hey. okay i have some stretch marks on my boobs, and im very slef concious about them. none of m friends have them. my boobs arent even that big either! why did i get them, and what can i do to get them go away? i'm afraid to do anything sexual witha guy because im embarresed. i cant wear low shirts because of it. what can i do to maek this go away?
anonymous -
Buy some cocoa butter at your local Wal-mart. It'll take a couple of days but you'll notice results pretty quick. I had those marks too and now they're practically gone!
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okay, so i really love that punky makeup look, sooooo i was wondering where i could get some good products. especially eyeshadow. i've seen some girls with hot pink eyeshadow and it looks awsome but every single time i've gotten a pink it just ends up looking too pastel or fuchia-ish! any good products or ideas?
anonymous -
The best eyeshadow that even the professionals use is MAC. It's a bit pricey, but you can find and buy their products at:
http://www.maccosmetics.com
As for tips, I'd suggest use an eyeliner pencil in black and CAREFULLY line the top and bottom of your eyes. Using a q-tip, smudge the eyeliner (upward for eyelid, and downward for bottom). Also, apply eyeshadow with a good eyeshadow brush, it's the only thing that blends well! If you want some good general makeup tips go here:
http://www.xanga.com/jomacjo
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My girlfriend and I have been going out for 9 months, and its the first time I've loved anyone. Yesterday we were talking about looks and why it does/doesn't matter in a realtionship. She told me she wasint that physically attracted to me but my personality was enough. I didn't know how to react, I just smiled. She basically told me I was ugly and I dont know what to do. It sucks because I love her so much and I feel so low right now. I dont know what to do/what to think/ etc.
-17/male
anonymous -
Aww, don't feel sad! I speak from experience, cuz I said the same to my boyfriend.
What we mean when we say that looks don't matter to us doesn't imply that you're ugly. What it means is that we love you for you and we're not with you because of your looks!
With my boyfriend, a lot of girls would consider him hot, but quite honestly I'm not attracted to "hot" guys (I tend to like nerdy/average guys). But still I went out with him and as I got to know him better, I grew attracted to him physically because I got to know him.
Your girlfriend doesn't mean anything bad when she's telling you this, it's all on good intention. She's meaning to tell you that she loves you and accepts you for who you are, flaws and all. Take it as a compliment, cuz not a lot of girls can do that (a lot of girls tend to be shallow).
Hope this helps!
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i'm a senior in high school and i'm going to college next year. i'm a little confused on the whole hour consept, can somebody explain it to me? when they say that a class is three hours, does that mean three hours a day, three hours a week or what? and if you're taking 15 hours a semester, does that mean that you have 15 hours of class every week? i don't get it.
oh, and plese no "i dunno, i have never gone to college, but i think..." answers.
anonymous -
I am in college, but to tell you the truth I never really paid attention to the concept of hours. What I can tell you is that at my school credit hours don't mean anything regarding the word hour, it just refers to how many credits you're taking. Just like in high school, say you're required to take 4 credits of english, but it doesn't have any reference toward hours so you have nothing to worry about.
Additional information is usually the minimum number of credits for a full-time student is 12 credit hours, and the maximum is 18. Currently I'm a freshman in my second semester of college and I'm taking 17 credits. It sounds like a lot, but it really depends on what classes you sign up for. Because I chose Chemistry II and Ethics this semester, the workload is kicking my butt!
Hope this helps!
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one group of my friends drink a lot and i dont really care that much about it. im not against it or anything. my only concern is that i know sometime i will be involved in a situation where i will be asked if i want a drink... the thing is, i have never drank before, i don't want to say no, but i don't want to get the reputation that i always do that stuff. whats your advice?
oooOOhhH PeeER PreSSuuure... lol
anonymous -
If you get asked to drink in the future, only agree to it if you want to. Saying no is no biggie, people won't go judging you just cuz you turned down the offer. If they want a reason, just say my face tends to get red when I drink and my parents will know. Usually drinkers faces get red :)
But if you are willing to drink, drink sparingly. Don't be chugging on bongs or take shot after shot. If you drink sociably say a beer or two, you're fine, just don't overdo it. You won't get a rep of always drinking unless you get really wasted or hungover.
