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homecoming.
ok well this guy. bob* i really like for some odd reason and i dont know why i just like him. but i never really talked to him. he is the greatest thing i swear well kinda. anyways my friend joe* was like i will just ask him to homecoming for you and i said no. and he was like ok whatever. then the next day my friend told me he said no to homecoming. and bob* said no because he only liked me as a friend thats all. and now i don't know if i should call him and talk to him about it. I am kinda a shy person when it comes around the guy i like. but what should i do?? HELP!!! I am 14 he is 14. I am a female. he is a male. Plus bob* always looks at me at lunch and in pe.
* names have been changed
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well there's always that chance that he's just shy too.
but i wouldn't call em, that sorta make you look clingy, and guys don't like that
and act like it never happened, just act like you never asked (which should be easy cause you didn't ask) and just talk to him and such
if your afraid that you might act stupid or something than don't be. if you do something stupid and just laugh about it and not be embarassed than some people would say what you did was kool. i mean think about it all the "popular" people always do stupid stuff (not thar im sayin you should always act stupid) just when you mess up, laugh about it
but i wouldn't talk about it cuase for all you know it never happend ;) lol
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Friends ask friends to homecoming all the time. Not all couples are bf/gfs.
Hes being nice when he says he only likes you as a friend. He could have said "ew, no way, not her."
I wouldnt waste my time trying to talk to him about it. Sounds like he means what he says.
He could be just looking at you, because he probably knows you like him, and its just a reaction.
Remember; if he did like you or wanted to get to know you, he would have said "yes".
No harm in admiring him from afar!!
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When you're shy approaching a guy can be the hardest thing in the world, but you should probably ask him to homecoming yourself and not have your friends do it for you. Guys like a girl who has confidence.
Seeing how he already said no, it's not a big deal. You rarely talk to him right? So it's not like you guys have a really close bond, he's just your crush.. eyecandy.. whatever you want to call him.
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He probably just said no to homecoming because your friend asked him instead of you cause guys like it when the girl herself asks them out not having their friends do it. Since your friend did it he thinks that you are scared to ask him and that you don't want to be more then friends. From now on if you want to ask a guy out you should do it yourself if you want them to say yes. I know this might sound kind of mean but there isn't any other way to say it sorry if I hurt your feelings. I hope that I helped but if not you can visit me at my column.
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Well you only get one chance in life, so I would go all out and call him. Just say your name and say " hey i was just wondering, why did you say no?" and if he says somthing mean or does somthing mean, then you deserve better! I hope this help's you out!
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juss talk to him about it. even if you are shy, you should talk to him so that he doesnt get the wrong impression er maybe he juss wanted you to ask him yourself, er maybe he wanted to ask you.
good luck!♥
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Even though your shy you should still call him and try to talk to him about it. And just to tell you something guyz lie, if you ask them if they like you they will say no because guyz don't admit thingz like that trust me i have been through it. If he is looking at you a lot in those classes then yes he does like you. So just call him up and talk to him about the homecoming and other thingz like that. and if you have any friends that need help im here for u and them gurl!
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Hey,
I personally think that you should call him and talk to him about it. My friend was in the same situation and i told her to talk to him and things turned out better. If you cant call him for whatever reason...try talking to him at school, if you see him. if you have any other questions please ask!
hope i helped!
kittygurl90
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