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ok, well i recently just took a vacation to a beach about 20 hours away. On the last day I found a guy who I REALLY like, and I know he liked me. We hung out until about 1-2 in the morning then I had to go back to my hotel room. The morning after I left without seeing him at all. Now here I am at home and I can't stop thinking about him. Anything I say His name is in my sentace. Are there any ways to get off my mind? I can't go back to the beach because, well, I'm only 14, and he's only 14, so we both can't drive.
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It's really sweet when you are so young and you fall for a guy. But unfortunately, when you meet a guy away from home, so far away from home in your situation, then it's hard to have anything with him. He was probably a great guy and everything, but things probably couldn't have worked out with you being so far away. You're 14, still very, very young. I'm sure there are just as great guys in your town, just get out there and get to know them. =] He'll always be a memory of yours, so don't totally forget him. But also, you can't waste alot of your time thinking about someone you can't see anymore. =] I know it'll be hard, but you'll get through. Good Luck!
<3 -- *Ashley*
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Just whenever you start to think about him, just try pushing that outta your mind with something else. Or try listening to music and getting a song stuck inside your head instead of him. Or just try and occupy yourself and then you won't be thinking about him and you won't even realize it. Occupying yourself is probably the best thing to do. I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
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well if you ever go back to were you met him on vacation....maybe you could give each other s/n or phone ## to keep in touch...maybe both of you can write letters back and forth....maybe you should talk it out...when you see him again...
**peace**
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If you know his name and where he lives, maybe you can call him? But if you don't have the information for that or the guts to do it I understand. There's no specific way to get someone off your mind, but I find it helps when I open my mind to other guys around me. Even if they don't equal up, it's fun to have eye candy and note the different traits you like about people, even if they're few. I went through something similar to this situation, and that guy always sits with me somewhere in my heart, but there's nothing you can do. Life just sort of goes on, and it's best to just distract yourself when you find yourself thinking of him. Time will really heal your problem. Good Luck!
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I'm in the same situation really.
When I was on holiday in France last week I met a guy who I liked who liked me back but he lives on the other side of the country.
I suppose it's kind of like breaking up with someone.
Try and occupy yourself with outings with friends and doing things you enjoy. If you ever find a spare moment and start thinking about him then go and do something to take your mind off it. Eventually you'll stop thinking about him and move on. I know it's hard, I'm going through the same thing but you can do it if you really want to.
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Find someone hotter.
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sorry; you should move on and find another guy.
it's most likely not the kind of answer you wanted to hear; but it's the kind of advice you need. if it's meant to be; it'll work itself out.
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