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there really isn't much you can say to shock me. i've seen and heard a lot, so if you need help, don't be afraid to ask anything. i'm amazing at answering anything to do with sex.. so ask away =)oh and yes.. that is ME in the picture. it's my halloween costume: a mile high captain!
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what are the signs of being pregnate i need this advice well give me all the signs you can think of and can you be pregnate if you are a virgin.
and can you still have your period.
please help
okay, even if you are a virgin, there is the teeeeensiest chance you can get pregnant.
such as; if you get fingered by someone that has ejaculate on their finger. but this is a really slim chance.
does vitiman e really make your hair grow faster? And if it does what food are high in vitiman e?
heat makes your hair grow faster.
i'm not saying go hold a blowdryer up to your head, though. i'm just saying the heat from the weather and stuff makes it grow faster.
ok, well i recently just took a vacation to a beach about 20 hours away. On the last day I found a guy who I REALLY like, and I know he liked me. We hung out until about 1-2 in the morning then I had to go back to my hotel room. The morning after I left without seeing him at all. Now here I am at home and I can't stop thinking about him. Anything I say His name is in my sentace. Are there any ways to get off my mind? I can't go back to the beach because, well, I'm only 14, and he's only 14, so we both can't drive.
sorry; you should move on and find another guy.
it's most likely not the kind of answer you wanted to hear; but it's the kind of advice you need. if it's meant to be; it'll work itself out.
how long does your hair need to be to start flipping out and does evryones hair flip out when iit gets long or stay straight?
my hair is about shoulder length; and because it rests on my shoulders it usually curls up at the ends. i can't understand by your post if you're wanting it to flip-out or not.
ok well lately i have been trying to loose weight and i try to eat less. i exersice more than i used to. and ever since i have been eating less i have gotten less hungry at all meals and hours of the day. i dont know if thats a sign of anorexia but its sorta scaring me. my mom trys to help but i tell her i'm fine and i dont need anything. i am also getting sick more often..? my mom knows i'm going on a diet but every time she mentions it i tell her i'm not. everyones worried about me but i'm fine and i wanna loose the weight. what do i do?
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okay. you're anorexic if you're intentionally starving yourself. yes; TRYING to starve yourself. are you doing that? i can't exactly tell by your post. but anyways; eating disorders are very serious.. i would know; i have them. if you're trying to loose weight; that's great. but do it in a healthy way. try getting a nutritionist. or just see your doctor for a healthy diet. because nutritionist can be sort of expensive. you're probably depriving your body of nutrients you need.. hence you getting sick. you may be anemic; which means low red or white blood cell count.. in your case.. white blood cell count. this means your immune system isn't as strong as it should be.. so go to your doctor and ask for a bloodtest. even though he'll probably recommend one.
what are some good websites you can go on if you're REALLLLLY bored? thanks
bored.com
myspace.com
livejournal.com
funnyjunk.com
gurl.com
13/f ok im not fat but my gut sticks out more than the rest of my stomach and chest. I just want to kno if there are any good excercises to make my gut smaller. ive tried a lot of things but they havent worked...plz help. i rate high!
try doing some sit-ups.. but remember that it takes about 3 weeks to start seeing an actual difference (as with all excercises).. so don't get discouraged when you don't get immediate results.
i have STICK STRAIGHT hair no matter what i do to it. how can i give it some wave without curlers or a curling iron cause i dont have much time in the morning
i do too. uhmm.. what you can do; is when you get out of the shower; towel dry your hair and just leave it alone for a little bit.. then you can put some mousse in it to give it some body. if you want, you can just leave it that way.. or you can blowdry it so it won't be so crunchy. you can also try paul mitchell's root lifting spray.. it works wonders.. without much work required.
hehe this is pretty weird, But my dude, he always does all the work most of the time so I kinda feel bad & owe him a lot (sexually) Any suggestions on pleasing him to the max?
haha. i was in your situation like.. a week ago. honestly. i felt bad because i thought i couldn't give him anything back. but then i got some courage.. and tried some new things with him. try giving him oral. or just ask him what he wants.. if he says he doesn't need anything.. then take it into your own hands and find out what he wants by exploring with new things.
well i got with my boy friend (bf) and he asked me to go to the skating rink and so i goum...well i will ahve to see and so my cousins came that day and so i couldnt go and i tryd callin ghim and he just didnt answer and so i asked him to hang out go to a movie and call me casue i never talk and i keep ask him y and he makes up all these excuses maybe a boy could help me out on this one but i dn i juist need help should i break up with him or know????
