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someone please help me i dont know wut to think..me and my bf have been going out for 2 months and now all of a sudden hes been talking bout this gurl name brittany(shes my friend)he asked me wut her last name is and he wants to c her myspace and all that.well normally when we r talking he says i love you before i do and wen he has to go he says i love you to me first,but today he didnt say i love you first,and hes talkin bout my friend brittany, but he sed the only person he will ever like and love is me and that will never change. and i think im thinking he kinda likes her but normally i would never think that cuz me and him are in a deep love relationship and we both love eachother SOOO MUCH but i dont know what i should do.what should i do,think, or say?someone please help me i never felt this way about him b4!someone please help A.S.A.P.(sry about it being soooo long)i rate very high (link)
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Im sorry, but i like to know peoples ages, it just helps me with situations.
Try not to read so much into this right away.
Theres really nothing you can do, i mean he does have right to talk about whoever he wants, but why does he talk about your friend is the question? Have you ever asked him why he talks about her? Thats probably a good place to start.
I would take note of his behavior from here on out. As far as how it was weeks ago to how it is now!
See if hes talking more about her in the days ahead.
Then i would confront him if he is. Most likely hes not gonna be 100% up front with you, but maybe youll be able to tell if hes telling the truth or if hes lying.
Then youll have to make a decision.
Good Luck!
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heey, guys.
well, me and this girl were best friends since 6th grade. i went out with this guy, though, and i was so in love with him. and she knew it. when he broke up with me, i was devestated. and we still really like eachother, & everything. recently, she started going out with him..
now, she doesnt want me talking to him at all. she said i was "obsessed" with him when we were going out. but really, it was just love. so i'm really kind of mad that she's going out with him, when she's my supposed "best friend." so at the moment, we're not talking. and today, we had a half day and me and my other friend decided to pick up our friends from another highschool. she found out about it, and she wanted to go, too. so she was trying to get on the bus with me, & called me so we can go together. but shes only USING me. because, i didn't go with her. so, once we got there, she didn't talk to me at all. and it really pisses me off! and then he was there, too.. and when she's iwth him and i'm there, she's always ALL OVER HIM in front of me. grr. it pisses me off so much.
and then, one day, we were at a party. and she started making out with him. IN FRONT OF ME. and she did it on purpose, because she kept looking back at me. and i hate it. it's so hard; knowing she was my best friend and we go to the same highschool.. but i really don't think i deserve a "friend" like that. =/ help. please?? (link)
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Thats not a friend you have there.
Your gonna have to go around acting like she doesnt bother you, because obviously she likes the reaction shes getting from you.
Tell her she can have your "leftovers", since she probably cant get her own.
My ex did the same with his new gf. He would kiss her in front of me and do w/e.
Shes trying so hard to make you jealous!!!
Dont let her get the best of you.
Hes not worth it and neither is she. So hang out with your TRUE friends and leave her to her childish games!
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So I'm a 17 year old girl and my boyfriend is a wee bit older. He's 25.
We've been going out for about a month and he's a great guy to me - he buys everything (not just dinner, like he asks if there's anything I want in stores etc.), he opens doors, he always says the kindest things to me, and yes he's great in the bedroom.
But I've just been wondering lately if this is the best time for me to date someone his age. He's so perfect but it's kind of difficult when I get the weird looks from friends and classmates about dating an older guy. He hasn't met my friends yet and I don't even know if his friends know about me. The whole age thing is just kind of throwing me for a loop.
So, do you think I should keep pursuing this relationship with the chance of getting hurt or just let it go for now with such big differences?
P.S. Remember that I'm only a senior in high school, still dealing with stuff like homecoming and prom. He's already out in the working world...it's a tough choice... (link)
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Right now age is important. You are both at different stages in your lives.
Things would be alot better if you were maybe 21 and he was 29. Nothing against you, but why isnt he with some1 closer to his age? Think about that 1. Somethings just not right about him that he is interested in some1 8 yrs younger.
Are your parents ok with this relationship?
Hopefully hes not being Mr. nice guy to get in your pants somewhere down the road.
Id take things very cautiously, with your eyes wide open.
Dont do anything if your having doubts about!
Good Luck!!
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Okay.
My question. If you liked a person that one of your close friends liked, do you suppose your friend would get mad at you?
Even though chances are he won't like both of us anyhow, would it still be okay?
