My name is Lyndsey and I'm 17 years old. I live in Lexington, South Carolina. I pride myself on being mature for my age with a good head on my shoulders, but I find I can be snippy when I hear something that just hits a nerve. I have a lot of strong opinions and I have no problem arguing them. I'm a very open-minded person and very tolerant of most things.
Immaturity is a big pet peeve of mine, as is self-centered, narrow-minded, and ignorant people. I can be cruel when it comes to these things, but sometimes certain people need to be told their faults. I know mine and I have no problem being confronted with them. If someone has a problem with me, online or in person, I'd rather they tell me and we can resolve the issue in a mature fashion. I won't tell you want to WANT to hear, just what you NEED to hear.
On a less serious note, I'm a laid back person and I enjoy shopping, the internet, and my favorite TV shows (Queer as Folk, The L Word, Friends, American Idol, Will & Grace, House). I don't have a large group of friends, but the ones I have are close and I love them to death. I generally enjoy life, minus the whole school deal. I'm a junior in high school and I can't wait to move on to college. I am an honors student and I hope to go to the University of South Carolina and then eventually into the medical field, possibly psychology.
If you have any questions or want advice, I'm here for ya, babes.
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E-mail: lyndsey.white@yahoo.com
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Location: Lexington, South Carolina
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i have been dating my boyfriend for about 2 years now and i am really in love with him. but the thing is that i got offered a modeling job in california. and i dont know what willhappen to us. he doesnt want me to go but i really want to. i dont want to give it up and i dont know if he is just tesing me or what i dont want to lose him or this oppertunity what should i do he is also going to college on the east coast next year and i will only be a junior
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Hm, this is a tough one. I believe that you should do what you think is best for you and your future. If you want to be a model, then this is a once in a lifetime opportunity.
I could say "if he loves you, he'd go with you" but it's not that simple. He has his future to look after and you have yours. But whatever you do, don't sacrifice your future for a guy, ever!
Relationships come and go, and you can always try the long distance thing. Even if it doesn't work out, life moves on. Just don't stay with him just to keep him as a boyfriend, because you may regret it later.
Good luck!
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added u as a favorite
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Hm, it must not have worked because you aren't listed on my "Favorite Columnists" page. But, I added you anyways.
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which on do you like better. (just so i know) list them in order .. the first being the one you like the most
-thongs
-bikini underwear
-boy shorts (link)
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-Thongs (cotton is most comfortable, and no panty lines!)
-Boy shorts (panty lines aren't bad in these, but sometimes you can still see them if you don't have pockets)
-Bikini (I used to only wear these, but now I hate them)
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ok, i have this social studies project due tomorrow, and i'm just now starting! i know thats bad, please dont tell me- i know. well my topic is " What was the impact of Dr Pepper on Texas" well i need to know the impact of Dr Pepper from the past, and the impact on the future. i'm not asking people to do my work, i just need help. please answer sooon i need help!
A.S.A.P. plz! (please do not give me sites or links) (link)
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Ok, I know I'm going to get a super low rating for this, but I honestly could not care less.
First of all, it's YOUR project and you should be doing your own work, not asking for it on an ADVICE website. That's not advice, that's homework help, and there are other websites for that.
Secondly, you're asking people to do your research for you by saying no links to websites. What are they supposed to do? Go google it, summarize entire webpages and post it here for you? People have their own homework and projects to do.
It wouldn't be quite as annoying if you didn't put that last comment. If you'd asked for websites, I'd understand better because it would help you get your research done quicker. No one is going to just know off the top of their head the history of Dr. Pepper, so you just want all of the work done for you.
Tough luck on that one, babe. Maybe if you didn't put it off until the last minute you wouldn't be having this problem, now would you?
EDIT: You are PATHETIC. If that response was any indication of YOUR maturity level, I shouldn't even have dignified it with a response. Oh, you hate me "soooo" much? Very scary, you ignorant immature child.
EDIT 2: Ugh, learn how to spell. How can you argue with someone when they can't even spell "level"? Take an English class.
EDIT 3: No, it's called you don't know how to spell. Comeback, haha, you're funny. I think I'm just about done with this conversation. You're useless.
