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Hi Everyone. I'm Alli. ♥

So after a 3 year break. I'm back and ready to answer any of your questions you may have. I hope to help anyone & everyone as best as I can. Have a good day!

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ok well theres this new girl named kristen that came to our school like 4 months ago and she acts all popular and shes really mean.anyways one day our teacher was picking partners for a project and she picked my best friend diana and kristen:(then they started playing with each other and doing everything together.kristen is just taking diana away from me:(so what should i do?i want my best friend diana back!

Aww, i could really relate to what your talking about. I have had MANY friends taken away as well. What you should do is, talk to your friend diana. Tell her you don't want to lose her, and tell her how you really feel. If shes a true friend, she will listen. Take Care.

♥ Alli*

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Could anyone tell me of a site where I can get the song `Do it for the kids` by Velvet Revolver?

Um, maybe try Velvet Revolver's main site ? Like velvetrevolver.com or .net it should give you audio or video of the song. you should try that, but sorry im not much help.

♥ alli*

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wut is a 3 sum?

A 3-Sum is when 3 people have sex, most of the time at the same time.it could be 3girls, 2guys and a girl, 2girls and a guy, or 3 guys. Doesn't matter.

♥ Alli*

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my mom is gay and now im startign to tell my friends and they like me for who i am not what my mom is or isnt but now there is a nasty girl across the street and i guess she saw my mom and her girlfriend kissing and now shes telling everyone and its not sucha great way to start off my summer.should i really care what other people are going to say do you think its gonna ruin my years coming in school if i admit to everyoner that my mother is a lesbian?

You shouldn't care what other people think about your mom. If your friends are accepting that your mom is gay, then those are true friends you should keep =) Screw what other people think.

♥ Alli*

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hey...i'm not really a skinny stick person like all the other girls at our school and it makes me so depressed cuz my friend and i both like the same guy but my friend is really pretty and skinny and i'm neither of those and i always get so jealous because she has a better chance with him than i do...what should i do?

Aw, well, don't get jealous just because "you think" she has a better chance with him. You should find a guy that likes you for who you are, not what you look like. Plus, it doesn't matter if your friend is prettier and skinnier, who said she had him in the first place ? =) You should always be happy about yourself, and the right guy will come sooner or later. I PROMISE.
Take care sweetie, ♥ Always - Alli

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heyy alli..this is one of ur close frenz hint hint....anyways i like this guy and he likes me but he has a gf whose getting in mi way and he wont dump her cuz he feels bad wat shud i do? tell him off?

Hey you :),


Well, if this "guy" truely likes you, then he would dump his girl with no further feelings.If it doesnt happen, i think you should just find someone else, without a girlfriend thats likes you as much as you would like him. Love you,

XO0 ~ ALLi

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So i have this "friend" that thinks everyone likes her and all and she's always like "oh everyone's posing me" and what not. and she CONSTANTLY wants to prove something to me, like she's better than me or something. and i frankly, don't care if she's better or not, but what really bugs me is that one of my bestfriends is ALWAYS complaining about how annoying she is but always goes out of her way to be nice to the "annoying" kid. i talked to her about it already and it didn't help but strain our relationship. and quite frankly, a lot of kids think she's kinda...awkward but they all STILL go out of their way to please her and all. it's gotten to the point that i just can't stand being around her because of her so focking annoying behavior. she ALWAYS wants people to pity her ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS and she ALWAYS thinks people are posing her when in reality, she's as much of a poseur as any of us. this has been bugging me for the longest time so what do you think i should do? sitting down and talking to her is definitely not a choice because she's such a butthole.