Or would it somehow offend that person. Yeah. (: (link)
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I dont think she would appreciate having her friend as a rival. I mean, how would you feel if that guy liked her, and not you, or vice-versa. Im sure both of you would have some anger or hurt feelings if that happened.
I dont think i would let her know that you also like him.
Whenever she talks about him to you, maybe you could just say that you think hes cute or you think hes nice.
Just remember: Chicks over Dicks".
Good Luck!!
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ok well this guy. bob* i really like for some odd reason and i dont know why i just like him. but i never really talked to him. he is the greatest thing i swear well kinda. anyways my friend joe* was like i will just ask him to homecoming for you and i said no. and he was like ok whatever. then the next day my friend told me he said no to homecoming. and bob* said no because he only liked me as a friend thats all. and now i don't know if i should call him and talk to him about it. I am kinda a shy person when it comes around the guy i like. but what should i do?? HELP!!! I am 14 he is 14. I am a female. he is a male. Plus bob* always looks at me at lunch and in pe.
* names have been changed (link)
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Friends ask friends to homecoming all the time. Not all couples are bf/gfs.
Hes being nice when he says he only likes you as a friend. He could have said "ew, no way, not her."
I wouldnt waste my time trying to talk to him about it. Sounds like he means what he says.
He could be just looking at you, because he probably knows you like him, and its just a reaction.
Remember; if he did like you or wanted to get to know you, he would have said "yes".
No harm in admiring him from afar!!
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i'm confused. ive liked a lot of guys i like dream about them and try and get there attention and flirt with them a lot, but when they start to like me, i like stop likin them to the point where im afarid too see them, but then they stop paying attention to me and statt flirting with other girls i start to like them and then if they start to flirt with me i stop liking them. i dont understand this, it confueses me i really want a byfriend, and i really like this guy right now and he likes me, somdays i really like him but somedays i dont. this always happens when a guy starts to like me. ive ruined a lot of my relentionships becaue of it and i dont want to ruin this one. why do i feel like this? (link)
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You failed to mention how old you are.
My guess is youre not really ready for a relationship. I was the exact same way. Id like a guy and as soon as i found out he liked me, i backed off.
Youre just gonna have to wait it out. Its nothing you really have control over, but it will happen. Trust me.
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me and my ex-boyfriend just started talkin again. i like him again and i think he likes me again but im not sure.he says he wants to have sex with me. he always says it so i went to his house and all we did was watch his brother play a video game for 2 hours then i had to leave. i asked him y he didnt do anything and he said he didnt want to do it while his brothers were sittin right there becuz his room is in his basement and both of his brothers were sittin right there. does he really want to do this with me and does it look like we will ever go out again?? we flirt all the time and before we stop talkin to each other we always say i love u.i really like him so i need sum help. sorry its so long!! (link)
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You just started talking again, and he already wants sex?
Sounds like he hasnt had it for awhile and your an easy target.
Why dont you just hang out with him for awhile and see just how bad he wants to be with you, or if its just sex that he wants.
You never said why you 2 broke up.
Hopefully its YOU that he wants and not just the sex. If thats all he wants and talks about, id keep him my ex!
There are alot of nice and decent guys out there that want a relationship thats not based on sex!!!!
Good Luck!!
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Hi im 13/f and having sex to me is a REALLY big deal i mean virginity is something that once you lose you can never get back.. yes i kno that i might regret it but i kno that i want to have sex.... heres my question.... my boyfriend and 1 have been goin out for 2 years hes 13 also *steady* were both virgins no break ups or anything... but recently we started to talk about having sex... im already on the pill strickly because my periods are very bad and accually it was my moms idea to get it 4 me... yes we would use a condom and yes he would pull out be4 he came.... but will it hurt...do you think 13 is to young to have sex even if i take all the percauseins(sp)..... should i shave....what can i do to him to make it plauserable for him??? And im kinda scared so wat shoulld i do rigth be4 we do it thanks soo much .... theses anwsers will base my desision on if i should do it or not!!!!!!thankz (link)
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Im really sorry, but i am totally opposed to a 13 yr old having sex. For 1 thing your bodies are going through changes at this point.(puberty)
Your minds are not capable of dealing with the consquences of something so intimate.
Your way too young. You should be thinking about things like hanging out with your friends, playing sports, dances, what your gonna wear to school tomorrow: NOT SEX!!
Heres some info for you..
Guys' advice - to Girls - On when to start having sex . .
Wait until you're married. Young men today are looking for young women who have not been used, abused, and accused.