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15/f im kinda short compared to my friends. im only 5'2. i kinda like my highth, but my friends constantly tease me because my boyfriend is 5'9. how do i grow a little taller?
i have a little flab. i weigh 127 pounds. i look skinny, but only because of the clothes i wear. when im in a bikina i look nasty. how could i shed a few pounds?
my friends all wear c's and d's in bra sizes. but im only an a. ive seen my boyfriend look at other girls chests and it makes me kind of jealous. im not mad at him or anything because i know i have nothing to look at. how do i grow in the chest area?
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There's no way to make yourself grow taller. You're fifteen, you probably aren't done growing, but you can't speed that process up. If you want to make yourself LOOK taller, wear tall heels.
As for losing weight, diet and exercise. 1200 calories a day and 30 minutes of working out 5 days a week. And plenty of water is essential.
There's also no way to make your chest grow naturally. That's also something you have to wait for. If you want to make them LOOK bigger, wear padded or push-up bras.
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I didn't get this joke.Please explain it to me.
http://www.stripcreator.com/comics/ladyjdotnet/375729 (link)
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It's a comic attempting to make fun of women getting their periods.
Snatch is another word for vagina. Captain BLOODsnatch...get it? As for the rest, it's saying women get cravings for chocolate, chips, etc during their periods.
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okay so i like this boy and i seriously think he is gay.
theres nothing wrong with being gay, its just when you like the guy this much it hurts.
he asked me out the other day and I'm not sure he was serious.
his mom talks to me daily talking about how her son likes me to death and he has never acted like this with other girls. and that he says I'm the most beautiful girl he has ever seen in his life.
he is a really nice guy and i want to know more of the inside.
two of my boyfriends have turned gay on me. we are hanging out tomorrow so how do i get him to ask me out for REAL.
and i heard he has cheated on most of his girlfriends yet he acts like he never would do such a thing.
BUT I THINK HES GAY.
I'm not prepared for another heartbreak.
but i want him.
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If you think he's gay why would you want to be in a relationship with him? He's not just going to NOT be gay to be with you.
Telling is mom about you doesn't mean he's not gay. The girl below me has no idea what she's talking about. No one here can tell you if he is gay or not. Gay people can talk about people of the opposite sex just to cover up what they are really feeling.
And even if he isn't gay, you say you're not prepared for another heartbreak. If that's true, you probably shouldn't be getting into relationships at all.
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ok so i'm 13 and well i guess i'm kinda interested in vibrators i mean i've never had one but i'm curious and i dont have anyone who could buy one for me and i really cant talk to my mom or friends about it so does anyone know how i could get one??? (link)
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Well seeing as you are so young and don't have anyone to buy one for you, it's not like you can just walk into a sex store and buy one at your age.
You can try what most young girls do and use things like electric toothbrushes or electric razors that vibrate. The toothbrush handle would probably work the best and vibrate most. I bet at your age you could get your hands on something like that. :)
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does anyone know of any weightloss plans or like online things that work only answer if you've tried them and dont answer if your not gonna help and say there arnt any that work (link)
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I did Atkins for 3 months and lose 35 lbs with absolutely no exercise.
The only bad thing is, like most diets, you eventually get sick of the food and have to switch it up. Now I'm doing low-cal to maintain my weight and it's been working so far.
But if you like meat, eggs, cheese, and vegetables with unlimited real butter, Atkins is a good diet that actually WORKS, and quick...and you don't starve!
The whole plan isn't online, you'd have to buy the book. But I know the basics. If you do some google research on Atkins and think you may want to do it, email me at deviant_queen@yahoo.com and I'll give you the basics of the diet. :)
ETA: In response to your feedback, as far as I know sites like that require money. southbeachdiet.com is one of those. There are plenty of others, but even if they say they are free, you don't get meal plans and all that for free. It's best to just get a book and go for it like that.
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my boyfirend and i dont have sex or do really intense stuff like that...but one time we were making out and his penis was right on my vagina and he had boxers and athletic shorts on and i had just underwear on...he was pressing on me pretty hard for no longer than 10ish minutes (it didnt go in me)..
Im pretty sure we both got "wet" but i dont think his could go through his shorts and my underwear...and then INTO me.
is there any way that i could get pregnant from that? (link)
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No, sperm can't go through boxers, shorts, AND underwear to get inside you.
