No matter what i tell myself to do. I can't do it. I like this guy. I say to myself I'm going to go say hi to him, but when i see him i can't. I feel weird saying hi to someone that i don't have eye contact with. what do i do to get him to want to talk to me and look at me in the eyes not stare at me when he thinks that i'm not looking. what do i do?
Claire15 answered Wednesday May 18 2005, 1:27 pm: It's just nerves hunni, it happens to everyone. What you need to do is get one of your friends who knows him to call him over for a chat. If you haven't been introduced, get your friend to introduce you both and then he will have to look at you. Then he will probably start chatting to you and you can take it from there.
If you already know him, before your friend calls him over, agree on a topic that she'll talk about so that your prepared. Then let her talk to him for a while about it and then eventually tell her to ask your opinion. Then he'll hopefully respond to you and you'll be able to have a chat with him.
Either way, you'll be a little closer to him and hopefully next time you see him, he'll smile or say hi. If he doesn't, pluck up the courage to do it yourself. He won't laugh or anything, he'll respond to you. That way you'll become closer.
DHunter answered Wednesday May 18 2005, 8:56 am: The next time you walk by him look at him and smile. If he smiles back thats a perfect sign he'd be willing to talk to you. Another thing you can do is get a close friend who isnt shy to go up to him for you when your close by and she something to him like "My friend ---- over there would like to have your number or, wants you to call her tonight) It works ive done it for someone already lol. Hope this advice helped. Anything else just ask. [ DHunter's advice column | Ask DHunter A Question ]
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