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I'm Michelle. I'm 17 years old and going to be a senior in high school. I work at Giant full time during the summer- 40 hours a week. I love to have fun, talk, and my boyfriend. Asssk me anything!

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-Wouldn`t life be perfect if sweatpants were sexy
mondays were fun , food didn`t make you Fat -
girls didn`t cause Drama, boys werent so confusing
nothing was regrettable , friendships didn`t fade*
you didn`t have to lose people that you love , and
goodbyes only ment until (-tToOmMmMoOrRoOwW-

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what kind of stores do u shop at? im looking for new clothes but dont know where to shop.

I usually shop like @ Gadzooks, American Eagle, Hects, Belks, Wet Seal, Khols (*sometimes), and I just got some stuff @ Rave. There aren't really any good stores around where I live =( but my friend likes Hollister and Abercrombie & Fitch. I went to Hollister once and I couldn't figure out how to get in the store...then I finally did. But the music gave me a headache so I left. And I think Abercrombie doesn't really have cute clothes for girls, but they have cute clothes for guys. So if I was a guy, I'd shop there, but I'm not..so I don't
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hi, i really want to have oral sex with my mom but I'm not sure how to tell her. How do you think I should go about doing this? I'm 14 and a guy.

uhmm, I think you should keep it to yourself and not tell her...she'll probably really freak out. But if you really really want to then I guess you should just tell her that you want to have oral sex w.her. I don't think theres a very subtle or good way of telling her...Good Luck!
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i'm in middle school and we have the popular cheerleaders. Everyone tells me how thin and beautiful i am. And the popular girls aren't that pretty, but all the boys love them. I'm not a cheerleader but i think i'm just as good as those girls. why don't the boys notice me?

Either they don't notice you because you're not popular enuff for them or cheerleaders are just easier. Guys are pretty dumb sometimes and they only like popular girls. You don't want a guy like that...just wait for one who notices you over cheerleaders-- that's the kind of guy you want. So you just have to wait to meet him...
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i took this test on the internet because i have always thought i had add. i've never told anyone this b4 though so i was a little scared when i was takeing the test. im only 13 years old and it said if u chose 8 or more out of 20 of the questions then u are highly too have add. well i got 10/20 and i dont know if i should tell my mom what should i do?

Yah...you should def. tell your mom...but you might not wanna be like "I took a test online and it said I might have ADD" You should probably be like, "Mom, I've been having a hard time concentrating in school, I have for a while but now it's really getting serious, do you think I can go to the doctor and get this checked out and maybe a medication?" or smthn like that..but remember that those tests aren't always accurate and you might just have a short attention span..not ADD
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My hair is naturally curly so it doesn't look fine.. but you said your hair was fine.. but in your hc pic it doesnt look like that.. howd you do it?

Well I went to a hairplace to get it done...but what they did was they twisted it back (*like they gave me corn rows all the way around my head) and then they took my hair and pinned it up (*like a pony tail...except pinned)...and then they curled it...I dn..it was really confusing how they did it..and it took forever!! But it made me look like I had soo much more hair then I do
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this guy and i have been liking eachother for over a year and things are starting to happen. he has slept with 6 girls ao i guess he might be considered a "whore" im a virgin and he knows that and he told me that he liked me enough not to have sex with me. the thing is that i want to have sex with him. i think im ready and i trust him completely. i just dont know if im too young or if i might regret it so i kind of need some help. by the way im 16 if that helps at all..

If you want to and think you're ready..then have sex w.him!! But you're taking the chance to get pregnant or STDs (*and he mite have one since he's slept w.6 girls..) So if you're worried then don't do it. But if you're not, then do it! Also you have to be SURE you're ready you can't just "think" u are...and if hes around the same age as you..I really doubt he's loved all 6 girls...and you should really love someone if you're gonna have sex w.them. You'll like lots of people but you won't have sex with them all...so you should def. make sure he loves you and you love him
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i'm mo and i'm female. my friend keeps saying stuff like 'our parents do something really bad. i wish i could tell you but i can't!'. It's really scaring me, I'm afraid they really are doing something bad. And unlike her, i really love my parents, and i dont want this to happen to them, or move out, or anything like that. HELP!

