Hi everyone... I've got a Psychology degree so I like to think that i know a bit about how people think and why they do the things they do- maybe i don't know a thing, make up your own minds! Also i work with a youth group of girls aged 10-14 so that helps too! Anyway ask me anything no problem too big or too small and I'll do my best...
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ok i am a freshman in high school i have had sex once about 2 years ago its a long story so please dont call me a slut and no its not because i cant get any more ... so dont be rude about it please.
on anyways and soon after that i started my period and i have clear discharge every now and again and i was wondering if any one knows if thats from the sex maybe the guy had an std or from the period/tampon / w/e thing please help
~lexy~
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Its probably due to your period starting- its perfectly normal. However if the sex was unprotected and you're still worried it might be a good idea to have an STD test. But i doubt theres anything wrong at all!
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20, male.
Okay, the girl I'm going out with and I are sitting watching TV. We've only been dating for a few days, but I've been her friend since before elementary school. She mentions a mutual friend was talking about a movie that we passed. So I, the idiot that I am, accidently call her by the friend's name. She pulled away from me for a few seconds, and then went into my arms again.
I explained that it was only because she mentioned her name seconds before, but is that enough? Should I try to explain in detail that I have no feelings for this other girl or should I drop it? (link)
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Don't worry about it- she doens't sound like she was bothered very much as she didn't say anything. Only explain what happened to her if she brings it up.
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well i havnt been on my period in like a month mostly more then a month..ive already skipped once i havnt did nething..soo what could be wrong how many times can you skip your period please i need some advice (link)
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Don't worry it's perfectly normal this used to happen to me and has happened to most females i know! There probably isnt anything wrong at all! if you're worried go to the doc but seriously it'll be ok! Hope this helps
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As a seventeen year old female who is oober tired of stupid highschool guys and would like to move on to more mature ones... how old is too old for me? (link)
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I'd say anything over 21 is far too old but it does totally depend on you and the guy- if you're quite mature then you may be able to handle a relationship with someone who is 20 or 21. You'd have to be sure he was interested in you as a person rather than seeing you as a kid he can use to his advantage if you get what i mean (without trying to be rude!!). Just be sensible and use your head
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okay, i have love handles. i know what they are, but are they good or bad and what are they for? (link)
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This is pretty crude but basically they're called love handles because blokes hold onto them when they're having sex with a girl. Most people have them and i've heard that guys quite like them as it gives them something to hold onto!! hope that clears it up for you
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is it wrong to lose your virginity at 14? whats so wrong about it and will it hurt? im scared to do it cuz i think it will hurt but i really really want to...so will it hurt for my first time?? (link)
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You should really wait until you find the right person so you can talk these worries over with them first. Don't just have sex for the sake of it! you'll regret it! The first time a female has sex it may hurt slightly but not lots so don't worry about that- hope this helps.
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Lets assume you are seventeen, and youve been going out with your boyfriend for a while, who has been your best friend for 4 years. And you know you are ready and its the right thing to lose your virginity to him. You are completely prepared and use protection (both condom and birth control.) Do you think although you're ready, seventeen is still too young to have sex? (link)
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It totally depends on the individual. The fact that you need advice as to whether it is too young or not tells me that maybe you're not completely ready. You'll know when the time is right!
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okay there's this new boy in my town and one of my friends like him but she don't come to the same school as me and he's really cute. what should i do, should i go up to himand.... but i don't want to hurt my closet friend please help me!!!! (link)
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Boys come and go but friends are with you forever! you should really respect your friend and keep away from this boy. It's hard but believe me it'll be better than possibly losing your best mate!!
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Ok sorry if this is long, but you need to know everything......... there is this guy at my church named Adam and he and i have fallen in love. The funny thing is, back when we were in middle school/ high school, i first met his parents and they loved me. Sounds good right? So anyway, then he met mine and lets just say they didnt mave the same reaction to him as his did for me. After that we drifted. Diff. Collages ect.... Well now we have met again, and we found that we still love eachother. Now my dad wants to meet this amazing guy that i love, and i dont know if i should because of what happened last time. I really dont want any of that "well if your truely in love your father shouldnt care" because my dad is not like that. Once he makes up his mind even 7 years later, he still stiks to his word. WHAT SHOULD I DO??????????? any help is appriciated.
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How about telling your dad exactly how it is? just explain to him that you understand that he might not be keen on the guy still but that you'd like to give it another go and this guy makes you really happy? could you suggest that they meet again? It sounds like you two are meant to be together if your paths have crossed twice now!
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i know this is a crazy question...should you curl your eye lashes before or after putting on mascara? (link)
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Before! ;)
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Hey guys and gals, i was wondering if someone would be considered anorexic if they only ate once a day, or even nothing all day and maybe once the next?
