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I THINK HES GAY.


Question Posted Sunday May 6 2007, 4:09 am


okay so i like this boy and i seriously think he is gay.


theres nothing wrong with being gay, its just when you like the guy this much it hurts.

he asked me out the other day and I'm not sure he was serious.


his mom talks to me daily talking about how her son likes me to death and he has never acted like this with other girls. and that he says I'm the most beautiful girl he has ever seen in his life.


he is a really nice guy and i want to know more of the inside.





two of my boyfriends have turned gay on me. we are hanging out tomorrow so how do i get him to ask me out for REAL.


and i heard he has cheated on most of his girlfriends yet he acts like he never would do such a thing.

BUT I THINK HES GAY.


I'm not prepared for another heartbreak.

but i want him.

KHELP


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karenR answered Tuesday May 8 2007, 9:44 pm:
Just because you think hes gay doesn't mean he is.
There are a lot of macho gay guys out there and a lot of effeminate straight guys. So unless he comes right out and tells you hes gay, or you see him smooching on another guy, there is no honest way to tell if he is.

If he has asked you out, then he probably isn't. If he is you will find out quick enough. Regardless, go out with him anyway if you like him. Worse thing that can happen is you get a really good friend out of the deal. Not a bad thing. :)

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billybobjoe answered Sunday May 6 2007, 12:20 pm:
well just talk to him and ask him if hes serious about you. and he can be bisexual .. interested in the same sex. which is fine. i mean if he likes you...you liek hi..then date?..just talk to him and see if hes seriosu about this and also i seen you wrote that he has cheated.. well i think it might be for a reason i mean cheating is no reason .. but mybe the girls did something wrong or he didnt really liek the,.. but what i seen and see he calles you beautiful etc. i think he likes you so take the chance before it blows.

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lbwhite89 answered Sunday May 6 2007, 11:49 am:
If you think he's gay why would you want to be in a relationship with him? He's not just going to NOT be gay to be with you.

Telling is mom about you doesn't mean he's not gay. The girl below me has no idea what she's talking about. No one here can tell you if he is gay or not. Gay people can talk about people of the opposite sex just to cover up what they are really feeling.

And even if he isn't gay, you say you're not prepared for another heartbreak. If that's true, you probably shouldn't be getting into relationships at all.

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meghan2492 answered Sunday May 6 2007, 11:46 am:
I think that you will be fine , but if he has a reputaion there is a possibility he's changed or maybe if he thinks your the most beautiful girl in the world he wouldnt want to hurt you . You know what I mean? If you aren't ready don't take the chance .
If he tells his mom about you then he's definitly NOT i reapeat NOT GAY!

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god-smusgrove answered Sunday May 6 2007, 11:28 am:
if your not prepared for another heartbreak, then you shouldn't be dating.

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