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Q: ok so basically i had a schedule i was very happy with...
1st period study hall...i liked it because if i had a long night i could save homework for the morning..then i had a really cool fun ss class with my friends AND a cool teacher..
what happened was my schedule had to get changed because of health accademy..and now my ss class is changed..and the teacher! im not happy..and my 1st period study hall is gone..if i want to keep my 1st period study hall and ss class..i would have to give up lunch..what should i do?
i reeeally liked my study hall and ss class..but then again i dont want to give up lunch..what would you do?
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Well, first you should think about what is really imprtant to you. Sleep, or lunch. both you can makup, but you have to decide which is harder to work without. If it were me I would go without lunch, you could always eat when you get out of school. But don't only think in one piont of view. you get to decide, it is your life, your school, your happieness. I hope I helped, and remember, my inbox is always open. You don't have to rate, but it would be nice if you did. Thanks!
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Q: well my ex boyfriends birthday is coming up and we decided we were gonna spend the day together after school or the following day together! weve been broken up for almost 7 months now! ya i know a really long time! but through it all weve been like best of friends and we talk all the time! and weve hung out twice this summer! well he does tell me he knows we both want to be together but it wont work right now because he is dating another girl but they arent going out cause she cant have a boyfriend! and even after being broke up hes like i love u and i always will! and just last night he said he missed us! and i still really care about him! but anyways for his bday i wanna do something really cute! i was already thinking about making him a cake and decorating it all cute and getting him a card! but i was trying to think of something else special i could do to show him how much i care! any ideas? thanks so much!
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did you ask this question twice? well good luck. if you didn't get my answer the first time, tell me and I will answer again. tell me how it goes!
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Q: well my ex boyfriends birthday is coming up and we decided we were gonna spend the day together after school or the following day together! weve been broken up for almost 7 months now! ya i know a really long time! but through it all weve been like best of friends and we talk all the time! and weve hung out twice this summer! well he does tell me he knows we both want to be together but it wont work right now because he is dating another girl but they arent going out cause she cant have a boyfriend! and even after being broke up hes like i love u and i always will! and just last night he said he missed us! and i still really care about him! but anyways for his bday i wanna do something really cute! i was already thinking about making him a cake and decorating it all cute and getting him a card! but i was trying to think of something else special i could do to show him how much i care! any ideas? thanks so much!
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So, since you andd him were together, you should know a couple of things he would like. If not, you could always ask him. The reason that I am not giving you any ideas is because I do not know your (ex) boyfriend. But maybe I can give you something. Let's see, you could go to dinner with him, and just so he knows that you aren't tying to steel him away, tell him that he can invite his (girl) friend. If that wouldn't work, try a surprise party, but that might be too crouded, it all depends on what you feel he would like. I hope I helped, and remember, my inbox is always open. you don't have to rate, but it would be nice if you did. Thanks!
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Q: ok so i have acne and i've tried some stuff but its not working.. its not that bad but still i'd like for it 2 b gone.. so wat do i do?
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Wash your face at least two times a day. After you wash it, use oxy or what ever brand of alcahol pads. only put it on where the acne is. do this every day. if you don't it won't work. I hope I helped, and remember, my inbox is always open. You don't have to rate if you don't want to, but it would be nice if you did. Thanks!
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Q: ok well there is this boy, B, and B loves a girl named C. well they have been going out for about 2 weeks. and this other girl S likes the boy B. so C and S likes B. and then B found out S likes him so he started likeing both of them. and they always use MY HOUSE to hang out at! it really annoys me. well B and C dont really see each other and S and B do. but right now B is still going out with C. and B and S are always here! am i wrong? i am getting really pissed. i just dont knoe anymore, please help me, i will rate high
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you know, if you don't like them using your house tell them that they can find somwhere else to hang. they have their own problems. so don't wory about b,s,and c they will get over their problems, all you need to worry about is getting them out of your house. tell them that it bugs, and they should leave. I hope I helped and remember, my inbox is always open. You don't have to rate if you don't want to, but it would be nice if you did. Thanks!
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Q: heyy i have some ?'s about myspace.. ill rate 5's for any good answers..
how can i get listings.. such as music and movies or whatever to be like
hawthorne heights
the spill canvas
mae
motioncitysoundtrack
relient k
... and what not.. like a list instead of like
hawthorne heights the spill canvas mae motioncitysoundtrack relient k
.. and all of them listed and jumbled together like that
and how can i add pictures or xanga icons that like scroll.. thanks i really need some help.. itd really help if some1 could im me and help ill rate 5 no doubt about it! thanks xoxox
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I don't know the perfect answers since i like just got it, but if you want to add songs then you just push edit. usually you just push edit when you want to change something. It explains it.when you want to put a listing of a song, click on add list under music. then you click add song when that comes up and it will ask for the song title, song artist, and the name of the album. you don't have to put all of that, it is just so it can find it easyer. you'll understand better when you do that. I hope I helped, and remember, my inbox is always open. You don't have to rate if you don't want to, but it would be nice if you did. Thanks!