Hi Hun, Sorry to hear about this friend of yours. Hmm.. I know this sounds weird, but iv'e had a friend like this a while ago. I know it seems like she wants to be "miss popular", or the most beautiful, or anything like that. I know this sounds a little mean, but if your this annoyed of her behavior and/or personality, you should try making some new friends that you can actually hang around or thats more like you. Because every girl is beautiful in there own way, and if someone like this girl your mentioning is putting herself out there too much, then she really doesnt have a true beauty. It doesn't seem like shes really a poser.. but maybe sort of a "Push Out Girl". If you know what that means.. But like i said. If this has been annoying you long enough, you should consider making new friends. And in the end, she will finally realize what shes been doing wrong.
Hope i helped,
L0VE ALWAYS, ALLi * X0XO

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No matter what i tell myself to do. I can't do it. I like this guy. I say to myself I'm going to go say hi to him, but when i see him i can't. I feel weird saying hi to someone that i don't have eye contact with. what do i do to get him to want to talk to me and look at me in the eyes not stare at me when he thinks that i'm not looking. what do i do?

P.S ~ he doesn't have s/n

I understand how nervous you can be, especially if you really adore him. Next time you see him give him a little smile, maybe he will notice? Its worked for me before, Or if you have a couple friends that arent nervous, can go up to him and talk to him for you? Always be flirty :) It catches guys attention. Hoped i helped a bit.

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a couple of weeks ago my friend i will call her "Sarah" just got dumped. And her ex dumped her because of another girl. he would not even tell her that though he made his friends tell her. but it seems like he still likes her but when i ask him he just says "yeah right no way you wish" and he is always looking at her in a good way. and he is always talking to her and stuff. is he cheeting on both girls? What should i do? thanks in advance. I rate 5s

Wow, it seems like this boy is playing these two girls both. You should definitely tell your friend, "sarah" whats going on. Also this other girl hes hurting too. I don't know for sure what they would say because i obviously don't know them, but in the end i gurantee this kid will get back fire. Thanks,

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i was @ my friends house and i stole 40$ should i give it back, because she has no idea it was in her closet.

Well, you should give it back if u havent used it yet. Also i know its none of my business but you shouldn't really steal. if u havent spent it just put the money right back where it was.
~*JustAskAlli*~

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Ok heres the problem.. my friend got her peroid in 5th grade.. so she gets it normally now.. but when she was supposed to get it this month she didnt.. She never had sex.. what could be the problem?

Well first of all.. if she never had sex then shes not pregnant. But your hormones are sometimes trying to be balanced so that my occur from time 2 time.. but if this month starts to get longer in time she would might wanna talk to her doctor. There could be a problem. xoxo
~*JuStASkAlli*~

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hey alli. what do u do when ur stepdad and mom just broke up i cant get over i miss mi stepdad and i cry and cry and i dont know wat to do!

- jenny-

Hey Jenny,

I dont know if this will help but, maybe you should just try to not think of your stepdad as much. Or vise-versa maybe you should write to your stepdad or talk to him often. This is tough but i hope i helped some. Thanks! Take care. =)

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Ive been with my boyfriend for about 3 years and when i entered middle school everyone started making fun of me because my boyfriend is a different race. He means alot to me but i am soo tired of all the laughs and jokes i get from a lot of people. What should i do??

Sincerely,
I really love him.. but just annoyed

wow.. thats horrible that people make fun of you and your man just bcuz your guy is a diff. race. Dont let what other people say get in the way. If you love your boyfriend you would stick with your relationship. Especially 3 years. Screw what other people say! Be true to your heart.
Love,
*j.a.a*

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I have been in a relationship for a long time. I recently discovered that my girlfriend wants to bring another woman into our sex life...what should i do??? I realy care about my girlfriend i wonder if it would ruin what we have???

If you really dont want another woman in your sex life then just tell your girlfriend no. If she is true and real she wouldnt mind. Hope it helped. Thanks.