HOWEVER, the people in here are giving you the impression that if penis doesn't go in vagina, you can't get pregnant. That is NOT true at all! If he masturbates, cums on his hand, and then fingers you, there is a chance the sperm can get inside you and you could get pregnant. It's not a BIG chance, but there's still a chance. Intercourse doesn't necessarily have to occur for someone to become pregnant.
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how long does it take for pounds to show up? ex: if i ate a lot of chocolate one day, then how long would it take to show up on my body? and if i eat really healthy all the time and have just a couple days of junk, then will i gain weight? (link)
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One day of eating unhealthy food won't make you gain fat. It may make you retain water for a couple of days, no more than two pounds, but it will eventually go away once you go back to eating as you normally would.
I eat healthy 5 days a week and on the weekends I eat whatever I want, as much as I want. I don't gain weight because of that. My weight might go up a couple of pounds, as I said, for a day or two, but it goes away and you can't tell the difference when you "put on" two pounds.
I've maintained my weight (and even lost some) over the past 4 months doing the 5 day thing. It works for me, so it should work for you.
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ok i am just curious
when a girl gives a guy a bj
why should she enjoy this?
i mean isn't just the thought of having his thing in her mouth disgusting? and swallowing his cum... wouldn't that just taste and make you feel disgusting?! i'm just wondering cause i don't get it at all why anyone would want to do that! (link)
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The point in giving blow jobs is to get pleasure in giving the guy pleasure. Girls like the feeling that they're making their boyfriend feel good.
Some girls, ie selfish girls, don't do it and expect for the guys to give them oral. That's ridiculous. Relationships are give and take. If a girl doesn't have the stomach to give a guy oral, she shouldn't expect him to do it to her.
Other girls like it because they know they are good at it. You like doing things that you're good at doing. Others just think it is fun. *shrug* To each her own.
I personally can't even imagine putting my face in some girls' vagina, but that's because I'm not interested in girls. But guys like doing it, and girls like when guys do it, so all things are good in the world. Guys to it to give girls pleasure, and vise versa.
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there's this guy that i would love to date, and i'm pretty sure he'd love to date me too, there's just one problem--he has really bad acne. acne totally grosses me out, and i wouldn't want to be close to him or anything because of it. what would be a nice way of telling him to wash his face or use proactive every once and a while? (link)
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First of all, hygiene isn't always the cause of acne. He could scrub his face every day and still have it. He's a young guy, it happens. Just because you were lucky enough not to get it doesn't mean everyone is that lucky. And proactiv DEFINITELY doesn't work for everyone.
And if his face "grosses you out", you probably shouldn't be dating him at all. Acne doesn't go away over night. It's a long and difficult thing to do, especially if you have naturally oily skin.
And there's no nice way of saying "wash your face once and a while". Like he should change how he looks for YOU? No way. As I said, if he grosses you out that bad, just don't ask him out. Simple as that. Find someone else you would "love to date" that doesn't have acne.
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My acrylics are lifting pretty badly. I just hit the two week maintenance mark (it was yesterday, and I was too busy to go get them filled. Today I was just too lazy to go.). I'm planning on going Monday to get them fixed unless I decide to completely remove them myself with acetone fingernail polish remover.
My question: How does a nail technition fix lifting acrylics? (link)
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They will either take the ones that are lifting off and redo it or just fill it in as usual and it'll be fine with the new acrylic on top.
Also, if they can clip just the part that's lifting off, they can do that and just fill it in. It all depends on how badly they are lifting or the place you get them done.
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Ok...I'm 16 years old and i have a boyfriend. Is it possible to just not be ready for sex at 16? A lot of my friends have had sex, and done oral sex...but i just dont feel ready for any of that...and i have no desire to do any of that. Is that normal? I feel like by 16 i should be ready (not necessarily be willing) but at least be ready, and to want, to do those things.
Thanks so much! (link)
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Well I'm 17 and I'm DEFINITELY not ready for sex. No, it's not weird. Some would actually say that it's more mature to wait until you're ready than to be like those little 13 year old girls who are giving their "boyfriends" blow jobs because all of their equally immature friends are doing it.
NEVER have sex because your friends are. Wait until you are ready, and not any sooner.
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on the show " friends" joey likes it when two girls are together. why do men like it when two girls kiss and all that other stuff? (link)
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Straight men love women.
