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Wat shuld i do..? love life
Ok...i waz goin out wit this kid named Ryan but he broke up wit like about 4 weeks ago.I have been tryen and tryen to move on but i juss cant.I have even tried to go out wit sumone else but it didnt work.We were in so much love i dont even kno wat happened.He told meh he wanted meh to move on and to find sumone better but i think thea is no one better than hym.It has seemed like he got over the fact that we are over bc he is already wit sumone else.I told hym i didnt like one thing about hym and it waz that he got stoned.So i talked to his best friend about it and i told her wat i waz thinken about sayen to hym and she told meh to do it bc if he realli loves meh then he wuld pick meh.So i told hym i didnt like the fact that he got stoned wen he waz wit meh so i wanted hym to pick meh or gettin high.And i even told hym mab he culd get stoned once in a while if i knew about it.And he told meh he had to think about it so i waz like ok and then he told meh his answer and he said i guess pot is more impotant.So i talked to hym about that answer and he said he only said it bc he wanted meh to move on and find sumone better.But i keep tellin hym over and over again that thea is none better than hym but he still wants meh to move on and to juss be friends,but i dont wanna be juss friends i still wanna be wit hym but i dont kno wat to say or do to get hym bak....i mean i love hym soo much and i dont realli think he knos it......plz help..wat shuld i do??¿¿<3 (Im 13 and im a female) im sry its so long but thats the hole question and story about it.
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Well you should keep on trying for a little while longer, and you should talk to him about how much you love him and what he is to you. just talk to him about things.but if that doesnt work just try one more time to move on because if a guy thinks getting high or stoned is more important than being with you that's pretty bad and you don't deserve him
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well i think the thing that made him upsetis you wanted him to choose, men dont like altematemins. i dont blame you though, you were just caring about him and he didnt like it so he blew you off, you might be better off, it dosent seem like it now, but you are. if he is only 13 and already getting high, then who knows what he will be doing by twenty. i think you could do alot better, good luck.
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Ok for 1 thing youre only 13. Why are you even thinking about having a bf? Especially 1 that smokes pot. Thats not saying alot about you.
He is telling you to move on, because thats obviously what he wants to do.
Can you honestly say you know what love is at 13?
You never did say how old he was.
Anyway, he doesnt love you, because if he did, hed still be with you and not with some1 else.
Try and keep yourself busy with other things going on at school. Have fun with your gfs. You dont need a bf at your age. Guys are fun to just have as friends. Build that friendship and hopefully down the road, you can become bf/gf in high school.
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