I'm confussed...so your parents and your friends parents do bad things together? If thats what you mean..tell her exactly what you just told us...that you love them and you are worried. If she still can't tell you...she isn't a very good friend..you could start keeping secrets that she wants to know from her and rub them in her face..and then she'll see how it feels...but that might make her mad
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well when i was younger i thought having sex at 14 was horrible. but now im starting to think well maybe its not so bad.. sex at 11 or 12 is bad. i know people who have done it and theyre younger than me. im 13. so what is a good age for sex.. does age even matter?

confused..

elle

Well you should wait untill you're married, love the other person, or think you're ready. People say its when you're ready and age doesn't matter..but 11, 12, even 13 yrs old...thats kinda of wrong (*to me @ least) they shouldn't be thinking about it they're waaay to young and don't understand
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I'm going out w/ the greatest guy ever, but unfortunately he lives like, 45 mins. away. so anyway, there's this kid, matt, at school who's always kinda had this crush on me. well 2day in school, i hugged him like usual, cuz we're such good friends, and he gave me a kiss on the cheek. i just wanna know if this is ok, cuz i would never wanna cheat on my bf.
thx
Erin

It's ok...he kissed you...you didn't kiss him...just don't let him do it again. Tell him you have a boyfriend and even tho its just on the cheek and all...hugging is more on the friendship level then kissing on the cheeks
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I have really thin hair.. what do i do?! HELP!

I have really thin hair too. But its not thin. Thin would mean like..you are going bald. It's "fine" not thin. So i dn if you mean fine or thin..but..I use Pantene Pro-V Full and Thick shampoo and conditioner..it helps a little bit..not as much as its supposed to..but it helps. I try to poof it up when I blow dry it...it helps a little..but not too much either. So try to like flip your head over when you're blow drying and just poof it up. Unfortunately, it takes too long for me to do my hair anyways...so I can't do this...but if you have time, you should curl it so you have bigger hair. Also putting it in a high mony tail and curling it works really well. It really sucks because besides poofing it up, curling it, and using thickening shampoo..theres not much you can do. But if you have thin hair..not fine hair..you can use rogaine (*sp?)
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ok so i have this friend who acts like the best person in the world around me....... but shes like bitchy around other people so i get mad at her and when i hear people talkin about her like badly i don't say nething, is that bad? and should i tell her that people are talkin about her?

Maybe you should like..mention it without being so obvious...like say "___ got mad at you you yesterday when you said ____" or "When you said ___ it started a bunch of rumors" or smthn and if shes like "Why" or smthn say "Well..they all think you act kinda bitchy..." and just go from there...make sure she knows that the way she acts around you is good and the way she acts around other people is bad...it's hard to tell people stuff like that...but shes your friend and you should
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Hey- i am i twin n not very happy about it...my twin is always there n she gets to be kind of annoying sometimes...we even have to share a room which does not make manners ne better. I love my sister n everything...but we have to do everything together...we have all the same friends, do all the same sports, n r basiclly always together. I want my own life, i feel like i have to share it and i really dont like that. The other thing is that not very many people like my twin. I have been not invited to parties n other stuff because people do not want her to come and they would feel bad if they only invited me. I do feel bad for my sister tho. She is always breaking down because she thinks everyone hates her (which is kind of true, but i would never have the heart to tell her that) and i try to help her. I just want to get away.. my mom doesnt understand and neither to most of my friends. Can u help me?
-attached twin

Well for getting your own life...just try to make new friends, try new sports, join new clubs and stuff. If your sister is like "Oh I have to go with you" Be like "No that's ok I can go by myself" or "I think we should try to do seperate things, so we don't depend on each other so much" Like Mary-Cate and Ashley. They're still twins and

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okay.... i have a crush... well more than a crush on this guy. He is so so nice and really good looking. he has the best abs and body. The only hook to this awsome guy is he's...well.. my brother. What should i do? Should i tell him my feelings or should i keep it hush, hush?

Please Help Me.

