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On the flap outside of my vagina, i have this bump, and its been there for about a month, im still a virgin and ive NEVER done anything like fingering or blowjob or that stuff. I do shave, do you think its just a razor burn? Or what do you think it is, and what are ways to get rid of this? Thankyou (link)
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i would say razor burn, it should go away soon, if not go to a doctor and see wahts the matter. i woudlnt' say its anything bad, its treatable. x0
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alright..i was just running threw here and was reading stuff and i just read about the 14 yr old pregnant..you(whoever is giving the advice) told her to abort it..are you crazy?! your telling this yougn girl to abort her child, a child that had nothing what so ever to do with what happened..you are plm crazy...i'll have u and the 14 yr old gurl to know i am now 16..i had a baby girl at 13 im doing fine and so is she..i made it threw it and so can she..my babys daddy didnt care either..but once that baby comes, evreything changes..so to the 14 yr old pregnant, keep your baby it's innocent and had nothing to do with what happened so dont punish it. (link)
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fine, let her have the child, and see how screwed up her life is going to be. i dont understand kids now adays.. have you guys ever heard of birth control and condoms?? but seriously, only a few have the good life of having a kid at 13.. because sometimes the parents dont want it because it basically means that the parents take care of it.. but seriously, what do you think people think about when your 16 years old and strolling around your kid in the mall??? thats ridiculous, whatever, if you dont like my advice dont read it.
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some guy told me i turned him on :-P wut does that mean? (link)
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basically he really likes you, and you did something sexy to do that to him, therefore he wants you ;D . x0
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i'm 5'1 and i'm really short compared to my friends, its kinda embaressing since i use to be taller than most of them.. what can i do to grow taller? no pills or w/e (link)
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hey! i'm 5'1 and i'm the shortest out of my friends too, i dont mind it at all, people pick on me and i could careless, this is the way i grew and i dont mind it at all, i would rather be 5'1 then like 5'7 or something, were almost average for women and thats a good thing. i dont think that there is any other way to grow taller without pills, sorry x0 be proud of how tall you are! haha as long as you have fun with your friends i think thats all that really matters
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I am 14/f and don't tell me i`ve made the biggest mistake of my life...i know i've made a mistake and i`m gonna follow my responsibilities. My boyfriend, who I have been with for 11 months, has been in jail for 6... he just got out and we really like each other you know? Well, while he was in jail-i had a little side thing...with a 16 year old black male...lets call him mike..me and mike really liked each other and did it a lot..but when we did it on the first day of my period-something happened. Last night, my stomach was hurting sooo bad while talking to my boyfriend. So bad that my mom took me to the emergency room. She decided to give me a pregnancy test..and it`s positive. I`m nervous and all and 6 weeks pregnate in the 9th grade... I have the money and skills to support it..but MIKE doesn`t want anything to do with it. My dad wants it aborted but I want it...my mom does too. What would you do in my situation? And how do i explain to my boyfriend who is trying to get his life back on track? (link)
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all i said was DONT rate me, jesus christ, fuck up your life
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ok well my mom just went away. she goes away every january andlast year she almost drowned twice!!! so i had this dream a month ago and i woke up crying because i thought she was dead, and it took me a while, and i really mean a while, to figure out it was a dream cause i thought it really happened. and i keep having these day dreams of her dying. idk whats wrong. please help me cause i don't want to be like going up to my mom saying "can i see a psychiotrist,i keep having day dreams of u dieing." so psychiotrist is out of the question. please help!!
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your just worried about your mom dying thats all, if one bad thing happened to her like you said she almost drowned twice, your worried that its going to happen again, and you dont want it to. maybe if you talked to your mom about what happened, you wont have these dreams anymore and youll realize everythings okay with your mom. i would think that its normal to have them, pretty soon they'll go away, dont get so paranoid hun. x0 Renee
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hi my name is kayla!! ive been having problems with this boy named nick!me and him go to a diffrent school and most of the ppl dont like me @ his school!! i went out with him alot and most of the times i broke up with him!! he tells me he loves me and he doesnt have a bf when he says it! well reciently i did somthing with a boy!! but i olny made out with him!!nick called me and asked me if i did that and i said yes!! i told him that i didnt know he would care soo much!! but he did!! i luv this boy,nick! we met last year @ a skating rink and i cant never seem to let him go!
