There is this boy that I have knowen since I was in 6th grade(im a sophomore now). And I have always really liked him I think.Well in 8th grade our feelings I guess you could say started to grow stronger. But neither of us ever did anything about it. Well I had moved like 1000 miles away that the summer after 8th grade. One day I was online, and he decided to let me know his true feelings. at that point i was speechless. Well we kindof went on not talking until I met this other boy who lived in the same state, and a couple months into talking to this boy my friend decided to get on my s/n and tell the boy i used to like first that i loved him and all of this. Well i couldnt take it back, so he decided to tell me all this stuff and how he felt, and how we could hook up this summer.Well i totally shot him down for the other boy who i thought was perfect. That summer I ended up seeing the boy I used to like, and completly fell in love w/ him again! When I got back to my home, i totally told him how i felt but he told me he didnt want to be in a "long distance" relationship.I keep going into denial even though he tells me he likes me and I dont know what to think of this, b/c i like him so much. and It hurts to see him likeing other girls, i dont know what i should say or do....
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? cheddar answered Thursday July 21 2005, 1:26 am: first of all; this doesn't seem like such a good friend that would put you in this sort of situation!! and; if this boy doesn't want a long distance relationship and won't try to make it work; then you shouldn't continue to go after him. why should you try to make it work with him if he's unwilling. that's a waste of time.. and i know it'll hurt getting over him; but if you like the boy in your state; i say get to know him better! in time you'll be over your old crush. also; you might want to avoid seeing the old boy. [ cheddar's advice column | Ask cheddar A Question ]
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