i really like him (love) but he is nice but he never wants to do anything i no that sounds really rong but !
ask him why he's blowing you off. if he doesn't have a good reason, then you might have to break up with him. he doesn't sound too nice, if he would ignore you.
well there is this guy i like and he has a girlfriend he knows i like him and i have liked him going on 3 years but he keeps getting girlfriends he promised me we would go to this amusement park in our city and then when we planned to go with my best friend he said he wouldnt go unless another guy went with us and so he went and spent the night at a guys house and the worst thing about that night was it was my birthday, what should i say to him and how can i tell if he likes me back??
i will rate high!!
if he keeps dating other girls; he's just leading you on.. and keeping you there for backup. talk to him and tell him how you feel about this.. and move on if he won't date you.
okay i have this boyfriend & we have been going out for a long time. People have been trying to break us up but untill now it has never worked. My friend told me that my boyfriend wanted to break up with me, some people agree with her, few people agree with me. i LOVE my boyfriend & i never wanted anything to come between us. Now I dont know what to do.
Please help me. :(
talk to him; not your friends.
if he is going to break up with you; he's a loser for telling everybody else, but you.
if your friend says this and he doesn't..
ask her why she would say that if it was a lie.
if she was just jealous.. or being a bitch;
ditch her.
There is this boy that I have knowen since I was in 6th grade(im a sophomore now). And I have always really liked him I think.Well in 8th grade our feelings I guess you could say started to grow stronger. But neither of us ever did anything about it. Well I had moved like 1000 miles away that the summer after 8th grade. One day I was online, and he decided to let me know his true feelings. at that point i was speechless. Well we kindof went on not talking until I met this other boy who lived in the same state, and a couple months into talking to this boy my friend decided to get on my s/n and tell the boy i used to like first that i loved him and all of this. Well i couldnt take it back, so he decided to tell me all this stuff and how he felt, and how we could hook up this summer.Well i totally shot him down for the other boy who i thought was perfect. That summer I ended up seeing the boy I used to like, and completly fell in love w/ him again! When I got back to my home, i totally told him how i felt but he told me he didnt want to be in a "long distance" relationship.I keep going into denial even though he tells me he likes me and I dont know what to think of this, b/c i like him so much. and It hurts to see him likeing other girls, i dont know what i should say or do....
first of all; this doesn't seem like such a good friend that would put you in this sort of situation!! and; if this boy doesn't want a long distance relationship and won't try to make it work; then you shouldn't continue to go after him. why should you try to make it work with him if he's unwilling. that's a waste of time.. and i know it'll hurt getting over him; but if you like the boy in your state; i say get to know him better! in time you'll be over your old crush. also; you might want to avoid seeing the old boy.
I HAVE A QUESTION! OH MYYY...
Well....
you see..
There is this girl I am in love with. And i'd pretty much die for..and then there is this OTHER girl who I used to care for that much yet she's still there..and ... when I liked that girl she told me we were..just..."friends" well..this makes no sense. If she likes me now..I shouldnt feel bad or anything. I just feel at a crossroad. This one girl is like...my entire life..I'm still here for her after everything...yet..the other has always been there..well..sometimes.
Oh and she likes cucumbers....
and uh..the other one is the most beautiful thing on earth..
Should I take a chance with the one I love?
i think that the other girl will be there for you no matter what; but she probably just doesn't want you to get hurt! she likes cucumbers? THATS COOL. i like them on my cold cut trios; but anyways; like i was saying.. this girl you find beautiful; is psychotic. she may have major mental issues you need to beware of.
you say you USED to care for this girl? why the sudden change of heart? has she upset you in any way, shape, or form? think about what would cause you to fall away from her. then you should tell her.
with le; i mean.. this other girl; uhm i think that you should ask her opinion about you. then you should base your decision upon that. i found that she gets mad when she doesn't have your attention all the time.. you may [possibly] be her 'back-up plan'. she would love to keep you there forever and ever.. until the day comes where you get to be useful again. please rate my answer. :)
I was over at my friend's house today and we started fooling around and I gave him and handjob and he asked me to give him head. After a while i did but it only lasted a few seconds before he told me he was about to cum. He did so I guess he liked it but I started to worry because it didn't last long so I didn't get to do much. I'm afraid I didn't do well and he won't want to do it again. He kept touching me and stuff the rest of the day but..I dunno. advice?
if he did cum; then you obviously did okay.
