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Long story short, I'm from Los Angeles, went to an amazing school, left the US and moved to the Middle East. I've been backpacking around Europe and the Middle East on and off since August 2013.


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Quite frankly, I'm sarcastic way more than I should be. Read a few of my answers, and you'll see that I am not totally mean to anyone.

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I really like this guy..and i no he doesn't no i exist because i have never talked to him. I don't no why i like him, mabye because he is cute, but i just do. I want to know what I could do to get his attention or somthing or if it is a minor crush and if i should just get over it. He seems really nice and i really like him, i even dreamed about him a few times!! HELP ME PLEASE!!!

Just because you've never spoken doesn't mean he doesn't know you exist, first of all. Well, I'm actually not one for "getting a guy's attention" by doing anything in particular. All of my guy friends just noticed me and then we were friends. But I guess that doesn't help you all too much, now, does it?

The best way to meet people is through extracurriculars. I know that it's summer, and so if you have a friend who knows him, tell that friend to invite him along. Then, if you realize that it is a minor crush and you think yu should move on, you're not stuck in an awkward situation.

IGAM (15/f)

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when a guy says he loves u does he mean it?

That obviousl depends on the guy, and there is no hard and fast answer. When one of my friends says it to me, I know he really means it. When someone screams it over their shoulder, I'm thinking not so much.

If you're younger than 16, probably not. I generally hate putting an age on this, but it really does hold true.

IGAM-(15/f)

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I have a small bedroom. Does anyone have any
tips on how I can make it look bigger?

Painting vertical stripes will make it seem taller.

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anybody know the zip code for coneticutt ohio???

www.usps.com does.

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Is it illegal to listen to an ipod while riding a bike IN YOUR OWN NEIGHBORHOOD (which isn't a busy neighborhood or anything)???

thanks. and im under 18 if that helps.

You didn't say where you live. In California, you can have it in one ear and one ear only. Age and neighborhood most likely have no influence.

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Hey. Well, just simply-would you all rather buy a Coach bag or a Marc Jacobs bag?

Here's a Marc Jacobs bag I'm comsidering. What do you think of it?

http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2939291/0~2376779~2374605~6007363~6007366~6007371?mediumthumbnail=Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=6007371&P=1

Thanks

Marc Jacobs. I don't like Coach bags, mainly because they are a cult. EVERYONE feels obligated to have one.

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Ok what is the closest airport to lancaster,CA. I know of two near la. BUR and LAX.. any others?

Burbank
LAX
John Wayne
Palmdale

Palmdale is the closest.

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Does anybody know some rally quick and extremely easy and tasty recipes for fingerfoods? It's a friends birthday and we're thinking of going bowling later, and I'm going to have a cake, a bowl of chocolate dipped pretzels and such, but then I need a plate of tasty fingerfoods. Got any recipes? I'm looking for things such as pigs in blankets and stuff in that category. Thanks!

Asparagus wrapped in bacon and grilled with a squeeze of either lemon or lime juice. Grill them over an open flame.

Once you get the hang of grilling, they go quickly.

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does anyone know what time it would be for 5-6 PM PST and i live in california so what time would it be?

ITS IMPORTANT! pleasee, i suck at doing that so i would really appreciate it

5-6 PM. As theymos said, California is in the Pacific time zone.

This could have been easily googled.

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Does anyone know the name of this model?

http://www2.victoriassecret.com/images/prodpri/V262871.jpg

thanks :)

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_Victoria's_Secret_models

Compare the picture to figure it out. :]

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what is the best eyeliner to buy from sephoras?
links would be great!
thanks in advance
=]

Sephora's own brand is, in myopininon, the best brand ever.

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my best friend is middle eastren and she is muslim. she is really really cool and so open minded. she's nothing like how muslims are portrayed in the media. she goes out has fun but still respects her tradition and stuff and i respect that. recently she's been worried like crazy though. when i asked her she actually confided in me and told me whats the matter... i didn't know what to tell her so i was hoping you guys can help its very serious:


she fell in love with this muslim guy and they love each other soooo much and are planning to get married soon. in islam a girl has to be a virgin to get married and the "only solid proof" of that is if her hymen is still intact. she'as never had sex before so she IS a virgin. that we both know. however, she does masturbate... and she told me she looked it up and it is allowed in islam for her to do so if it meant not having sex before marriage. so far so good. the only problem is that she broke her hymen masturbating and culture/traditional wise no religion wise she will get in so much trouble for that. if she gets married and she doesn't bleed on her first night retributions will be bad (and i mean beyond european and north american bad... i ddnt even want to ask her about them)

now ignore all that. that was just background. my question is there anyway she can repair her hymen? or fake bleeding or something? can a gyno in the states or canada do it for her (she is there to finish college) is there anyyyyway possible to get her out of accusations she is inocent of?

please help she is really panicking... and she cant talk to her parents about it even if she showed them proof that religion does permit it.....it's her country's tradition.....