i cry almost everynight over him!!! i tell him this but he doesnt say anything! we stay silent on the phone untill he changes the subject!!i dont want to do anything ill regret!! to him or me!! i really want him back!i think hes scared to get hurt again but i told him i wouldnt hurt him again!!!and last night when i told him the truth about making out! he said that hes not gonna lie he likes his ex!! jessica! and they went out like 2 years ago!! hes goin out with her now!! and im beatin her azz!! how can i get him back!! i need help!! this is seriously a matter of life or death!! dont be mean about your answer pleaze!! IM me lildreamhunny14 or email me kaylashott@aol.com (link)
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well i just think that you should wait until they break up, he knows how you feel, good think you told him, he'll probably break up with her, cuz i think the only reason hes going back out with his ex is because you did something with some other guy and you guys barely see eachother, you guys will probably go back out soon, and hopefully you guys will see eachother alot more and just cheer up, things will work out =) x0
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Recently, I've been acting so annoying. It's starting to irritate all my friends and my boyfriend and I aren't getting along because of it. I just moan, whine, repeat myself and act stupid all the time. I can't help it, I never used to be like that. How do I stop? (link)
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well since its affecting your relationship with your friends and your boyfriends, i think you will notice that you are annoying(and you do) so i think you would be able to stop, think before you do anything, cuz yea sometimes people just have these spur of a moment things and do something really stupid and immature but we stop that once someone gives us a dirty look ya know, but think how you act, your acting immature if you do things that irritate your friends n boyfriend. so think b4 you do something! x0
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any tips on how to housebreak a 10m month old pit bull terrier mix without using a crate?!!! i need help please....
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well usually when their puppies and they go potty in your house, hopefully on tile floor, they usually(i would think) go to a spot and always go there.. and when you see your dog goes there, try to get him outside before he actually goes.. thats what i did with my dog, he got used to it and whenever he gots to go he goes to the door and we let him out, and no more accidents! =) hope that works for you! those kinds of dogs that you have are adorable =) x0
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Okay, everyone thinks that I made up having a boyfriend. I mean why would my friends think that. It seems so much like I made him up because he was a great guy, and I was too embarassed of friends and family to introduce him to any of them. And he wasn't cute, so I was to embarassed to take any pictures with him, and now the relationship is over b/c he is 18 and I guess he wasn't such a great guy b/c he was cheating on me. But he went to a different school, then he moved to a different state. All my friends think he's made up because if I'm on AOL he isn't, but if he's on then I'm not. How can I get them to understand that my x was made up? (link)
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things will blow over, dont stress yourself out about it, im' not quite sure what your saying, are you saying that you DiD make up your boyfriend, or you DiDN'T? but whatever it is, dont get too stressed out about it. sry its not good, but i tried to help you... x0
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i had a bad day today i mean a REALLY bad day what should i do to cheer myself up? thanx! (link)
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talk to your friends, if they piss you off, just get off the computer/phone and take a nap, get something to eat but not alot because its bad to eat when your upset i guess. do something you like to do, sketch draw paint write watch tv or a movie! i have a journal online, i always write in it, everyday, and all i do is write down how i feel about things what i did.. x0 hope you feel better, CHEER UP! =)
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my best friend doesnt like my other best friend. waht do I do> shortie (link)
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hang out with one, then like the next day hang out with the other, and when one of your best friends talks about the other one, dont agree because if you agree with them its going to cause problems and fights, and you dont want that, this happened to me before, i would alwasy change the subject if they mention eachother because i dont want anything to go wrong, because i like them both! well hopefully no fights will happen. x0
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hey! ok so me and my boyfriend have sex frequently and sometimes we dont use a condom...but i tend to queef a lot and i was wondering what that might be from? or if its normal? or if theres anyway to prevent or minimalize it...he doesnt seem to mind it but it annoys me and makes me self concious in bed...any help would be great! thanks:-) (link)
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its normal to queef lol you just get air in your vag and when you move a certain way you let out the air, causing a queef. if your bf doesn't mind it thats the only thing that really matters dont you think. x0
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there r 3 girls i like at my school, but they all have bfs already with no sign of breaking up, ive been really good friends with them for a while and have gone out with them in the past, i just really miss having a gf and im lookin for advice
ps-dont say look for other girls cuz every1 else at my school is too preppy and green (link)
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you dont really need a girlfriend, all you really need is friends/best friends. your better off just having friends because usually relationships dont work out and then your not friends with them anymore, but if your friends with girls they'll stay around alot longer. if they got bfs dont try to make them break up with them because thats not right to do, just still be friends with them and be there for them all the time, then when they do break up you'll be there for her/them the whole time. x0 Renee
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I overheard one of my friends telling a boy how I had criend over what she oviously thought was nothing and laughing over it. Sometimes she runs away from some of her other friends (who are also my friends) and me with her bitchy friend, then pretends it was nothing and that Im over reacting. Then she is really friendly again.She has done this so many times now I secretly don't like her at all. However, she is really popular and I think if I stopped being her friend all my friends would still be with her as she has this way of making people side with her. I don't know what to do about it..(Sorry about the length).