I hope this helps!
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What are some good country songs?
I am making a binder with a TUN of awesome lyrics! its sorta got a good start, but I Love country and i dont ever remember the names of songs or who sings them!
So if you know of any good country songs, and you know the title and(but its okay if you dont) the artist or group! thanks so much!
and if you have any other awesomely amazing songs that you think are just great, leave me those too, and i'll look them up and add them as well!
thanks so much in advance!
:) *KeLs*
Kels -
"How Do I Live" by LeAnne Rhimes is awesome! It's a sweet love song, gave me tears when I heard it! If you recognize it, it's the theme song from the movie Con-Air which is a great flick!
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Hi, I'm going to a carnival dance and I'm not sure on what to wear. The weather is in the high forties to low fifties, but the place of the dance is EXTREMELY HOT.
Is this a good outfit:
White tank, black miniskirt, and pink tweed heels
OR .. ANY SUGGESTIONS? AND HAIR SUGGESTIONS? I'll rate high for appropriate answers.
anonymous -
This is my opinion so I'm sorry if it doesn't come to your liking, but I don't think the pink tweed heels would match with your black and white outfit. But I am liking that your choosing an outfit that you'll feel comfortable in due to the hot temp!
What I'd suggest is match your clothes, top priority. If you choose to wear the white tank with the black miniskirt, wear shoes to match your black and white theme. I'm not sure if it's a formal dance, but if it's pretty casual, even some really clean Adidas black and white striped sneaks would look great with that outfit.
But again, for matching, if you want to wear those pink heels, pick clothes that are along the same hue of the shoes (light or dark). Like a white tank with a pink skirt or if your opting for dark, go for darker colors. Don't clash opposite colors with a bright color that doesn't match.
For hair, I think putting your hair half up and half down would be cute. Curl the tips of the hair and you're set!
I'm not sure I helped, but I hope I was of some assistance! If you want more input don't hesitate to ask :)
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My 'friend' is ruining my life!!!!!!! She talks crap on me and ALL of my other good friends all the time! She spreads rumors that arent true! She is a SLUT and she is pround of it! You just can't stop her she is like this bug you just can't kill and I don't know what to do! What can I do to make her stop doing this?!?! She has new friends now, and I know she is going to ruin their lives as well. I dont want them going through the pain I went through because of her. THey say they don't like her at all, but they still are nice to her and hang around her. I know if they keep making her think that they are freinds that she will go around and screw them over jsut like she did to me and my other good friend. What can I say/do to make it stop before it happens? Thanks! I RATE HIGH! :)
anonymous -
Hey, I went through the same thing that you did, so I hope I can be of some assistance.
To put it simply, just drop her. She isn't worth your time, your friendship, nada. Escpecally if she's going to use you and screw you over, she's not worth it.
Although it will bug the crap out of you that she's so PROUD of her conceited self, just leave her be. I know it's hard, but that's the best thing to do. I'm sure if you, her former friend I guess you could say, if you can see this in her, I'm sure others see it too, even if they don't know her. She doesn't realize that she's giving off the wrong impression, and really, she's making an ass of herself without realizing it. Just sit back and laugh at the embarrassment she bestows on herself!
...but if you must, at last resort, if she bugs you that much, make her look stupid. I'm not suggesting using insults, or harmful words, but if she continues to make fun of you and your friend, defend yourselves! Tell her she doesn't know what the fuck she is talking about and to get on with her life cuz you DROPPED HER and have moved on already. Tell her she's too much of a self-centered person to think that you actually care about her anymore. Keep in mind this is a last resort thing...and also tell her this (if you decide to) AFTER you dropped her as a friend. :) Also, don't point fingers or get anyone else involved. Keep it between you two.
