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someone please help me i dont know wut to think..me and my bf have been going out for 2 months and now all of a sudden hes been talking bout this gurl name brittany(shes my friend)he asked me wut her last name is and he wants to c her myspace and all that.well normally when we r talking he says i love you before i do and wen he has to go he says i love you to me first,but today he didnt say i love you first,and hes talkin bout my friend brittany, but he sed the only person he will ever like and love is me and that will never change. and i think im thinking he kinda likes her but normally i would never think that cuz me and him are in a deep love relationship and we both love eachother SOOO MUCH but i dont know what i should do.what should i do,think, or say?someone please help me i never felt this way about him b4!someone please help A.S.A.P.(sry about it being soooo long)i rate very high
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If you have only been going out for 2 months, I don't think you can be in THAT "deep" of a relationship yet. And if he's been talking about your friend out of the blue, and he doesn't stop..he might like her. Just be careful, b/c guys are pretty much all the same. A lot of them could just careless about the girl they are with when they start liking someone new!
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well it sounds like you need to talk to the both of them, sepretly though. if you guys have been together for only 2 months, theres probley alot you dont know about him. how old are you by the way. im asking because when you are young it seems like there is no one else in the world that you could ever be with than the one you ae with, when in reality two months is not a very long time to know someone well enough to say there is no one else for you, get what i mean. i not tring to be mean, belive me i felt the same way once, there is just one thing you need to know about young men, they tend to like more than one girl at a time, its kind of like an oppertunity thing if one comes up theyll snag it. does your friend talk to this boy, without you around. does she ask about him. i would just sit back and watch, if this girl is a good friend she shouldnt step in on your boyfriend, and if she did she probley wasent a good friend anyway, and he starts spending time around her, or acts like he wants to i would say it is time to find a new love of your life.
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you're jealous. that's it.
you say you're in love...and you've been going out for only 2 months? ok?
if you're 13 or under, I seriously doubt it.
kbye.
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First off, I have a comment! If you have only been with this guy for 2 months and you already say that you love him, then I have a question for you. How long have you known him and how long were you friends before you dated? The reason I ask is becuase unless you have been in love before and are older, then I do not believe that it is possible to love someone whom you have not know for a long time in just 2 months. I think that it may be a time for you to take a step back in the relationship and talk to your boyfriend and examine your true feelings! Most guys will be honesst about their feelings if you ask them and tell them that you want the truth NO MATTER if it will hurt. Ok hunni? So, ask him! Most guys can't fall in love in 2 months! Now, as far as this other girl, Brittany, there is not much that you can do. If you truly love this guy, then that involves wanting him to be happy and if he ends up liking this other girl and she will make him happy then there isn't much that you can do besides let him go and be happy. It sounds like he has an interest in her! Just ask him how he feels about her! I am sure he will tell you (Like I said before). Now, as far as Myspace, thats really not a big deal! It's just a website and "A Place For Friends". The last thing you want to do is tie your guy down and try to control him. Guys don't like that and they retaliate and try to find someone else becuase they don't like it. Ok, sweetie! So, just let him see it! The key to all of this is COMMUNICATION! Talk with your boyfriend and find out whats going on. I wish you all the best! Thanks! You can ask me anything if you need anymore help. Ok darlin? *Smiles*
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Im sorry, but i like to know peoples ages, it just helps me with situations.
Try not to read so much into this right away.
Theres really nothing you can do, i mean he does have right to talk about whoever he wants, but why does he talk about your friend is the question? Have you ever asked him why he talks about her? Thats probably a good place to start.
I would take note of his behavior from here on out. As far as how it was weeks ago to how it is now!
See if hes talking more about her in the days ahead.
Then i would confront him if he is. Most likely hes not gonna be 100% up front with you, but maybe youll be able to tell if hes telling the truth or if hes lying.
Then youll have to make a decision.
Good Luck!
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