Robert, 18
I know girls won't listen to this unless they're dedicated, but I advise them to wait until they're married...
Joey, 17
Wait until you're married. Most guys out there are users and you'll end up getting hurt, having a bad reputation, and more than likely, in the long run, being alone. Don't do it to make your boyfriend happy.
Hamilton, 18
Girls share more thoughts on pre-marital sex . .
Once you've lost your virginity, you can never get it back.
Tara, 15
Wait. If he says he likes you so much, yet he just wants to get his own way, no matter how you feel, that stinks. But it happens all the time.
Andrea, 18
It may be unrealistic, but if you have sex in relationships when you're not married you're taking the risk of having a very painful breakup because of the sexual ties.
Martha, 16
It sounds tacky, but I say wait until you're married. I know guys have more respect for virgins.
Sally, 17
Wait until you're married. Then when you have sex, it will mean something - that you're in love with your husband and want him to be the first.
Raquel, 17
There are a lot of guys who only want one thing, and after that, you're history.
Jennifer, 17
Guys are users and abusers. They just want to feed their pleasures and desires. They aren't concerned with your feelings at all.
Shannon, 17
Some boys say "If you love me, you'll have sex with me," and some girls believe that if they do it, they will keep him. But having sex with a guy doesn't make him stay, because when he's ready to take off, believe me, he'll take off anyway.
Judy, 14
If I had it to do over again, I would save my virginity until I was married.
Valerie, 18
Being dumped after having sex - Girls Tell All . .
My boyfriend broke up with me three months after we had sex. I guess it was because there was no more suspense, nothing to think about, no more what-ifs. I felt horrible.
Fran, 16
I went out with a guy for a month and then had sex with him. After that he never called me again. I felt like a fool.
Sunny, 16
My boyfriend and I were alone in this place. We made love for the first time that day. It was really good. Three weeks later, he ended the relationship because he had another girl. I felt depressed about the fact that what we had that night didn't mean anything to him.
Marva, 18
My boyfriend and I had broken up, but he called and that night we made love for the first time. After that he said he "needed time to be alone." He was supposed to get back to me, but he never did. I felt used and betrayed. He had been my boyfriend for eleven months, and supposedly he loved me.
Rochelle, 15
Two days after I had sex with this guy he broke up with me. He said I was looking for a commitment and he wasn't. I wanted to kill him.
Donna, 16
A few days after I had sex with this guy he dropped me. I felt used.
Connie, 16
I went out with a guy for one week and had sex with him. After that, he wanted nothing to do with me. He dumped me. I guess he thought I was too [easy]. He didn't even think of me as a person. I was very disappointed because I thought sex was what he wanted from me - but it turned out not to be enough.
Rosa, 17
It was the second time I'd seen him since we met. The mood was there. He wanted to so I did it. But he didn't want to after that. I felt real easy and cheap, even though I'm really not. I just needed to be loved.
Coco, 17+
THERE IT IS FOR YOU IN BLACK AND WHITE!!! please listen to them. GUYS DO HAVE MORE RESPECT FOR VIRGINS, AND IN THE END THATS THE KIND OF GIRL THEY WANT TO MARRY!!!
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well..I have a boyfriend whom is 15 and I am 14. Well..we kiss all the time, like at school and everythin'. But, I never get that 'click' you get when you kiss someone you really like. Meanwhile, there is this guy who i really like( he is 16 bout to be 17) and we were iceskating with all my friends and we went and sat down. WE'll call him bob..well 'bob' asked me to sit with him and I reated my head on his shoulder. later, I ended up sitting down on his lap and his friend told me he wanted to make out w/me so I went over and we started to mke out right in front of everyone and I felt great. like I got the 'click'! and people practicly had to pry us apart. SO I really like him but I don't know if he was just h0rny. Who do I really like? what should I do?! (link)
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sorry, but he sounds like hes a bit on the horny side and you being 14, makes you an easy target.
Whats an almost 17 yr old want with a 14 yr old?
How long have you known this guy?
Wow, he doesnt waste any time does he?
Dont let him make a fool out of you, by being his little toy.
Cant you see that hes gonna use you and spit you back out. A decent guy doesnt go around picking up younger girls and then makes out with her in front of every1.
If he really liked or even cared about you, he would want to hang out with you and get to know you first be4 doing what he did.
Dont be a notch on his belt, because youre the 1 whos gonna get hurt.
