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I'm going out with this guy and we been together 11months this month..but i talk to this guy and i really like him but i love my boyfriend ...me and my boyfriend always fight about stupid stuff ..and everytime we fight i call the other guy and makes me feel better...i think about him all the time..i wanna get back with him cause i think he can make me more happy..but i dont wanna break up with my boyfriend..i just wish i can go out with both of them..but thats wrong and sick lol..
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I don't know how old you are, but i'm guessing teens, maybe early 20's. It really doesn't matter. I never understand why people always think you have to go out with one person. You can go out and have fun with as many guys as it takes for you to find the right one. You can go out on dates and spend time with as many people as you want, just don't commit to one person. When you feel that you are with the right one, thats when you make the decision to commit. You are too young to be tied down to one guy. Tell each guy that you don't want to be in a committed relationship right now, but you still would like to go out. If they don't like it, then you have to make a decision to not deal with either of them or commit to one of them.
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You say you love youre bf, but then go on to say that you think this other guy can make you happy. Love means being happy. Are you sure that you love him? Having feelings for another guy and wanting to break up with your bf says something different. I think you really do care about him, but i think your heart is really with youre ex.
Fighting all the time over stupid stuff, can really put wear and tear on a relationship. It means that you are both taking each other for granted being that you and him have been together for almost a year.
You have to make a decision. It may not be the right 1, but youll never know if what you and your current bf have is truly love, unless you follow your heart.
Maybe you should make a list for both guys. On 1 side put "likes" on the other side "dislikes". See who comes out shining. Couldnt hurt.
Good Luck!
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