As for the other friends that hang around her, or as I'd like to call them, groupies, just let them continue to be friends with her. Although you may have warned them about her, they will have to learn the hard way of "I told you so." They are just too naive to do anything about her behavior, so they continue blindly pursuing a false friendship that really is non-existent.
To conclude, just find new friends. You don't want a stuck up bitch as a friend nor do you want her "yes-men" groupies as friends either. Either way you won't be having true friends.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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I have music on my Windows Media Player that I want to get URL's for so I can put them on my websites. But I've looked everywhere and cant find anything. Is there a way I can make my own url's through my media player? If so, how? Thanks:)
anonymous -
There are ways that you can upload the songs, but it's illegal due to copyright laws.
But to find a song that you're looking for I suggest you use the search engine dogpile.com under the audio section. It has the most results of relevant searches compared to altavista and metacrawler. Ask.com and google you can't really search for audio files.
Hope this helps!
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I really need advice rite now. I have been going out with This guy for about 8 months (on and off) and I really love him. But all that I end up getting out pf this relationship is MORE drama and Hurt. I really like him but sometimes it seems like it wasnt meant to be. Ever since I met him and His buddies ITs all been He** and drama and HatE. I haven't cried sooo much in the last 5 years than I have these several months with him. He already cheated on me twice...and there is also this girl that likes him and He has Liked her Forever and I'm scared that he will go out wit her....she is such a bit** too...is it because I'm jelous of her...of what she can have or do?? i really dont know..MY LIFE IS jUST ALL Drama and I want it all to go away. please help me..
anonymous -
The only way to really get rid of all this drama is to break up with him.
Think about what has this relationship has to offer you? To me it seems like the cons outnumber the pros. To cheat on you he is not considerate of your feelings and shows great disrespect. The fact that there's another girl involved is increasing the chance of another incident with you getting hurt again.
I know it's going to be hard, and don't listen to all of the other people who say "get over him" like it's a piece of cake. If it helps any, he'll get what's coming to him in the end, oh how I love karma.
He really isn't worth your time, you need a guy that deserves you and you, him. Also, life is too short to spend it with a guy who will make it hell for you. Go out and mingle, dating is really fun! You can talk to other guys and flirt without having to worry about a guy back home :) Have fun and enjoy your life!
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Ok, theres this guy i like, hes a really shy guy till he gets to know you and stuff but anyways, theres this pretty girl that knows him pretty well cuz she has known him longer but she ask me if i thought he was cute and if i liked him and i told her i do and she started flirting with him a couple minutes later. like hitting him and giggling and picking on him and stuff. she was so flirting but...
she KNOWS i like him, and i thought she was my friend. how could she do that? what should i do..i dont have the courage to say anything. that and i dont wanna mess up our friendship but i have been trying to get him to like me and it was working so well, he did like me and then she started that and now i dont know. how can i get him to like me over her and get the point across to her that I like him and shes needs to back off without making her mad?
he is shy and so am I so im not sure about just talking to him cuz he like, never ever talks. but if she flirts with him again this wensday what should i do?
anonymous -
That girl is no "friend" if she's willing to disrespect your feelings and betray you like that. My suggestion is to come up to her and confront her about her behavior. Either that, or my favorite, just tell her to fuck off and find another friend cuz her ass isn't worth your trouble. I know you're shy, but this girl needs to be told what's up. Don't let her step all over you like that.
I don't know if it's just me, but I highly DESPISE flirty people. Too obnoxious and show-offish for my taste if you ask me. I mean, what exactly are they trying to prove...? That they're easy?
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THIS IS PRETTY LONG AND BORING....
