whenever i talk to people i always feel out of place. i feel like i kind of just sit there and just feel really weird. i guess i'm kind of shy, but how do i get into the conversation. it feels like people always are talking and everything and i just sit there. and it also feels like people always hang out with their friends on the weekend and stuff and go out at party, and i just sit at home. i mean, i have friends and all, but i guess i never really hang out with them on the weekends. i mean i want to, but ever weekend i sit by myself. i know i should just call them, but it would be really weird. what can i do?
For the issue of your social problem, you should probably start a conversation of your own with someone. That way, you'll have to be the center of the conversation. Also, when you talk to someone, try to make it sound as if you're interested in the topic, even if it's not. and if the conversation starts to zone out, come up with a new thing to talk about. easy peasy. hope this helps! [ Glitch5000's advice column | Ask Glitch5000 A Question ]
Igotamonopoly answered Tuesday May 15 2007, 12:24 am: Join clubs! That's how I met the majority of my friends.
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