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Okay, I'm like 13 and guys around 15 nd 16 are interested in me. But like I dont think I want to go out with em' becuase most guys that age just want some ass. Yet at the same time I like older guys because some of em' can be mature unlike guys my age. And what I'm looking for is a sweet guy. Do you all know how or where I could find guys like that?

lol yes that is true sometimes all they want is some ass. But actually guys who are older arent really much more mature if their deciding to go out with a 13 year old. Go to an age group of your own.. even 14 is O.K but find someone close to the limit. I hoped it helped!
Love,
J.A.A =)

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ok heres the deal sorry if it's kinda longg..

well my boyfriend one day got into a fight and i was so like depressed nd shit that i cut myself and yeah but then we got the fight resolved, and like we went out for a week after skool ended and then he dumped me cuz he felt guilty for being my boyfriend and not being able to see me..and he went out with this grl nikki from his camp, then after that we got back together and then after like 2 weeks he dumped me again same reason diff. girl her name is lauren (also goes to his camp) then dumped lauren and went for another grl katilin who came to vist from maryland for a week and then dumped her and now were going out... notice the pattern and i think he does love me on some extent but he also has to be with other girls oh and b4 katilin i went to bahamas for a week and didnt have fone service so i didnt get 2 talk to him and my bff told me that while i was gone he hit on her and told her he loved her nd everything and also now wen were going out he still sometimes tells her that even though shes not interested and like he told me that during the yr. he has to dump me and go out with this gurl nicole to help her make her ex boyfriend jealouse cuz he cheated on her but she likes my boyfriend (whos name is charlie by the way)!! ?? help!!!!!!!!! is he just desparate?? lost intrest?? cheating?? does he really love me??? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! or

Wow.. What a player! Girl what are you thinking? First of all.. he doesnt seem like a real " Best friend " If some guy goes from girl to girl like that.. thats not right. Cutting yourself is also a major issue, alot of people do it but it is dangerous and scary. This kid named charlie is definitley cheating as you can see and i seriously think this guy is desprate. Girl you can do better, find someone who has time for you and isnt off and on with you too! Hope it helped.
Love,
*J.A.A*

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School is starting soon and that means yearbook pictures! im so nervous mine is gonna look bad...is there any way to like practice to make sure u look good or what?

You dont have to really practice for your yearbook picture. But sometimes what i do is just practice my smiling. Its nothing you should be uptight or worried about. Hope it helped - J.A.A =)

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me and my bestfriend seat with our friends at lunch but we found out they r the most boring people! what can we do to get away form them w/o hurting there feelings?

Its hard but i cant say much (sorry) dont say anything rude. Maybe you could just tell them what your really feeling. Hope it helped. Thanks

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ok i used to like this guy name derek... and he liked me too but he had a gf... so they broke ^ eventually but he decided he didnt like me anymore.. so i was like ok thats cool w/e.. so he gets a new gf named brenda. now i guess he wasnt expecting me to get a bf but i did.. his name is jake. and so i had i love you soo--> much jake in my a.m. and he saw it and he goes jake.. ewwwww why him lol? ((him and jake are supposed to be good friends but idk hu treats their friends like that)) and i was like yea jake.. and i was like is there something rong w/ that and uk i was sticking up for him but he kept on asking me all these ?'s like about me and jakes relationship. so uk i answer them then all the sudden hes like telling me how him and his gf are great and their going to a movie that night and all this crapp.. like to make me jealous cause he knew i like him. i told him i did AND HE TOLD ME HE LIKED ME TOO!!! hes like you should go to pulse when i go.. and to the teen fest cause ill be there... but ill be with

Any kid like that doesnt treat you like that even if he says he likes u. No guys should make you jealous stick with the one you know best and the one who cares about you the most. hope it helped. thanks

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Hey. My questin is I have a friend who is like the "it" girl. She is all into make-up and stuff I hate. We have been friends for a long time but I feel we are growing apart. I also have a friend who I can just be me around and I feel comfortable showing who I am to her.I need to know how to tell the "it" friend that I dont want to be friends anymore. I feel like who I am around her is this stupid bimbo. My other friend is the best person in the world and we can just be around each other and laugh all day. i hate pretending to be someone else. What do I do?

You shouldnt give up on your friend who seems to be the " it " girl. Tell her what your feeling. Tell her that your not into it. Dont give up on any friends. Dont tell her to change.. but tell her to be herself when shes around you.

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