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Trouble with twins
Hey- i am i twin n not very happy about it...my twin is always there n she gets to be kind of annoying sometimes...we even have to share a room which does not make manners ne better. I love my sister n everything...but we have to do everything together...we have all the same friends, do all the same sports, n r basiclly always together. I want my own life, i feel like i have to share it and i really dont like that. The other thing is that not very many people like my twin. I have been not invited to parties n other stuff because people do not want her to come and they would feel bad if they only invited me. I do feel bad for my sister tho. She is always breaking down because she thinks everyone hates her (which is kind of true, but i would never have the heart to tell her that) and i try to help her. I just want to get away.. my mom doesnt understand and neither to most of my friends. Can u help me?
-attached twin
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Well for getting your own life...just try to make new friends, try new sports, join new clubs and stuff. If your sister is like "Oh I have to go with you" Be like "No that's ok I can go by myself" or "I think we should try to do seperate things, so we don't depend on each other so much" Like Mary-Cate and Ashley. They're still twins and <3 each other and have a buisness and all, but they have seperate lives too. And since no one likes her...making a group of friends that are only YOURS..they won't feel bad about not inviting her because they won't know her. If she wants to be friends with them...you just might have to tell her that you want a group of friends that are just yours or smthn. But finding friends that like you BOTH is probably the best thing to do. People will always feel bad inviting you and not her..so you can't do much about that..except try to make her fit in more, and try distinguishing yourself from her. Make sure people know you're not a 'set'...don't dress exactly the same or talk/act exactly the same....just be you! and not your sister....
=) HoPe I HeLpEd!
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