Im 20m and never had a girlfriend!!!I never even hold or kiss a girl before.... It's not that im ugly or gay, although im not the cute or handsome type either. When i was in high school there were a few girls that come up to me but they weren't my type so i refused them all. But the girl that was my type, i never had the courage to ask them out (im very shy around the girl i like). Now that i drop out of college and work fulltime, i dont have the chance of meeting new people. HOW AM I GOING TO GET A GF? I dont hang out that much and i had never step foot in a club before. Here's the weird thing, the older i get the pickier i am about girlfriend. I thought that not having a gf is suppose to make me desperate, but im not, although i do want a gf pretty bad. What make it worse is that i dont like party girls or girls that would go out with someone that just met and thought he is kinda cute, of course there is nothing wrong with that, im just being picky. I would like to get to know the girl a lil bit before i go out with her, but HOW AM I GOING TO DO THAT????
anonymous -
So far as I see the problem is your standards in women. Don't single every girl out who doesn't meet your standards, cuz I mean, nobody's perfect. If you're out searching for "the perfect girl" you're shit out of luck unfortunately. There is no such thing as the perfect girl because every girl is flawed. We're only human. If you give us a chance, we'll give you a chance. Treat others as you wish to be treated right?
Since you're not into the party girls, go the place swarming with girls, the mall. There are also girls at the supermarket, we're everywhere! Don't feel shy to strike up conversations with us, girls like guys who have confidence, who can keep a conversation flowing smoothly (i.e. we don't like to be bored). Keep that in mind.
You don't really have to go out and look for a girl you like, odds are there's one working at a store near you. Just casually compliment her and ask her when she gets off work and tell her you want to take her out sometime.
It's hard to get to know a girl in person, so another option is the internet. Talk with girls in your area, exchange pics, and meet up for a group hangout one day so you can get to know her.
Just remember to try and limit your fickle habit, after all you don't want a girl to reject you because she's picky too right? Like in "Shallow Hal" where that guy dumped a girl that "wasn't his type" simply cuz her second toe is longer than her big toe. You don't want to be like that because it's ridiculous. You'll be making exceptions later down the line anyways if you like someone a lot.
Good luck!
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i think I'm pregnant... my preganancy test came out negative but i have the symptoms. Im 15, and i dont know who the dad is. And i dont want a baby... what can i do?
no rude bitches....
anonymous -
Go to a Planned Parenthood clinic near you and get tested. Sometimes pregnancy tests aren't all that accurate so get yourself checked at these clinics where you'll know 100% for sure if you are or not. Everything is kept confidential by the way. :)
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Hi. Could anyone tell me some good songs to
work out to?
Thanks
anonymous -
I think trance and techno songs are good to workout too. The beat is fast and it makes you want to get up and dance! Some good deejays are Dj Epic, Dj Mystik, Dj Tiesto, Dj Sammy, etc. The songs on the DDR game are also pretty good!
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Please read! This is the most confusing and hurtful thing that happened to me!
I have a boyfriend and I really love him. Even though I still am going out with him I've liked this guy soooo much this whole year! This guy knew that I liked him and he liked me to. Like 2 weeks ago him and his girlfriend broke up. While they were going out he was telling me that he really does like me and that he wants to go out with me. Well, he asked me out but I was still going out with my boyfriend. This weekend we didnt talk much. When I did he told me he wasnt over his ex girlfriend! I dont know what to do! Im heart broken! He told me he liked me and now I`m not in the picture anymore. He forgot about me and moved on! Please help! What did I do to change his mind that quick. I cant talk to him about this and I wont so please dont tell me to! Help! Im so confused and hurt.
anonymous -
I'm not sure how old you guys are, but if you're young (pre-teens to middle teens) most likely the guy is struggling to find out what he wants. Cuz when you choose to break up with somebody, usually you get to thinking and that thinking leads to regret. I don't think that you did anything wrong, it's just that the guy had a change in heart about how he felt about the other girl. He might still like you, but his feelings for the other girl might overpower the feelings for you.
You don't have to talk to him about it. My best suggestion is to move on. It's a big world and life is too short to wallow in the sadness over this guy! You should be grateful too cuz if he did end up getting together with you, seeing that he can't make up his mind very well, he might dump you down the line for someone else as well.
Feel better girl an d hope this helps!