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Yeah that sounds worryingly like anorexia to me! that person really needs to see a specialist who can help them.
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i have a very high self esteem like i feel really good about the way i look because i know no1s perfect but sometimes i get really hurt when this guy at my school lets call him james makes fun of my ears because they stick out a little i know i shouldnt let him bother me bcuz im proud of who i am but he makes me feel so ugly because he can say some really mean stuff and im not the kind of person who will defend myself because im a very quiet girl because of my family backrounds can anyone tell me what to do about this situation (link)
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Does he know he gets to you? if he does just completely ignore him when he's being an arse hole, and he'll soon get bored. I bet he's only doing it so that he gets a reaction and sad people get kicks out of that. Good luck
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ok well on friday there is this dance at columbus(an all guys school) and my friend told me about it and told me to go w/ her and her b/f who goes to the school. i can't take my b/f because guys that don't go to the school aren't allowed to go. i want to go to the party though because i've been dying to go to one lately but i know that if i tell my b/f i'm going w/o him he'll get PISSED since its an all guys school and i'm going by myself bcuz he's really overprotective. what should i do??
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Just tell him exactly what you've said above! say that you really want to go and you understand that he's overprotective. Say that you would never cheat on him if he's worried about it. Just be honest. But if he still says he doesn't want you to go you probably should respect his feelings- would you be ok about it if he went to an all girls party on his own? good luck!
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I dont have enough friends in school. how do I make more? (link)
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Start small and work upwards- basically jsut start smiling at a few more people, maybe then they'll start smiling back, you'll get into a conversation and voila! you have a few more friends. Also maybe join a few clubs and then you'll meet people with similar interests to you. Just remember to always have a positive attitude- it'll work a treat!
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Hey! I straighten my hair alot, but my straightner takes at least an hour for me to straighten my hair (and it still does barely anything) does anyone know of a certain brand or type of straightner that will straighten my hair quickly, and make give it that straight glossy look? without frying my hair? tHANKS A BUNCH! (link)
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remington wet 2 straight! they're fab!
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ok me and my boyfriend hve been together a while. and we hve done most everything but, sex. alot of my friends hve already had sex. i know some people might say im too young but me and my boyfriend love each other and i know we are both physically and emotionally ready. well he comes over often but everytime im on my period [ kinda wierd? ] but we both hve tlked about this.. and sometimes i want to and others im jus like idk.. but i think i am ready but im so scared i might get pregnant but most people i know of hve had sex and used a condom and hve not got pregnant. seriously what are the chances. do you think im ready? and how would i let him know while we are together that i want to..? PLEASE DONT SAY IM NASTY OR NETHING IM REALLY NOT! please answer asap (link)
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Hey it's really great that you and your boyfriend are talking about this sort of stuff. Maybe also tell him that you're worried about getting pregnant? problem shared is a problem halved and all that! Its not very likely that you'll get pregnant if you use a condom just make sure you use them properly- and if you do notice that it has split get down to the chemist and get the morning after pill. This is unlikely to happen but just in case atleast you know you have a back up plan. Have you thought that maybe because you're so worried you're not quite ready for this? Just a thought. good luck
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well ok.. my crotch area has been really itchy during these past few days and i'm too embaressed to ask anybody why so please don't make fun of me. anyway, that area has been itchy for a while and now it stings. i wash down there so i don't know why this is happening. if anybody could please tell me why i'm going through this and if its normal and how i can cure it. thank you (link)
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It probably is the shower gel that you're using- my gynaecologist told me you shouldnt really wash "that part" of you with anything except water because it is very sensitive to products with chemicals and stuff. I know it sounds disgusting but seriously try it for a couple of weeks! if the situation does not get any better go to the doc and explain your prob and that you have not been using any products and then they'll take you more seriously cos otherwise they'll just send you away and tell you that thats the problem!! good luck
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I have been having sever pain around my bladder and that area. I know I have a cyst on both of my overies, and they could be getting bigger. I am scared to go to the doctor, because I don't like getting invaded. Should I go no matter what? (link)
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You definitely should go to the doctor. It'll be definitely worth it because it'll either put your mind at rest or sort the problem out and both of those are good things! Let the doctor know that you dont like being examined and hopefully he'll keep this in mind and be extra kind to you. Hope this is helpful
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My best friend in the entire world is going out with a guy that I liked..At one point in time I liked him and he liked me..but I never went out with him because my best friend liked him.. I dont know whether or not I should tell her this because, well they look really cute together, but the thing is, is that I think I still like him..
Clueless here..I dont know what to do..
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Don't worry just stay as you are- if its meant to be it will happen- im a strong believer in fate. Anyway if you say something to her you'll probably fall out and you dont want that do you? Also he did like you at some stage and who's to say he doesn't like you anymore? and if he does it wont be long before they split up! good luck
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