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i kinda know waht your going thru, happened to me b4, well actually like 2 weeks ago i was JUST with my friends that day and that night when i went home they hung out with this girl whos a total bitch and then all of a sudden my 2 friends HATE me so much. i dont get some girls, they always do it, its a normal thing to go thru, you start to realize who your true friends are, i think if you stopped being friends with her you woulnd't have to deal with her crap about talking about you and doing what shes doing, the better thing to do is not to be friends with her anymore, because if ur still friends with her, the fights/? will happen over and over, they wont stop until you stop it. x0 Renee
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Months ago I meet this guy,fell in love,he was the 1 who said he loved me 1st!! Then we broke-up,but we'd still tell each other we loved each other. Every time we were together something would happen ether we'd kiss or have sex!! (this is after months of being apart) But I'v told him am not a sex toy. & Resently I told him I still love him, he said that he does love me but he doesn't know how strongly, in what way or if he loves me like I love him any more!! I asked him what he wanted to happen between us but he said "I don't know just now" Am so confused & I know no1 else can tell me how he fells but can some1 at less give me some advise on what to do?? (link)
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tell him how you feel about him, or just move on, because seems to me is that hes just using you for his sexual needs, sorry hun, but if you still love him or like him alot tell him and see what he says to it or his reactions to it is. x0 Renee
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some mentioned that a patch is a contraceptive.. what does this mean ? how does it work? (link)
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it means that it pervents you from getting pregnant, the patch contains hormornes, and the hormones are drained into your body to help stimulate the eggs that you give off, it prevents you to become pregnant, and it works too. x0 Renee
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I was wondering what straighteners are good to use? like not get it chemically straightened but with a flat iron. ive been looking for a good one but i cant find one. what is the name and where can i find one? also is there anything to put in my hair like after a shower or somthing that would make it straighten better? thanks
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i dont know what brand i have but get a ceramic straightener, they work the best, their the ones with goldish plates on it. all i do to striaghten my hair, take a shower, blow dry until fully dried, then i heated up the straightener and then straightened my hair. and it works fine, theres sprays and gells to help keep your hair straight throughout the day, you just have to dry a bunch of them to find out what you like best (some when you run your fingers thru your hair will make your hair become statike or whatever) x0 Renee
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my name's gabby im 14
i was dating this guy named brett for 7 days he's 14 also
everything was going great... then it got rocky... we broke up and he said there is a slight possiblity we could hook back up but it wouldn't be now...
here it goes....
I was dating this guy! his 14 and im 14 and we've known each other since we were 5 ( but have never been really close friends) he was perfect for me!! i thought everything was going good! we both agreed that we would talk about everything.. we set bouyndries... he even told me he would never break up with me!! we started talking during class (text messeging) and we were trying to plot a time when it would be great to start telling each other we loved each other ... we agreed that when ever one of us felt that we loved each other we would tell the other one but not expect it said in return! after 5 days of going out i asked him how long he thought we would go out and he said at the minimum a year and i was liek whoa thats a long time but if we really liek each other it could happen right?? well the next day he texted me and said that we needed to talk that night
and i asked him what it was about and he said we'll talk about it later and so i asked him if he was gunna break up with me and he said no and so i was still a lil worried about it and then that after noon after school he told me he would call me back .. and he never did... that night he told my friend to tell me that i needed to move on... so i texted him and said that i loved him and that i would never cheat on him ( since someone told him i was back with my x) and that i would never do anythign to hurt him and that i would give anythign if me and him would hook back up... like 20 minutes ago i texted him and told him that i still cared about him and that if he ever needed anythign that i was would be there...
all i really want is for me and him to go back out... he means everything to me! all i want is a way to tell him that i love him and he means the world to me and i would give anythign to be back with him but i don't want to sound clingy or desperate...
should i call him and find out exactly why he ended that relationship? should i wait for hiim? should i move on?? was i wrong in telling him i love him? is it worth hooking back up?
my friend suggested that i take a break for guys for about a month and forget about brett... but i don't think i can i need him in my life as my boyfriend!!
i know no one will ever understand how great he makes me feel... and i know no one could understand why i criied for 5 hours...
HOW DO I ASK HIM BACK OUT?
please help me!! as soon as you can
thank you!!
x3 always,
Wanting him back
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i would call him and ask about why he dumped you, thats waht i would do. i know that you guys have known eachother for like what, 11 years, but since you guys were friends/best friends, i dont think that when you guys went out it made anything better, and you telling him that you loved him i dont think was a good idea.. maybe you guys being friends were better. sorry hun, cheer up there plenty of guys out there, tlak to your friends they'll help you feel better, and whatever, dont ask him back out, there was a reason that you guys broke up and i dont think all of a sudden he'll want to be back together..sorry. x0 Renee
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I`m more of a sexual type of girl. I haven't had sex or ever gave oral or had oral but i'm sexual in that kind of way. All my friends tell me I should date older guys because the way i am. My current boyfriend who i like alot isn`t perverted like I want him to be. I told him I don't mind him touching me or feeling me up or anything but he only acts like a perve at rare times. I want him to be more sexual. If i gave permission to any other guy even his best friends they would be all over me.. i just really don't get him and i know he wants to be sexual. Like during a movie he puts his hand up my shirt but it's not all the time, he worrys about making out with me more. I`m 13 and hes 12 turning 13 in February. Should i just date older guys in the future? Thnx for reading I give feedback.. xxOo (link)
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hes probably afraid to do something wrong that you wont like and then you would break up with him, in the beginning of a relationship and the other gives you permission to do something, usually the others reaction is kinda stalled because they are afraid to do something stupid, dont worry about it, later in the realtionship things will begin to move on and i'm sure he will be like that, you both are still young and just take it slow, dont make him don things he doesn't want to do! x0 Renee
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