???
quit being so jealous. he is allowed to have female freinds. who care if he dances with another girl, there is no harm in it. get over yourself.
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listen bitch- i was only stating the damn truth. if i didnt like the question i wouldnt of answered it. and if your gonna bitch about peoples advice, tehn dont come on here and ask a question. so i have one for you...
Would you like some cheese to go along with your whine?
Seriously- you really do need to get overself.
And if you got any more problems with me, how about IMing me and i will be more than happy to tell you what i think about it. If you got something to say to me, let me know and dont leave shit on my column.
Great.. glad we got that straightened up.
Some people...
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hiya, my friend has just recently got a new boyfriend. she has had one before and had sex and her mum didnt no. im scared she will have sex again beacuse today she said to her other friend that she did something with him, and im thinking it may well be sex, cos she sed she was in a shed (by theirselves).
anyone give me advice plze?
thanxz x x x x
i dont see how thats any of your business. what she does behind closed doors is her business. just let it go, if she wants to have sex, she going to have sex. i mean face it, you cant exactly stop her.
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well there's this girl @ my school, let's call he kristin**, and kristin has turned into a total bitch over the last few weeks. we used to be friends and then she started talking about me behind my bak one day & i didn't even do anything to her! can someone help me! thanx!!!
all girls are bitches in one way or another. and they are always going to talk shit. theres nothing you can really do to make her stop talking shit about you. but if she was a friend, she wouldnt be talkin the shit. so i say find a new friend and let her go before you end up getting hurt in all of this.
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Okay im 15 .. and i like these two guys .. tha first one lets call him Joe ..okay well he goes to my school .. and hes a junior(im a freshman) well our lockers are right next to each other so thas sorta how we met but then we started talking,talking bc i became "close friends" with his friend (lets call him) Steve .. well me ans Steve just have sorta drifted away .. but me and Joe still talk alot !! n we talk online n everyday at school .. and i like him alot .. hes 17 .. soo hott and is soo sweet to me!! we just sorta click i guess.. hes so awesome .. and then tha other guy lets call him Bob .. well i met him about a month and a half ago from my two bff's ..Well we have all hung out together a few times and me and Bob talk online all tha time n see each other about every weekand(hes a freshman too but goes to another school) .. so every weekand me and my friends go to these local concert things .. its just basically a whole bunc of local punk/emo bands and they play .. its really awesome .. well me n my friends have been goin every sat. night for tha past month .. well this comming up saturday .. i invited Joe and Bob .. and they are both sorta thinking like im guna be there n we can get close or flirt or hook up or w/e .. which we prolly will ... but i dont want like Bob to think like we are guna make out or anyhthing bc then Joe is guna be there and vice versa .. i dont want to hurt either of them .. Me and Bob talk ALOT and we both like each other and know it.. but me n Joe .. well i like him ALOT and i think he knows it but im not sure how he feels about me .. I really like both of them .. Bob has a great personality and is SOOO sweet .. There are so many things i love about him .. but then Joe hes so hott ..and nice and sweet..n i like alotta things about him too .. and i told my mom that i liked both of them but she keeps insiting that i should forget about Bob and just keep persuing Joe !! but i think she thinks that bc hes older and his family is way rich ... so im not sure what i should do about this upcomming weekand .. Pleae help ? I rate 'XoX
well i think you should choose joe for the fact that you can see each other every day. where as bob you can only see on aturdays at a concert. i also think that you should choose joe because you talked about how he was sweet and nice to you more than you did about bob being nice to you. i am not saying that he isnt nice to you, i am saying you mention joe a little more. and this weekend can be a way for you two figure out how each will act around you with another guy there. you said that you will prolly flirt with THEM, see how the both of them take that. this may be a way to help you choose. i dunno. but also it may be a way to see hoow joe acts around you when he is out with you. and also how he is with your friends. (
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13/f. OH MY GAWD. K so like I just have a 5 person orgy. (we usd condums) but the guy I was doing at the time has an std and he wore a condom but it broke and he spermed in me. And then I had sex with 2 other guys and rubbed my vagina on a chick. We all might be in danger. Today my vagina was bleeding! What do I do? I might be pregnant and have an std, and Im apposed to have sex again today with a different guy! Wut do I do?!?!?! help me!!
xoxo
P.S. Dont call me a slut cause im not!
if thats not a slut, then i dont know what is. maybe you should re think this whole thing... your 13, had an orgy with 5 people, did a guy with an std, had sex with two other guys, and rubbed your shit all up on another chick. its possible that you could be pregnant to one of 5 guys. and most likely picked up the std from the guy and transfered it amoung others people as well. and you want to have sex with someone else again today. well that is slutish. im not so sure this is a real question either, but if it is no joke and it is serious---
then you need to not worry right now about having sex later on today and be more worried about yourself. you need to go to a local health clinic or get an appt. with a doctor. you most likely pick up the std and passed it around to everyone there. thats because not only can it be passed through semen, but by skin-to-skin contact. so you should really get checked before fucking some other guy and passing it on any further than it has already been spread. if you keep this up and arent sure what you got, then your whole damn area is going to be nothing but a bunch of std invested sluts(both male and female sluts). If your pregnant, you will need to wait a little while before being aboe to get checked and know for sure. and if you are, then you have the trouble of worrying about paternity tests to find out who your baby's daddy is. maybe ummm... maury or someone would be able to help ya out there. maybe you could even advertise your shit on jerry springer. but either way... you need to seek some sort of medical attention. and you need to do it before you go fucking and messing around with everyone and their brother(who knows maybe even their sisters too). the std's have been spread around enough. the five of you have prolly all got one now. so all of you should get checked out.
but for now---
just keep your damn legs shut.
oh and one more thing... What the fuck is wrong with you? Do you have some type of mental illness? your supposedly worried about std's that you caught and being pregnant, but yet the only thing you can think about is will you still be able to have sex with this other guy.
i still say that this is a joke there is atleast one good reason mentioned right above for that. i will also say this again... that is very slutish, therefore, it makes you a SLUT!!!!
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