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I know there's like 239812093 questions that are probably similiar to this, so i'll try to keep it short.
My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 6 months. In the beginning and during the summer, everything was going really well, except a small fight once. But as soon as school started he started ignoring me more, we argue more, he rarely calls me anymore, and i'm not even sure if he likes me anymore. Everything seemed so "perfect" over the summer, but now things are different. Is there anything I can do about this? Any tips?
thanks soo much in advance.
and no stupid ass answers or i'll report you. (link)
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Everythings always great in the beginning.
Schools started, thats the problem. Lots of girls around. Its his way of saying "its been fun, but nice knowing you".
Guys so dont have a subtle way of ending a relationship. Thats just how they do things.
Theres really nothing you can do about it.
You have to realize your in middle school. Youre probably gonna go through the same thing in high school too. Guys have a hard time making a commitment to just 1 girl. They like to date different girls. (nothing personal to you)
If its your first "love", chances are it wont be your last. Relationships hurt, its a part of life.
So try and have fun and meet new people. Dont dwell on the past, because it can hurt youre future relationships. Stay strong, and show him that you can move on without him, just like he is without you. Nothing good ever lasts forever!
Good Luck!
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I have a boyfriend, and we've been together for over a year. Its a pretty special relationship to me. But, theres always these never ending problems that I can't fix anymore. There are times when he'll know that I need him, and he'll leave, not like I'll be crying and say, "I need you" I mean like, we'll have plans to meet online or something, and he'll go to his friends house. I'm usually always ok with him leaving to go to a friends house. But, we hardly got to talk last weekend and now this weekend we never talked, and now next weekend he'll be gone and he knew that he would be. We always have problems where he'll be gone, or just a silly issue will happen. I'd hate to sound like one of those desperate girls, but hes different. He isn't the type to just leave me like that, he feels really bad when he forgets something or did something wrong, yet it keeps happening, and I'm the only one to always think of a solution to fix us, well, this time I decided to make him think, and hes saying we should break up for now. We have recently taken a lot of breaks to help us, we started with taking the whole weekend away, and then we moved on to a week and a half, and here we are stuck again. I have never been so terrified in my life about this relationship failing. I guess I need to know if breaking up for now was the right thing, or if we should be doing something we havn't already done. I think there is something inside of him wanting to work this out, but something else forgets. I'm really open to any answers, I just need help, I'm really depressed. What would be the best solution to you?
I'll be sure to rate, but I hope I get true answers. (link)
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From my experience, it sounds like things are very slowly fading away, but hes too nice a guy to just come out and tell you.
Long distance relationships are hard, and being 15 suggests that you both have a few good years ahead of you for meeting new people.
Why dont you wait and see if he makes any moves, as far as trying to contact you, and see if "absense does make the heart grow fonder".
If his calls get less and less, then youll know what youve probably been sensing since the break up.
When guys are the ones that want the so-called "break", it means they cant tell you the real reason, for fear of hurting the 1 they loved for so long. (If they still love you)
Things are happening for a reason, and its something that can be helped, but he chooses not to.
All you need to do is take a look at your relationship and how it was in the beginning to how it is now. The signs are all there.
Talk to him about it and tell him how youre really feeling. Try and get him to open up to you.
Good Luck!
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14/f.
Whenever my boyfriend comes over, we usually aren't allowed in the house (my parents are strict), and we usually end up hanging out at the park, but there's not much to do.. we can't drive anywhere yet, and my parents don't trust us with much.. It usually gets boring. What can I do to liven things up and make things less boring? (link)
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You are only 14 years old. Someday youll realize that 14 is too young to have a steady bf.
Theres really not much you can do, other than listen to them. Theyre only watching out for you, so things between you 2 dont get too serious.
Whats weird is, youre not allowed to have him in youre house, but your allowed to hang out with him anywhere else? Hows that being strict? At least they could keep an eye on you if you were in the house!
You could go for walks, shoot bball, biking, invite other friends to join you.
*Boring is being by yourself*. The more the merrier!!
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My Tenth year highschool reunion is coming up next year and I'm really nervous about it.
This is because me and a guy that I had a mad crush on left on really bad terms.
He was the most popular guy in school, class valedictorian and jock. I was one of the nerds. He new I had a crush on him and he treated me like dirt. He would make out with his girlfriend when I would walk by him in the hallways to upset me. He would play little games to humiliate me, like coming up to his friend whose locker was next to mine just to see me go red in the face.
