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ok i am just curious
when a girl gives a guy a bj
why should she enjoy this?
i mean isn't just the thought of having his thing in her mouth disgusting? and swallowing his cum... wouldn't that just taste and make you feel disgusting?! i'm just wondering cause i don't get it at all why anyone would want to do that!
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It's tons of fun. Dunno why, just is.
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All girls are going to have different opinions about this. Some girls are going to think it's disgusting & something they'd never want to do & that's completely fine. But girls who enjoy doing this, usually do it because they like pleasing their boyfriends/husbands. Also, if you're in a serious relationship where you truly care about eachother, oral sex isn't "disgusting"; it's more intimate.
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The point in giving blow jobs is to get pleasure in giving the guy pleasure. Girls like the feeling that they're making their boyfriend feel good.
Some girls, ie selfish girls, don't do it and expect for the guys to give them oral. That's ridiculous. Relationships are give and take. If a girl doesn't have the stomach to give a guy oral, she shouldn't expect him to do it to her.
Other girls like it because they know they are good at it. You like doing things that you're good at doing. Others just think it is fun. *shrug* To each her own.
I personally can't even imagine putting my face in some girls' vagina, but that's because I'm not interested in girls. But guys like doing it, and girls like when guys do it, so all things are good in the world. Guys to it to give girls pleasure, and vise versa.
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She would enjoy giving him pleasure. That's the whole point. If she doesn't enjoy doing it then there's no point because she wouldn't be focused on getting him to cum. Most girls think that way about it but obviously things change later.
Oral sex is to give and to receive. It wouldn't be fair if the girl never gave.
The girl doesn't have to swallow his cum. That's like.. in porn. He can tell her when to pull out so she doesn't have to swallow. She can always spit too.
Some girls do like giving head. There's girls that don't but do it anyway just to give him pleasure.
I don't think it matters how you feel when you're giving.. Some girls don't mind the taste and others find it sweet. It depends on the girl.
I mean you don't have to do it I guess but.. then your guy probably wouldn't give you oral either. He might but.. to receive all the time is a bit selfish in a good relationship [to get to oral that is]
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I used to think this way and I told myself that I would never do that to a guy. Things obviously changed. Oral sex is not selfish. When you are in a relationship with someone you can't be selfish. The whole point of a relationship is that you care about the other person. You need to treat the other person's feelings as almost as important as your own. You don't get anything out of it, no, but he does and you care about how he feels and work towards making him happy. He can of course do the same to you. Oral sex goes both ways. He can always do it to you too. Even though you get nothing out of it at the time, you get a lot out of it in the long run overall. He'll appreciate you, like you, and know that you care. So, in a nutshell, it's not disgusting when you're mature enough to understand it. Wait until you are in a great, mature relationship and you will understand it too.
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Girls usually do it because they want to please the boy. A lot of girls don't really like doing it.
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some boys use a flavored condom. and the girl could spit his cum out, ur tell him to take his thing out of her mouth when hes about to cum.
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