There is reconstructive surgery available.

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okay so im going to a bat mitzfah. and i have a few questions.

1. Is it formal? Semi-formal? i have a nice dress, one i wore to the school dance, is tht good you think? it was very nice, black & white with flowers and some lace.

2. What kind of present do you give the person? like a gift card or something?

3. Should I do my hair all nice and ware makeup too?

srry idk what to do for this. thnks!!!

My guess is formal. Did the invitation not say?

You can give the person anything, but if you get money or a gift card, give it in a multiple of 18. The number 18 in Hebrew means life. (Chayim)

Yes, you should.

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basically my subject. what is most appealing in a girl to a guy? and why do guys like really slutty girls?

They don't want some desperate, clingy girl hanging around. They, te older you get, value opinionated people. I, for example, am very opinionated and I love to debate, so, since many girls are uninformed, I go and debate with all of the guys. They look for girls that are nice, that will make them laugh, that are fun to be around. I am gaining guy friends like crazy and I think that it is because whenever I'm around, people are always laughing.

I guess you should aska guy.

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how do you add vibrato to your voice? i'm having a big problem with it.. advice from experienced singers please

Well, just say the sound a lot of times. For example, "ee" you sing "ee" over and over very fast until you get it.

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alrighttt. SO. =]
right now i would say im somewhat pretty. prettier then most girls in my school, but not the prettiest which annoys me because like. im what almost 14 and never had a boyfriend but girls who are much uglier and dont have personalities do. (i have one. and im not trying to sound conceited cause im not=] )
i want to do somewhat of a makeover during the summer. like right now im really starting to come out of my shell more because that happens alot when it starts to get hott out. anyways. im trying to do a makeover during summer.
this is what i want to do:
-grow my hair longer.
-get REALLY tan. so that it will last a little longer.
-get in better shape. like tone up.
-be alot more out going.
the thing about that is i get alot more
outgoing outside of school with people who
dont go to my school cause i dont care what
they think of me. and i also get alot more
outgoing towards the summer just because.

i want to do this before high school because im now in 8th grade and like.. well im going to high school next year. i want it to be like a fresh start. haha. =] so yeah any pointers about high school. like do you have class with kids who are in higher grades? and like yeah. any ideas on how to do those things i listed.
please&&thankyou.. =]

Well, don't expect to come into high school and be as pretty or popular as you are now. There will (sadly) be prettier and more popular people.

I actually had classes with 9-11 graders as a freshman, and now I have it with 10-12 graders.

I suggest walking/running. My neighbor and I went yesterday and walked like 3 or 4 miles. It helps with everything. I am SO much tanner and I feel amazing.

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whenever i talk to people i always feel out of place. i feel like i kind of just sit there and just feel really weird. i guess i'm kind of shy, but how do i get into the conversation. it feels like people always are talking and everything and i just sit there. and it also feels like people always hang out with their friends on the weekend and stuff and go out at party, and i just sit at home. i mean, i have friends and all, but i guess i never really hang out with them on the weekends. i mean i want to, but ever weekend i sit by myself. i know i should just call them, but it would be really weird. what can i do?

Join clubs! That's how I met the majority of my friends.

And if it's weird to call them, they aren't your friends. :]

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what is the point of wearing a wife beater under your shirt?

Well, I layer them. So I'll wear one, and then wear my regular shirt.
I also wear them under all white shirts so that my shirts aren't see through.

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This is kind of a weird question, but the only time I ever sang seriously infront of someone is when i auditioned in a musical for my school, and I guess I was really nervous and I sang horribly! I had practiced the song and I thought I sounded decent, but when I got up there it sounded bad! I want to know if you are truly a good singer, then you never sound bad or if good singers sounded bad at first. Because that was the first time I ever sung infront of someone and I hadnt taken singing lessons. Also, how do I know if I sing good? I recorded myself once, but I couldn't really tell cause I am singing quietly so no one can hear.

The website on my profile is a complilation of all of the singing wisdom that I've picked up over the years.

I've never really sounded bad. I actually just had an audition on Saturday, and some of the best soloists in the country were telling me about how incredible I was.

I'd love to listen to your recording and I can hopefully help you, if you'd like.

Leave your column name in your feedback, if you'd like me to contact you.

:]

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ok so i am 13 and i have had sweaty hands since i was in 1st grade. i mean its not lik a lil sweat its lik when i get done typin on the comp thur is a puddle of sweat there. i HATE to give handshakes or high-fives does any one else have this problem i no its weird and if there ANY WAY to solve it id like people's opinions on this too thanx :D

See a doctor. It IS curable.

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