Wow...if you tell him...he'll freak out and probably feel really weird around you...I'd just get over him like you would any other guy and not tell anyone...unless you just can't get over him...then you should get therapy..because you just should NOT like your brother that way
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DOes anyone have the hilary duff CD? is it good/worth buying?
thanx!!
i'll rate

I have it...its pretty good..but that's the kind of music I listen to..
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what is a good black eyeliner? im useing mac right now and in school im in swim class and even when im not wet it seems 2 run down my face.. Does ne one know a good black eyeliner that does not run when i get wet or ne thing.. THANKS

UmMm I forget the name but Maybelline has a good waterproof one..just go to the make-up section anywhere like CVS or wal-mart and look in the maybelline section..and for not waterproof Rimmel works great!! I use Jet Black...
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I need to lose weight. I am 5'0' and I weigh 150. I am a pretty girl, nice boobs and nice butt but my stomach is chubby, I really want to lose 30
what is the best way to lose weight
Please help me!
Thanks!

Eat healthier foods...like instead of getting chips or chandy for a snack get an apple! And also try excercising a lot. Like if you aren't in shape, try walking for 2 minutes, then jogging for 2 minutes, then walking, then jogging. Do it for a half hour 3 times a week. Then start doing it more often and jogging for longer. Oh I just remmebered it's starting to get cold outside. Well every month in Seventeen magazine they have a different work out. They're really really good!! So you should def. get that magazine (*if you don't have it already) Also you can just go to wal-mart and buy some weights or other exercise equipment and just use them. My mom work @ Curves and a lot of people loose weight there...I don't really go there because the spray they use to disinfect the machines makes me sick..lOl but I go sometimes because my parents make me...
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Yea, me and my friends have done that.. we have like sward fights with noodles in toys r us and ride around on bikes and whatnot.. yea, that girls a bitch and stuck up.. i doubt shes all the popular.. but yea, we totally do stuff like that when we're out.. We did it sometimes @ school, but not as much in the halls cuz pretty much we're all goody goodys that get good grades :x.. lol but like last year, the last day of school, we skiped every class and just hung out in the gym and in random classrooms, we were doin cartwheels in the halls.. I duno, the bitchy girls that THINK everyone likes them, no one does.. i hate ppl like that, i wana barf cuz they think they're sooooo cool..

Yah I hate people like that too. And the ones who fake tan...can't stand it, they look so orange n fake
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hey, 2morro is halloween, and i was wondering, wat would b some things yu could do with a couple friends? we're in 8th gradeee. thx =)

Go trick or treating, rent scary movies and watch them @ someones house, go to the movies (*the grudge is the only scary one I know of...) go to a haunted house or just hang out and give candy to trick or treaters
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My Boyfriend and me just had a little fight , well the head cheerleader heard about it and now she's al over my boyfriend and were not even broken up , well we made up and she still wants him , she like bends down in front of him with her cheerleader clothes on or she trys to sit with us and well she drives me crazy , but the thing is my boyfriend dosnt like her and he's the star Quarterback on the football team, and he tells her to back off , is he the good kind of boyfriend every gurl wants? plz help

Aww..he seems really nice and into you, not her...i dn what every girl wants but he seems like a great boyfriend for telling her to back off and stuff
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For some reason, I keep getting kicked off AIM. Normally it will say that the connection was lost but it's happened about 10 times in the last hour. I'll be typing something to someone and I'm trying to figure out why they aren't answering me, and then a couple seconds later the log on screen for AIM shows up and then it takes FOREVER to connect again. Is there something wrong with my AIM or is it a virus? Does anyone have any tips as to what I should do to fix this? It's never happened before and I'm getting really pissed off at it. As I'm typing this, it just logged me off again!!! Before, I had logged off my screen on the computer and then logged back on. Help me! I'm getting annoyed!

Try restarting your computer...that used to happen to me when I had AIM +...if you have it..get rid of it...because it messes up alot! Just restart your computer and try reconecting...if it doesn't work good for a couple days, delete it from your computer and download it again. It might be your internet conection messing up (*like they're doing construction and if you have cable internet, they could be disrupting the cable lines) Or if you have Dial-Up it might be really busy or smthn
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