i always hear the term "pop your cherry"! Whats the cherry - i know it has somethign to do with a vagina-, and how do u 'pop' it. it kinda scares me and grosses me out if i think about something on your vagina popping and blood coming out. okay well i use tampons so how do i know if my cherry is popped and whatnot. thanks.
as all the other girls have said; it's a thin layer of tissue called your hymen. but; as one of the girls said; you DO NOT 'pop your cherry' when you use a tampon. the hymen can stretch around a tampon without tearing. if you use tampons; look at the diagram that comes in the package. it gives you a diagram of your vagina; and where things are located and such. if you're still lost about this, then go here:
http://www.coolnurse.com/hymen.htm
Ok so Im a 14/f. I've had 2 boyfriends. I didnt do anything with either one except i like cuddled and held hands with one of them. I know its not a big deal, and I feel like im being left out, yet its my fault. My first ex is really into like hooking up and stuff. Even though we're not together, he wants to makeout with me like all the time. I think I still like him, and Im going to be hanging out with him and some other guy friends in a few days. The problem is that im too scared to makeout but at the same time, im not. I want to, im just scared that I wont be good at it. And i know im going to have a hard time getting myself to actually go through with it. Is there any way I can signal to him that I just want to kiss him, and not makeout? Without actually speaking the words to him? Thanks everyone, sorry its long.
well sweetie; if you're not comfortable doing it; then talk about it with the boy. make sure he knows that you're not interested in that yet.
it'll help him know you just want regular kisses, so he doesn't try and stick his tounge in your mouth!
if you'd like some tips & stuff on french kissing: first of all; it's not as hard as it looks!! here's a website that has a few pointers & the basics.. but you should try and find your own kissing style; and you'll get better at it, i promise!
http://www.theromantic.com/kissing/frenchkiss.htm
I have an OBGYN appointment next Monday @ 3 o' clock and I was just wondering what all they do because my mom told me that at first they were just going to talk to me and I wouldn't have to have a pap smear but now that she knows about me losing my virginity to my boyfriend *that I am still with* she told me that now I would have to have a pap smear...is this true? Does it hurt? I just want to know everything about it before I go. I rate HIGH for good answers, please no foolish things like look it up unless you have a really good website. Thanks in advance!
http://familydoctor.org/138.xml
that should explain everything.
it even has a little diagram.
i am a 14/f and i am the oldest from my sisters. well my parents are Over protective like the other day i went outside to take a walk with my sister and my mom made my dad come after uis. but anyways i have a boyfriend (Which i am not supposed to have) he is 15 and i like him a lot. but i need to get a way so that i can get out of the house and spend sometime with him with my parents bein able to trust me.. they always think i am up to something bad and they think my boyfriend is only a friend of mine. he lives about a 15 minute drive away from me and i want meet up with him how can? and if i get my friend to go to the mall i dont want her to be left behind because he will be with me and if he brings a friend my friend wont like him because she only likes italians... so yea i really some help. please.
well; going behind your parents back isn't going to make them trust you more. so you might as well have him over to the house a couple of times; and wait until your parents really like him. then you should tell them that you have feelings for this boy. but going behind your parents back and lying about who you'll be with won't make them trust you more or like the boy.
So, about a year ago. I stole a little make up bag from a store. And ever since then i keep stealing more and more. && i cant help it. It's gotten worse ive stolen hundreds of dollars of makeup and hundreds more of clothes, you name it, i've stole it. When i see somethign, i dont feel like i ened money to buy it, because its so easy. One time i almost got caught, but i was lucky and got away with out gettin introuble. I thought for sure this stopped me. But then i stole something the next day. THen after that, i was in a wheel chair for being hurt while playin soccer. And that was 5 weeks that i havent stole when i was at the mall or ne store for that matter. (wasnt physically possible) well i was happy with myself. And today i went to the mall w/o crutches or a wheel chair for the first time in 5-6 weeks. Andi was all happy cuz i hadnt stolen nething, and i didnt steal ne clotehs. but then, i stole a neclace. I dont know what to do. :-/ HELP PLEASE?
if you think it would make you feel better; you can try returning the stuff back to the stores. they would most likely be grateful to have their stuff back, because that makes them loose money. whatever gets stolen; they pay for. it's not right to steal from other people. you should try and get a job (if you are of age) and get things with your hard-earned money. you'll appreciate the things you buy more. as for you stopping; go shopping with a friend that you could never let know that you like to steal.