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about the blending together, it won't it seperstes the songs. make sure you do your profile. good luck! make sure to fill me in if I was wrong!
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Q: Hello. I don't really know how this works, but I am taking a crack at it. Lately, I have been reading many sites that teenage girls like me have been making about anorexia. Most often then not they are praising it, but I have found few who tell me to look away. I am about to be 15 years old in a month. Soon, I am going back to school. I weigh 204lbs. Everyone tells me I don't look overweight, but its not just the way I look. I feel heavy. I feel sick and digusted, but I when I read these websites I get inspired to lose weight. Though, never to such an extreme as to starving myself. Are there any diets or tips out there that can help me? I'm feeling really inadequate.
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You should excercise more. I like to find a park that has a trail that goea all the way around it. and try to go there every night. Each night you make it harder. Like Each night I go around one more time than I did the last. then you need to watch what you eat. I didn't say don't eat, I mean "watch" what you eat. Less starch.(noodles, bread, ect.) you get the piont! Some food tips, when you feel like having a snack, have an apple or bannan. Fruit is a lot better for you then candy and sweets. Make sure your meals arn't one thing. So try to get a little bit of each food group. Milk is good too! I think you have the idea. I hope I helped, and remember, my inbox is always open. You don't have to rate if you don't want to, but it would be nice if you did. Thanks!
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When you exercise, or whatever you do to get healthyer, do it every night. If you don't do it regularly, it won't work. It doesn't necicarily have to be every night but it would work better. Good luck, and tell me how it goes!
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Q: I figured it out its you deathwillcome. Its not that Im protected its that we have no time to see you and my mom is busy all the time
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How am I doing? Horible! How about you? Hay, why do you think it was me? I don't even know what you are talking about? How is your advice column going?E-mail me!
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Q: first of all i am sorry if this is long. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year and i love him with all my heart. But recently i get a call out of nowhere from this guy that i had a huge crush on when we were younger (i moved away so thats why nothing ever happened between us). So he calls and asks if i wanna hang out with him one day... so i did. Ok i havent seen this kid for about 11 years but when we spent the day together i dont know what happened but i really started to like him again (and i know he likes me he always has). Him and my boyfriend are two completely different people i find that when im with both of them i myself am two different people but i kinda like who i am better with the other guy. So i did the smart thing and the next day i told my bf about my feelings for this other guy and of course he was heartbroken and we broke up... for about an hour... then we got back together. Only the thing is the only reason i took him back was cuz i saw how hurt he was and i felt bad for him. I do really still love him but i dont know if i really wanna continue this relationship but i don't want to hurt him anymore...How do i do it?
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Don't stay with him out of pitty. If you love/like the other person better, go with him, but you aren't going to be able to tell your boyfriend without hurting his feelings. That is just how it works. But tell him that you can still be friends and he can always talk to you about his probs. It would have probably been better if you hadn't gotten back with him, but now that it is done, you need to make a decision. Do you love him or the other boy? You pick, I can't pick for you. All you need to know, is that whatever you pick, you will have to live with the rest of your life. Don't just pick someone. Pick the person that you care about the most, and who cares about you the most. You don't want to look back in two or tree years, and wish that you picked someone else. I hope I helped, and remember, my inbox is always open. You don't have to rate if you don't want to, But it would be nice if you did. Thanks!
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Q: hi. my dad is a ass hole. he yells at me and i can never do any thing right. how can i tell him that i do not want to work with him.
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Wow! You and I both! My "Step-dad" is an asswhole, there hasn't been one day that I wasn't in trouble. Well all I can say is, talk to him. I mean don't walk up to him and say "I don't really like how you treat me, I'm just not going to listen to you anymore." That will just piss him off. I think you should tell him how you feel, and ask him if you can meat half way. Like you try more, and he try not to get as mad as often. I hope I helped and remember, my ibox is always open. You don't have to rate if you don't want to, but it would be nice if you did. Thanks!
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Q: Hello. Well, when I make presentations at school or read a paper to the class, I always get nervous. I can't help it. I've tried everything: looking at the wall, looking at the people's noses, practicing a million times the night before, etc. My question is, are there any pills that help with that, or help with nervousness? If there are, are they expensive and do they actually really work? Please help soon because school is coming up. Thank you.
