Question Posted Tuesday September 27 2005, 9:35 pm
heey, guys.
well, me and this girl were best friends since 6th grade. i went out with this guy, though, and i was so in love with him. and she knew it. when he broke up with me, i was devestated. and we still really like eachother, & everything. recently, she started going out with him..
now, she doesnt want me talking to him at all. she said i was "obsessed" with him when we were going out. but really, it was just love. so i'm really kind of mad that she's going out with him, when she's my supposed "best friend." so at the moment, we're not talking. and today, we had a half day and me and my other friend decided to pick up our friends from another highschool. she found out about it, and she wanted to go, too. so she was trying to get on the bus with me, & called me so we can go together. but shes only USING me. because, i didn't go with her. so, once we got there, she didn't talk to me at all. and it really pisses me off! and then he was there, too.. and when she's iwth him and i'm there, she's always ALL OVER HIM in front of me. grr. it pisses me off so much.
and then, one day, we were at a party. and she started making out with him. IN FRONT OF ME. and she did it on purpose, because she kept looking back at me. and i hate it. it's so hard; knowing she was my best friend and we go to the same highschool.. but i really don't think i deserve a "friend" like that. =/ help. please??
karenR answered Wednesday September 28 2005, 12:11 am: Friend or not she is jealous of you. She knows you still like each other and she is threatened by that.
She will continue to act out when you are around them both. If you two are friends and she come between the friendship, she will probably be the loser in the end. He will more than likely tire of her clinging sooner or later.
For now try to see them separately. Avoid talking about him with her. If she brings him up, politely tell her you don't wish to discuss her relationship. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
angelfire2708 answered Tuesday September 27 2005, 10:08 pm: Thats not a friend you have there.
Your gonna have to go around acting like she doesnt bother you, because obviously she likes the reaction shes getting from you.
Tell her she can have your "leftovers", since she probably cant get her own.
My ex did the same with his new gf. He would kiss her in front of me and do w/e.
Shes trying so hard to make you jealous!!!
Dont let her get the best of you.
Hes not worth it and neither is she. So hang out with your TRUE friends and leave her to her childish games! [ angelfire2708's advice column | Ask angelfire2708 A Question ]
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