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Hi im 13/f and having sex to me is a REALLY big deal i mean virginity is something that once you lose you can never get back.. yes i kno that i might regret it but i kno that i want to have sex.... heres my question.... my boyfriend and 1 have been goin out for 2 years hes 13 also *steady* were both virgins no break ups or anything... but recently we started to talk about having sex... im already on the pill strickly because my periods are very bad and accually it was my moms idea to get it 4 me... yes we would use a condom and yes he would pull out be4 he came.... but will it hurt...do you think 13 is to young to have sex even if i take all the percauseins(sp)..... should i shave....what can i do to him to make it plauserable for him??? And im kinda scared so wat shoulld i do rigth be4 we do it thanks soo much .... theses anwsers will base my desision on if i should do it or not!!!!!!thankz
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Im really sorry, but i am totally opposed to a 13 yr old having sex. For 1 thing your bodies are going through changes at this point.(puberty)
Your minds are not capable of dealing with the consquences of something so intimate.
Your way too young. You should be thinking about things like hanging out with your friends, playing sports, dances, what your gonna wear to school tomorrow: NOT SEX!!
Heres some info for you..
Guys' advice - to Girls - On when to start having sex . .
Wait until you're married. Young men today are looking for young women who have not been used, abused, and accused.
Robert, 18
I know girls won't listen to this unless they're dedicated, but I advise them to wait until they're married...
Joey, 17
Wait until you're married. Most guys out there are users and you'll end up getting hurt, having a bad reputation, and more than likely, in the long run, being alone. Don't do it to make your boyfriend happy.
Hamilton, 18
Girls share more thoughts on pre-marital sex . .
Once you've lost your virginity, you can never get it back.
Tara, 15
Wait. If he says he likes you so much, yet he just wants to get his own way, no matter how you feel, that stinks. But it happens all the time.
Andrea, 18
It may be unrealistic, but if you have sex in relationships when you're not married you're taking the risk of having a very painful breakup because of the sexual ties.
Martha, 16
It sounds tacky, but I say wait until you're married. I know guys have more respect for virgins.
Sally, 17
Wait until you're married. Then when you have sex, it will mean something - that you're in love with your husband and want him to be the first.
Raquel, 17
There are a lot of guys who only want one thing, and after that, you're history.
Jennifer, 17
Guys are users and abusers. They just want to feed their pleasures and desires. They aren't concerned with your feelings at all.
Shannon, 17
Some boys say "If you love me, you'll have sex with me," and some girls believe that if they do it, they will keep him. But having sex with a guy doesn't make him stay, because when he's ready to take off, believe me, he'll take off anyway.
Judy, 14
If I had it to do over again, I would save my virginity until I was married.
Valerie, 18
Being dumped after having sex - Girls Tell All . .
My boyfriend broke up with me three months after we had sex. I guess it was because there was no more suspense, nothing to think about, no more what-ifs. I felt horrible.
Fran, 16
I went out with a guy for a month and then had sex with him. After that he never called me again. I felt like a fool.
Sunny, 16
My boyfriend and I were alone in this place. We made love for the first time that day. It was really good. Three weeks later, he ended the relationship because he had another girl. I felt depressed about the fact that what we had that night didn't mean anything to him.
Marva, 18
My boyfriend and I had broken up, but he called and that night we made love for the first time. After that he said he "needed time to be alone." He was supposed to get back to me, but he never did. I felt used and betrayed. He had been my boyfriend for eleven months, and supposedly he loved me.
Rochelle, 15
Two days after I had sex with this guy he broke up with me. He said I was looking for a commitment and he wasn't. I wanted to kill him.
Donna, 16
A few days after I had sex with this guy he dropped me. I felt used.
Connie, 16
I went out with a guy for one week and had sex with him. After that, he wanted nothing to do with me. He dumped me. I guess he thought I was too [easy]. He didn't even think of me as a person. I was very disappointed because I thought sex was what he wanted from me - but it turned out not to be enough.
Rosa, 17
It was the second time I'd seen him since we met. The mood was there. He wanted to so I did it. But he didn't want to after that. I felt real easy and cheap, even though I'm really not. I just needed to be loved.
Coco, 17+
THERE IT IS FOR YOU IN BLACK AND WHITE!!! please listen to them. GUYS DO HAVE MORE RESPECT FOR VIRGINS, AND IN THE END THATS THE KIND OF GIRL THEY WANT TO MARRY!!!
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What the heck are you thinking?
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I think your wayy to young to start having sex...I am 15 and there is a girl in my grade that got pregnant and she was being just as safe as you say you will be...now that she is pregnant her life is miserable ...she is missing half the school year and her parents are soo mad at her... im not sayin this will happen to you but there is a chance so if you want to end up like that then go ahead but i think that you should wait because you dont wanna regret it...
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GO FOR IT AND GIVE ME ALL OF THE DETAILS
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If you think that you will regret it why do it?? I'm almost 17, just had sex with a guy who I thought loved me, I love him, but he didnt love me.. We were dating for several months and I thought I was ready.. Like you, I figured, yeah chances are I could regret it, but I might not.. You're only 13.. why not wait until your a little older because say you took all the precautionaries and you still had an accident, baby?? Would you be ready?? The pill isn't always effective you know.. Take it from an older person who just went through this.. sex is more emotional than you think. It will sneak up on you, and you'll feel like you can't go on.. It's going on a 2 months and I'm just starting to recover.. Soo think about it, ultimately its your choice, but I say wait because you aren't ready for it emotionally or physically for sex.
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