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Getting nervouse is normal, it is not something that you should take pills over. I am pritty sure that a lot of people would agree with me. I mean, nervousness is a complicated thing, but it isn't bad. All you need to do is get over it. So be nervous, who cares. I'm nervous too. Just be nervous, and read those speaches. I hope I helped, and remember, my inbox is always open. You don't have to rate if you don't want to, but it would be nice if you did. Thanks!
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Q: wherever i go, i call my boyfriend before i go and tell him or he makes me feel bad
whatever i do, i call my boyfriend and tell him before i do it or he makes me feel bad
when we fight, i am given all the blame
if i want to hang out with friends, i can, but he makes me feel bad
if he is stressed out, i am feeling bad because hes telling me what i try is not enough and i should always put him before me
hes needy, and he knows it!
if im happy spending time away from him and im w/ friends, he feels bad and makes me feel bad
but he says nothings ever his fault, he cant help it if he feels bad
i am the one who has to do EVERYTHING!, because he used to do things for me in the beginning of our relaitonship but now if i dont do it, he makes me feel bad.
im always made to feel bad.
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Don't let him do this to you! Poeple like that take advantige of the golden hearts. Leave him emediately. If he threatens you, it isn't true. But if he even gets close to hurting you, tell someone so you can get help. Those people are week, so they find a person that wants to help and destroy them, don't let him destroy you! I hope I helped, and remember,my inbox is always open. You don't have to rate if you don't want to, but it would be nice if you did. Thanks!
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Q: its hard to say that my golden years are gone and i have to help my family do stuff witch i dont care about that but when something happens to me i cant tell my mom what im feeling because my mom would tell the world so i want to depend on my friends but im ganna move because im ganna loose the house well not me but my parents i cant do anything to help but i cant fall on anyone to help me and my only cloose cloose friend is kayliegh and she likes my 17 year old brother but has never mate him or said 1 word to him so thats the problem i dont know if shes just useing me to get close to scott im not sure i dont know if i can fall on her without getting hurt.im a 13 year old girl and im interrested to boys not girls
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It is really hard to figure out if a person is using you, and it just seams easyer to assume that they aren't. You could ask her, but of coarse she would say that she wasn't. So have a friend of her's ask her if she is then have them tell you. She shouldn't realize that you know, all you have to do is ignore her if she is. Don't tell her that you know or you will get her friend in trouble, and that would be using. I hope I helped, and remember, my inbox is always open. You don't have to rate if you don't want to, but it would be nice if you did. Thanks!
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Q: one of best friends was in a fight with my other best friend and then now that there friends shes all with her now.. thats fucked up.. i wanna stay her friend and i dk how to say anything without getting the other friend mad and then end up wit no friends instead of one and then one fake one.. at least fake at the moment.. help.
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It sounds like you are having a "two's a company" problem. I think that you should talk to the so called "fake" friend, and become "real" friends. You really couldn't be friends with one and not the other one, it would really bug both of them, and make it really hard for the one in the middle. So, become friends with both of them, and try hanging out with them. There is one thing that you need to understand, there will most likely be a fight very often. That is how friendshopp works. I oght to know, I have had many fights with many friends, in afct I am in one right know. I hope I helped, and remember, my inbox is always open. YOu don't have to rate if you don't want to, but it would be nice if you did. Thanks!
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Q: What if you love someone but there is an old friend that loves you, and you don't know how to tell your old friend that with out hurting her. Can you help?
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Well, your friend should be able to understand. If you love someone else you should go for it, your friend may love you, but that doesn't mean that you have to love them back. There really isn't a nice way to say it. All you need to do is tell them that it would just not work. They may hold on, but that isn't bad. Let them hold on to that feeling, and maybe some day it will come to use. Let her know that even though you love somone else, you can still be friends and will still be there for her. I hope I helped, and remember, my inbox is always open. You don't have to rate if you don't want to, but it would be nice. Thanks!
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Q: sorry this is going to be long... but i really need help!! me and this guy (we'll call him chris) have been "together" i guess you could say for about 3 months.... well last night i found out my best friend broke a truce we made a while ago... we both said we'd never smoke weed, and she did all bc she got a new bf...well i told chris about it and he ended up talkin to her online... she told him i took 6 sleeping pills earlier... (which i told her, bc i wanted her to know how i felt) (i really only took 1 tho bc i havnt slept in 4 days... im an insomniac) well chris got really upset and yelled at me about how stupid it was... (he asked about the pills and i told him 6 bc i didnt want him to tell her otherwise) so he screamed at me for bein so stupid.. and he hung up, then he told his mom about it. so now i dont think his momll let us see each otehr again... but also i dont think he wants to talk to me... i told him the truth about me only taking one pill...and he was upset hes like well why didnt you tell me before... and i was like bc i knew you would tell her and i want her to understand the way i feel... ive already apoligized to him about makin him freak out over nothing... and now he wont talk to me, so i need help, likeon what to do... what to tell him.. please help.