He even went right up to my friend at the senior prom to hit on her while she was standing next to me and then he ignored me.
The last time I saw him was at the bar 8 years ago. I went up with my friend to talk to him and he completely ignored me even though I said it was my birthday.
Do you think I should go and confront him or just ignore him? This was a long time ago and I think that by now he would have matured a bit. I want to be the better person even though he made me senior year a living hell.
Buzzie (link)
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Even after 8 years he sounds like he still hasnt grown up. To act the same way he did when you were in school tells you of his maturity. He sounds like a guy who thinks hes still better than you. Well he needs to know that those "stuck up", im a "jock", and "valedictoria
of my class" days are longgg gone!!
By the way, you didnt mention if he had a significant other. Probably not huh?
I wouldnt waste my time on some1 who has never given me the time of day. Get a total makeover and walk in your class reunion with your head held up high!
If he decides to throw his big ego aside for the night, and talks to you, lend him an ear!!
Good Luck!!
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okay. i dont know if i should make the first move. we have hugged and my friends told him i liked him and he had a big smile on his face. and we talk alot..
so..i want him to ask me out. Is there any more flirty thingys i can do? or should i just ask him out?
i jsut dont know...
please just tell me what you think... (link)
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Ok youve already expressed your feelings for him and he knows you like him. Did he ever tell any1 his feelings for you? Even if a guy is shy, he'd at least tell some1 if he liked you, but im not hearing that.
As far you if you should ask him out? Hang out with him, enjoy each others company, and get to know 1 another better. Dont feel like you have to go out with a guy right away.
If he is the shy type, letting him to get know you is a big plus to help him work through his shyness. Just pay alot of attention to him, and have lots of fun.
Good Luck!
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Okay, well I'm going to homecoming with my best friend (im a girl hes a guy) but i really like him too. He did have a girlfriend but told me he broke up with her for me. He goes to a different high school. Their homecoming was last night. And now I'm really worried, because I havent talked to him for about 2 days and he went to his homecoming dance wiht his old girlfriend who he went out with for about two years on n off. Because he goes to a different school he has to get this permission form signed to go to my schools dance. What if he doesnt want to go now? or what if him n his old gf go back out and then he wont go with me or sign that paper. I think he liked me, but i don't know anymore. online he always tells me im beautiful and will be gorgeous at homecomign and he cant wait to go n how excited he is. but im worried he will change his mind and leave me dateless 5 days before homecoming. I don't really know what im asking.. just whats yur opinion or thoughts, any advice would be great. .... thanks. (link)
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First question; If he broke up with his ex for you, why did he take her to their h/c instead of taking you?
If i were you, id wait for him to make the next move. If he really wants to still go with you to yours, he'll find a way to talk to you somehow, if he says what he means.
Maybe something happened at their h/c, like them talking about getting back together or whatever. If thats the case, he should at least let you know, so you can make other arrangements for your h/c.
I know thats not what you want to hear, but sometimes thinking the worse, might turn out for the better.
Keep your fingers crossed.
Good Luck!
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I think I may have mono. Some girl at school has it and me and her drank from the same drink and I haven't felt so great since. I'm really tired. What are the symptoms? Should I tell my mom? (She'd really flip) What do I do to get rid of it?
I'll rate. (link)
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being tired is the biggest. sore throat, swollen glands and fever.
yes you should really tell your mom.
theres nothing you can do to get rid of it. lots and lots of rest is needed.
You should see a doctor to confirm if you have mono. (blood tests) then if you do have it, you wont be allowed to do anything for at least 2-3 weeks. Especially if your spleen is enlarged.
You will have to go back to the doctor to be rechecked after the 2-3 weeks.
Trust me, youll know you have mono after you start feeling tired, because thats all your gonna want to do is sleepppppp!!!
Its very contigous.