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ok... i have to write an essay for my 9th grade english class about romeo and juliet. We have to dicuss whether or not they were in love. I feel that they werent really in love, just lust. I need help in finding information to prove my point, which is that romeo and juliet werent really in love. If any one has any advice about this please tell me! thanks
anonymous -
I'm not sure what kind of information your searching for to prove your point. I know that there are a lot of examples that you can give to support your argument, but are you looking more toward psychological sources that proves that it's lust? or...?
Like if it's works cited, I'd recommend looking into some psychology forums online. If it's informal arguments and concepts, just reply back and I'll see what I can do :)
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I guess this goes under this category but oh my gosh! i need HELP! Ok i am 13/f and i go out with this guy named David...well im his first girlfriend which is UNBELIEVABLE because hes SO sweet and hes not really hott but ya know! and so since im his first girlfriend his mom wants me to have dinner with them on friday...which REALLY sucks! because of ME! well i dont know if i can even go yet because i might have to go to my dads but still....i am SO SHY! like only around older people such as adults! but not people my age! see im so shy that when i talk about something thats kinda embarassing to me about my family, i get all shy and turn red...i dont know why and it makes me MAD! and its stuff thats not even that emabarssing!! anyone know what i can do to prepare or anything!?!
anonymous -
The best advice here is really to RELAX!
Although you're going to feel pressured to be perfect and do what they expect of you, but just remember that if they are nice enough to invite you to dinner, that they are welcoming you and want to get to know you. They won't judge you so try not to worry about it! Treat them like how you talk to your mom and dad :)
If it helps, be the one to strike up conversations. I find it easier to decrease the level of awkwardness by having the ability to control where the conversation goes. Talk about anything like where his parents work, where are they from, etc. and expand off of that.
Good luck and remember to relax!
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14/female
A lot of people at school thinks my life is perfect. it is far from it. i wont get into too much detail and make this too long but i have a few good friends that i love but there are so many morons that get mad because i get good grades or whatever. i just wanted to know does this go away in high school? or will people still asume my life is great because i get good grades?
thank you
Rememberxforever -
These people are just jealous that they aren't capable of getting good grades. Cuz when they see you breezing your way through school getting A's like it's effortless, they tend to get angry cuz they feel they're trying just as hard but aren't getting the grades.
Usually this is only temporary in high school. As hard as it may sound just shrug it off. If it bothers you that much, just tell them that yea I get good grades, but I work hard for them. There's no such thing as perfect so who are you to say how my life is?
I went through almost the same thing but the other people didn't really taunt me for it. Get to know these people and show them that there's an actual person behind those book smarts. :) I got along with everyone (even though I wasn't popular) and usually they stopped after they got to know me a little better.
Good luck girl and keep up with the academics!
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okay to start off i know i am not FAT. but i am 4 foot 11 inches and weight about 105. and i dont care what the scale says i care about the way i look. being so short for my age and having a regular appetite for my age doesnt help. i play 2-3 sports but i know i dont eat very healthy. i just dont like the way my stomach looks...my friends all say i am fine but really they are my friends what are they going to say?....
please tell me if you think i am just exaggerating or i should eat healthier/exercise more but PLEASE do it nicely...(i.e: dont swear and call me an idiot)
anonymous -
I don't think you're exaggerating cuz I went through the same thing. Although I was skinny, some parts of me weren't!
Eating healthy is always the key to a healthy lifestyle. But you can occasionally indulge on your junky foods, just on occasion not always. As for exercise, if your stomach is the only thing bothering you, just work on that and nothing else.
Hope this helps!
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theres this guy i like and he likes me too... but i dont think my mom would approve of him because he smokes. everytime i want to hang out with him i have to lie to my mom, which i feel bad about. i've tried talking to her but she doesnt listen. any ideas?
anonymous -
Although she doesn't listen, you're going to have to make her listen!
Bring up the topic by asking her that you want to have a talk to her about boys. Tell her that you value her opinion and that's the main reason why you want to talk to her. Bring it up like well I like this boy, and I want you to meet him so that you can get to know him and I'll know how you feel about him. After all, I don't want to disrespect you.
Your mom should be very impressed :)
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