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That probably just turned Chris off! Maybe you should talk to his mom, and tell her what happened. Since she is his mom, you can ask her if she will give you another chance and then ask if she will talk to him. I know that it isn't always good to talk to the parent, because it is awkward. But right now, if he won't talk to you, it is the only way to get him, unless you talk to his friends. Tell them only what you want them to know. Don't tell them too much, in case he doesn't want them to know. Ask them if they will talk to him. It might be easyer to get the friend that is closest to you to talk to him.You also could always try going to his house and talking to him. take him some flowers and say that you're sorry. But don't get too desprate, you don't want to bug him to death, if it were me, I would only do one thing that I sugested. In a way the most affective would be the leaving him alone, and letting him get over it. He might come back. I have an idea. Try leaving him alone for like a week, then tell me if it works, fi ti doesn't then I will tell you what to do by you telling me what his reaction was. To tell me, just E-mail me, you can find my E-mail in my advice column. Don't leave me hanging, or I will worry about you too much. So tell me how well leaving him alone works after the first week. I will tell you where to go frome there. I hope I helped, and remember, my inbox is always open. you don't have to rate fi you don't want to, but itwould be nice if you did. Thanks!
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Q: Okay here is the scoop. I have a friend "Tory" who is pregnant. She didn't tell me her aunt did because her grandma kicked her out when she found out that "Tory" was pregnant. Her aunt wants me to talk to her but I can't bring it up until she tells me. But then again I don't think she wants to tell me because It is like a competition thing between us in her eyes, she always compares things. But I don't look at our friendship like that. But anyways when she tells me what can I say to make her feel like I will be there for her, which I will but I still don't know what to say Please HELP
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Tell her just what you told us. In a matter of speaking, tell her that it isn't a compitition to you, and you just want to be there for her. Try to bring it up without telling her that you know, so that you can get her to realize that earlyer. YOu can do that by like asking her when she thinks she will want children, or ask her how many kids she wants to have when she grows up. She shouldn't be able to stand not telling you because if it is a compotition, she will want to rub it in your face that she is more "mature" than you, or something like that. She can't talk herself into not telling you for much longer anyway. I hope I helped, and remember, my inbox is always open. You don't have rate if you don't want to, but it would be nice if you did. Thanks!
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Q: well I've got msn and I'm always on the internet but my contacs are never on and I'm always looking for someone to chat to how can I make more friends on the internet
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Well you just did. I have msn. You and I can talk. I guess this is kinda weird. Sorry! Well, you can go to my advice column and get my E-mail. I'll be waithing!
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Q: well my boyfriend tells me im beautiful. its cute/sweet i know. but what should i say after? like can i say thanks? or something cute and unexpected. gimme ideas thnx //♥
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After he sais that, you should say something like, "Ya, well you are too." Or if he isn't that kind of boy, And if you are reallly close to him you could say something like, "Thank you so much! I love you so much!" Since I don't know him, I don't what I would say. But those should work. I hope I helped, and remember, my inbox is always open. you don't have to rate if you don't have to, it would be nice. Thanks!
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Q: sorry if this gets long, but i really need some advice on my underarms, i have been shaving since like 5th grade, and everytime i shave my underarms it still looks unshaved, and the skin gets really irritated and the skin doesnt look so good either, and it never really looks shaved, what can i do to make them look better and shave them so that they look awsome, i am really emberresed because of this, thanks in advance!!
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Okay, if this isn't good enough for you, you can tell me some more info about it in my inbox and I will give you some more info. Here it goes.
First it might be what you use to shave with. I use soap, and do it while I'm in the shower.
It also might be what you shave with. Some razors don't work as well as others. (I use Gillette. They are blue, and pritty cheep.)
It also might be the color of your hair. black hair seems to show more. because, when you shave, you don't get rid of the hair. You just cut it off.
I hope that helped, and remember, my inbox is always open. you don't have to rate if you don't want to, but it would be nice if you did. Thanks!
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Ok, so I haven't been on in a while and I'm just starting to get back to where I can give advice again. I had a rough spot there and I just couldn't give advice without seeming rude, so I decided to take a break. My real name is Shannon and I live in Utah. I am 15 and I love animals and friends. I love to act and know a bit about those kinds of things. I would love to help you out and hope that I can. But there is one thing, you have to ask a question for me to answer! Just kidding. Hope you have a great day!
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Salt Lake City Utah Occupation: school (student) Age: 17 Member Since: July 3, 2005 Answers: 304 Last Update: August 22, 2010 Visitors: 27012
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