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one of best friends was in a fight with my other best friend and then now that there friends shes all with her now.. thats fucked up.. i wanna stay her friend and i dk how to say anything without getting the other friend mad and then end up wit no friends instead of one and then one fake one.. at least fake at the moment.. help.
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It sounds like you are having a "two's a company" problem. I think that you should talk to the so called "fake" friend, and become "real" friends. You really couldn't be friends with one and not the other one, it would really bug both of them, and make it really hard for the one in the middle. So, become friends with both of them, and try hanging out with them. There is one thing that you need to understand, there will most likely be a fight very often. That is how friendshopp works. I oght to know, I have had many fights with many friends, in afct I am in one right know. I hope I helped, and remember, my inbox is always open. YOu don't have to rate if you don't want to, but it would be nice if you did. Thanks!
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It sounds to me as if your friends are very immature and were probably just using you as a "substitute" friend until they made up with eachother and now that they have, they don't seem to need you anymore. I have felt that way before and my experience with people like that is they are not good friends anyways. In your post you called her your "best friend". Just because you do a lot together doesn't mean she is the best friend you can find because someone that blows you off for another friend doesn't sound so great to me. Think about whether or not this friendship is something worth beating yourself up about. Oh, and don't get caught up in all the immaturity. I hope this helps!
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if i were you i would see if that one friend would beable to hangout for a day then you could see if the other friend wanted to hang out another day so you wont lose a friend or you could see if you could hang out with them one day
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