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Ok...i waz goin out wit this kid named Ryan but he broke up wit like about 4 weeks ago.I have been tryen and tryen to move on but i juss cant.I have even tried to go out wit sumone else but it didnt work.We were in so much love i dont even kno wat happened.He told meh he wanted meh to move on and to find sumone better but i think thea is no one better than hym.It has seemed like he got over the fact that we are over bc he is already wit sumone else.I told hym i didnt like one thing about hym and it waz that he got stoned.So i talked to his best friend about it and i told her wat i waz thinken about sayen to hym and she told meh to do it bc if he realli loves meh then he wuld pick meh.So i told hym i didnt like the fact that he got stoned wen he waz wit meh so i wanted hym to pick meh or gettin high.And i even told hym mab he culd get stoned once in a while if i knew about it.And he told meh he had to think about it so i waz like ok and then he told meh his answer and he said i guess pot is more impotant.So i talked to hym about that answer and he said he only said it bc he wanted meh to move on and find sumone better.But i keep tellin hym over and over again that thea is none better than hym but he still wants meh to move on and to juss be friends,but i dont wanna be juss friends i still wanna be wit hym but i dont kno wat to say or do to get hym bak....i mean i love hym soo much and i dont realli think he knos it......plz help..wat shuld i do??¿¿ (link)
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Ok for 1 thing youre only 13. Why are you even thinking about having a bf? Especially 1 that smokes pot. Thats not saying alot about you.
He is telling you to move on, because thats obviously what he wants to do.
Can you honestly say you know what love is at 13?
You never did say how old he was.
Anyway, he doesnt love you, because if he did, hed still be with you and not with some1 else.
Try and keep yourself busy with other things going on at school. Have fun with your gfs. You dont need a bf at your age. Guys are fun to just have as friends. Build that friendship and hopefully down the road, you can become bf/gf in high school.
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The guy that I like and I are friends. I thought it was pretty easy to see that but today when we were talking he wanted to know who i liked. So I just told him so he wouldn't keep bugging me. I knew he didn't like me back, but he said "i don't know if we can hook up right now cause I like...whatever her name is." And I think its a little bit weird talking to him know just because. Is there anything I can do to get him to like me more than a friend or for it not to be weird to talk to him?
ps. the girl he likes likes him back but doesnt want a boyfriend right now. and they just went to the movies together with some other friends. so i don't know what to do and it really sucks. someone help me please! (link)
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Well he asked you and you told him. So now you have to deal with the consequences. IF you knew he didnt like you what made you tell him that you liked him?
You cant make any1 like you. Either its there or its not.
I guess to make things less awkward, you just have to go on as before he asked you. If you still like him, DONT let any1 know, unless you hear that he likes you.
You didnt say how good of friends you were. I mean if youre really good friends, you can simply tell him that when you said you liked him, you meant as a really good friend, because you know that he likes some1 else.
Its always hard when you like some1, but they like some1 else. Doesnt mean that your not gf material for some1 else.
Just hang in there. If he truly is your friend, knowing you like him wont change things between you.
Good Luck!
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I'm going out with this guy and we been together 11months this month..but i talk to this guy and i really like him but i love my boyfriend ...me and my boyfriend always fight about stupid stuff ..and everytime we fight i call the other guy and makes me feel better...i think about him all the time..i wanna get back with him cause i think he can make me more happy..but i dont wanna break up with my boyfriend..i just wish i can go out with both of them..but thats wrong and sick lol.. (link)
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You say you love youre bf, but then go on to say that you think this other guy can make you happy. Love means being happy. Are you sure that you love him? Having feelings for another guy and wanting to break up with your bf says something different. I think you really do care about him, but i think your heart is really with youre ex.
Fighting all the time over stupid stuff, can really put wear and tear on a relationship. It means that you are both taking each other for granted being that you and him have been together for almost a year.
You have to make a decision. It may not be the right 1, but youll never know if what you and your current bf have is truly love, unless you follow your heart.
Maybe you should make a list for both guys. On 1 side put "likes" on the other side "dislikes". See who comes out shining. Couldnt hurt.
Good Luck!
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Ok...so...My (only) best friend is starting to turn on me. shes being a bitch and now shes going out with my ex. she knows i still like him though....And i hate this one chick at school and me and marissa(only best friend) talk about her ALL the time. saying shes a whore and a bitch and shit. but now shes BEST friends with her. she can only have one friend. and she chose her over me. And i have this cutting problem. and shes MAD AT ME for cutting when shes the reason i did it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
any advice!? i rate high!!!! (link)
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ok first of all, Marissa would NOT be considered a good friend in my book. Friends DONT go out with their best friends exs'. (chicks over dicks)
The fact that she now hangs out with some1 you both didnt like says it all too.
Dont hurt yourself over some1 that doesnt care about you or your feelings.
If it already hasnt gotten around school what you are doing, it soon will. Kids can be very cruel.
Dont lower yourself, because you are hurt. Talk to some1, because you are worth more than that. You have to show them that YOU are strong! There are good ppl out there. You just need to look in the right places.
Good Luck!
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