Woman + Man = Hot because of the woman
Woman + Woman = Magical
The image of two women together is just very arousing to them. Why wouldn't it? Why watch a man and woman kiss or have sex when you can see another woman instead of the guy that does nothing for you?
That's pretty much it.
I'm a girl and I'm the same way about guys kissing...so I suppose I understand the attraction.
(EDIT: The person above me said she's never met a girl who liked seeing gay guys together. Well, open your eyes. What about the craze of emo boys kissing all last year on the internet? Or all of these websites and communities or shows like Queer as Folk loaded with women who love watching it. It's not that out of the ordinary.)
The only thing is that a lot of guys like seeing women together because they think they could maybe someday get into that action. Sorry to break it to them, but if two women enjoy being together, they probably don't want to be interrupted with some horny hairy guy and his penis. *shrug*
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ok so me and my friend went to a pool party. i wore a bikini and after we all changed back into our normal clothes, everyone started calling me rolls. i asked my friend why and she said she didnt know and she laughed. so i asked others and they said because i was fat, i had like 100 rolls, i had some jelly in my belly, and one girl even said it looks like i wasnt wearing a bikini because my rolls covered all of it. i dont think im fat, i mean when i sit or bend over i have this huge roll of fat that comes out but thats all. do you think maybe i am fat? (link)
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Rolls? That was really the best nickname they could come up with? That's pathetic.
And anyways, it was pure bullshit that your friend laughed and you and THEN didn't tell you why the other people at the party were making fun of you.
If you don't think you're fat, you're not. Plain and simple.
And even if you are, those people should get lives of their own and find something better to do than making fat jokes.
I mean, how old are we people? 5? Time to grow up.
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what are some good websites that have quizzes?
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www.quizilla.com
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my boyfriend had sex with another girl a week after we starting dating. we barely knew each other, but we were still in a relationship. for the next 3 months he denied that it happened and stuck to that. he made me believe that everyone else that said it was true was lying. i had trust in him. i knew it was true the whole time, but i just wanted to convince myself that it wasnt. he finally confessed to it, after 3 months of straight to my face lying, and sleeping with me.
i asked him why he chose to tell me, and he told me because he was falling in love with me and knew that i had to know. he tells me that he is willing to do anything to stay with me.
what would you do? (link)
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Ok, well here's the first point I want to make. You can NOT be in a "relationship" with someone you barely know. That's more of a "I like you and you like me, let's go see a movie and hold hands when we walk" type thing. That's NOT a relationship. You can't be in a serious emotional relationship with someone you don't know. And also, one week isn't really long enough to consider yourself "in a relationship".
On that level, I wouldn't think it was such a big deal. It wasn't that serious of a relationship, obviously, so he had no obligations to you yet. People date, it's no big thing unless a REAL relationship begins.
On the other hand, he should NOT have lied. Lying is the worst thing someone can do to someone they are dating, especially lying about it for three months.
The fact that he told you is definitely a good thing. Why else would he tell you that unless he cared for you and wanted it all out in the open?
I don't think what he did can be considered cheating since you'd only been dating for a week. And he told you in the end, so I definitely wouldn't be pissed about that. I wouldn't break up with him either.
What I WOULD do is explain to him that I want him to be completely honest with me from now on and to not hide anything from me. Explain that you didn't like being lied to for so long.
But hey, it was three months ago. It's time to let go and go on with your relationship (3 months + declaration of love = relationship for sure).
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whats is masterbating?
How do you do it?
or how does it happen? (link)
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Ok, what the person below me described sounded more like oral sex and foreplay, not masturbation.
Masturbation is stimulating your genitals BY YOURSELF. Bringing yourself to orgasm, basically.
If you're a girl, what happens is that when you get horny or "in the mood", you would touch yourself (breasts, genitals), stimulate your clitoris, etc. This also includes using dildos on yourself as well as fingers and vibrating sex toys.
If you're a guy, what happens is that when you get an erection, you would also touch yourself, ie "beat off/jack off", until you have an orgasm.
Girls are generally the type to do it in the bathtub surrounded by candles while most guys are "anywhere I can, anytime I can, as quick as I can" type people. Of course, there are exceptions, but that's the stereotype.
Doing a google search on "masturbation" could also help.
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